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From: salem,or usa
Registered: Feb 2011

posted December 17, 2014 01:56 PM            

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What would this guy be like???

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From: Pluto with DeepFreeze
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posted December 17, 2014 02:07 PM            

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A deep lover, loves intensely.

Highly sexual, most likely has sexual fantasies/fetishes that no one knows about.

Very giving.

Very loyal.

Will put the needs of his love before his own.

Loves whole heartedly without fault.

Possessive, CAN be jealous and obsessive.

Expects to be treated just as deeply when in love.

Not for the faint hearted.

Will not chase.

When he's found that *one* he won't ever let go.

I'm a Venus in Scorpio, Cancer Mars woman.

Of course this is just my own opinion, some and/or all may not be true for some. The house position and aspects can add or subtract from both.

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From: salem,or usa
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posted December 17, 2014 04:03 PM            

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Will not chase!! Sounds like him I've never met a man that I wasn't sure how he felt or what he thought about me....it very confusing! He made the initial contact and approached me he would occassionally message me invite me over to hangout but after that....I felt like I was doing the work lije messaging him first saying hello it was weird for me

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From: salem,or usa
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posted December 17, 2014 05:17 PM            

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Anyone else have some input?

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From: CO, USA
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posted December 18, 2014 06:46 PM            

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Anyone with such a high intensity combo is going to secretly fear rejection or unrequited love to some extent. Scorpio Venus, automatically, creates an individual who may initially seem reserved, even distant despite their occasional affections or displays of interest because this person is not willing to put his heart on the line. Cancer Mars can be reticent and indirect, taking sidelong actions instead of approaching things head-on. The person acts with his emotions as the compass/in the driving seat. And this creates a person who may not be able to act the stronger his feelings become!

So couple strong feelings with a fear of rejection and you have a person who desperately craves love yet cannot always reach out and get what he wants. He may just be struggling to declare his feelings openly and commit himself despite his burning desire for commitment, because he is still 'testing the waters', so to speak... it's characteristic of someone with a double Water influence in their sexual planets.

I'm a female with the same placements. Also, I like all of Barbie's descriptors, I agree with all of them. You'll find this person will be very loyal, giving, but may expect you to intuit what they want and be more assertive than he is. So keep that in mind as well. Again, indirect action and a fear of taking direct action. You're going to have to step it up and take the reins.

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posted December 18, 2014 07:21 PM            

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These influences will be affected by his sun and moon too...

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