posted December 19, 2014 10:07 PM            

Who do you trust more–men or women? Are you more masculine or more feminine? I am not referring to looks here. I am referring to the essential you. Stay tuned

The chart can answer every question you have. Some people will say they do not trust men. Some people will say they do not trust women. It is clear that the perception is in the eye of the beholder. The chart has the answer and it is an easy one. The answer lies in what occurs with the Sun and the Moon. The Sun represents one’s father, all men and the masculine side of oneself.

The Moon represents one’s literal mother, all women and the feminine part of oneself.

I like to offer easy ways for the novice to understand the chart and this is one of those. When one studies both the Sun and the Moon in any given chart, one will appear much more assaulted than the other. The more assaulted one is the sex you do not trust. The more assaulted one is the parent who was the hardest. The more assaulted one is the part of yourself which is not as accessible.

I will give a personal example. My Sun makes all good aspects. It trines Neptune and sextiles Pluto. It has wonderful asteroids conjunct it such as Europa, Jung and Circe. It has the Fixed Star Betelguese in an exact conjunction. Hence, one could know that I had a good relationship with my father. I am more comfortable with men than women. I feel that I am more masculine, inside, than feminine.

I will let you in on my Moon. It makes a 9 degree conjunction with Mars which shows a violent relationship with the mother. My relationship with my mother was very hard. My Moon has a 7 degree trine with Saturn. I see this as my grandmother, a woman who gave me roots. My Moon does nothing else, planet wise. It is close to being Unaspected. This would be the classic aspect for the unmothered person. Mine is not quite Unaspected, so I would call it Semi-Unaspected.

This is a term I coined after discovering that many people with almost Unaspected Planets had many traits of the genuinely Unaspected Planet. All this to say that my Sun is very much more blessed than my Moon. As far as Asteroids, I have Nemesis conjunct my Moon. This would be a classic aspect of a native whose mother who was an enemy. I have since seen this in the charts of other women with the same background as mine.

Hence, I fit into the category of trusting men more and I do women. I have done many charts on people, in which I have seen the same issue. Knowing this one slice of Astrology will help you. It will make the people you don’t understand more understandable, even if that means yourself.

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posted December 19, 2014 10:26 PM            

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Originally posted by Koho:
How would this apply to an unaspected Venus? (not counting minors?)

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It doesn't lol

I have one, K. Do you? Which sign is it?

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posted December 19, 2014 10:28 PM            

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posted December 19, 2014 10:39 PM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Thank you for feeling safe enough to share that SS. Do you want to put your chart up here? xx

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Of course. I do trust you, and I wanted to share my story since it felt very relevant to the above topic. I can share my chart. Here's a visual. I may delete my above post later if I feel uncomfortable about it being here. But it's OK to keep it up for now.

posted December 19, 2014 10:50 PM            

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posted December 19, 2014 11:12 PM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
It doesn't lol

I have one, K. Do you? Which sign is it?

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posted December 19, 2014 11:15 PM            

Really bad pain with the mother, How close?

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posted December 19, 2014 11:15 PM            

Gemini Venus in the 9th

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posted December 19, 2014 11:24 PM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
K

Gemini Venus in the 9th

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Oh! Probably aspecting my Mars Aries or my Venus! I love love love Venus Gemini people. It just sparks my Aries Mars into really energetic and fun times whether its platonic or romantic!

posted December 20, 2014 07:47 AM            

YOU are very interesting, too!

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posted December 20, 2014 07:47 AM            

I really, really think your issues are your perceptual lens and that is the same for all of us!

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posted December 20, 2014 08:39 AM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
What do you mean when you say lens?

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Each person has a manner of looking at the world. The chart shows us this. *I* have all good aspects to my son--marvelous aspects. I trust men. I have male friends very easily.

However, my Moon has hard aspect and I have a very hard time trusting women.

It is really painful for me, actually.

If I had to marry a woman, I don't think I could.

I could say that woman are not trustworthy etc BUT it is MY lens, not them.

Some woman are. Some are not. The same goes for men.

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posted December 20, 2014 08:51 AM            

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posted December 20, 2014 09:33 AM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:

I could say that woman are not trustworthy etc BUT it is MY lens, not them.

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posted December 20, 2014 09:42 AM            

You are not "imagining" it, per se. It is your lens. I find it literally painful to trust women. I feel feel pain in my heart, even, sometimes. However, some people feel that way about men. There cannot be a general rule because some people are opposite to us, you and me. Hence, it has to be our own lens.

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posted December 20, 2014 09:49 AM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
[b]So in my case women are really cold and [b]i'm not just imagining it

You are not "imagining" it, per se. It is your lens. I find it literally painful to trust women. I feel feel pain in my heart, even. However, some people feel that way about men. There cannot be a general rule because some people are opposite to us, you and me. Hence, it has to be our own lens.

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posted December 20, 2014 01:41 PM            

I have just realized also that Virgo/Pisces in my chart is intercepted [as in the houses are intercepted] but I do not know too much about this concept.

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posted December 20, 2014 02:01 PM            

I think there is NO group which is all "bad", per se. Hence, for the people who have problems with one group, I think it is the person,( more specifically the chart) not the group, per se.

I put myself in this category and so I speak from that vantage point too

PS Your brother who was a real ladies man, stick up his chart.

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posted December 22, 2014 08:47 AM            

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Originally posted by DaniPepper87:
I have Sun square Moon... I think I trust more in women than in men!! lol

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You may have asteroids on each planet that modify things too but this placement can make you feel your head is warring with your heart, Dani

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