posted December 17, 2014 10:20 PM            

Never had that.

I like squares more than oppositions though. I have a buttload of squares in my chart so I guess I like the torture. Feels normal to me.

posted December 18, 2014 12:55 AM            

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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
I could punch him and I think he would punch me back and then we'd make out, lolol.

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posted December 18, 2014 01:50 AM            

But some "squares" don't feel nearly as bad as others.Oppositions can be even more debilitating mind you.

For example Cancer squaring Aries is quite intense as compared to Cancer squaring Libra.

But Capricorn squaring Libra or Aries is not so bad (IMO) as when Capricorn opposes Cancer.DRAMA!!!

A square feels like a disagreement that neither of you are wanting to "lose". Especially with fixed sign squares- those are the worst and can go on for a very long time.

Everyone has disagreements, its only human. But with square aspects,it seems that the disgreements are more frequent and make the association between the two people extremely volatile and unstable.

The square(like the opposition)is ironically also very potent and can be confused for "attraction".As it can quite easily "double" up as a conjunction aspect.

Squares can be sexually potent. Especially between certain planets.The tension between the two people can evoke sexual tension in some instances. But the gratification often lacks sensitivity and can feel like a violent act.

Some couples fight with each other just before having sex.I have noticed that most people who stay in terrible relationships, mitigate the turbulent nature of the relationship by explaining how good the sex is.

An example is the woman whom I volunteered with at an NGO.She had Moon/Mars Moon/Pluto square and Mars opposite Uranus. So I guess she was going to be drawn to such relationships-judging by her chart.

She confided in me on how difficult it was to leave her abusive boyfriend.I asked her why it took her so long and she said that besides the self-esteem issues she had and his incorrigible mind games,the sex was really,really good.

So she thought that he was the kind of man who loved "violently" etc.

I get that,I also have Moon/Mars square and I must admit that after an argument with my SO,the heated exchanges between us make for a pretty wild make-up session.

posted December 18, 2014 02:57 AM            

Other than my Saturn Squares and Neptune squares, my personal planets are sextile and conjunct.

I think it's a mixture of both because of the rest of his chart. Yes, his Mars is in Pisces, but his Moon is in Sag and his Mercury and Venus are in Gemini. The Sag and Gemini compliment my chart GREAT. Well, on paper.

posted December 18, 2014 12:50 PM            

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Originally posted by wheresthemoon:
In synastry, I think I prefer trines because it usually means the other person is actually my type. For me, when there have been squares (say Venus square Mars, as opposed to trine) there is attraction, but it's not as easy. For me it doesn't feel as natural. They are the type of person I would probably feel attraction to, but wouldn't pursue. I wouldn't feel the probability of sexual compatibility between us. Just my experience.

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posted December 18, 2014 01:30 PM            

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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
What about conjunctions?

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Honestly I haven't loved Venus/Mars conjunctions either, at least not with a romantic partner. I think I like them better than squares, but usually I think I get a feeling they're too much like me.

In a friendship, they're great, especially sun/mercury conjunctions. It's like they can read my mind. I think conjunctions are great for understanding but maybe not attraction as much. For me anyway.