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posted December 20, 2014 12:42 AM            

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I know this topic is posted all over the place here but I still have questions. I'm fairly new.

I'm just still confused about how pluto affects relationships through synastry. For example, I just started talking with a girl and her and I have sun square pluto. I'm the pluto, she is the sun and it's tight, like .25 orb or whatever. So, who exactly is the lesson for? I'm falling into the common themes of obsession, sadness, etc because I feel as though she's left me or is done with the relationship. But she seems like she's scott free and unaffected. So who exactly needs to transform since transformation is Pluto's game? both or one more than the other? Me? Since I'm pluto? or am I doing the transforming and not even realizing it?

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posted December 20, 2014 03:28 AM            

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Originally posted by cchampliss2:
I know this topic is posted all over the place here but I still have questions. I'm fairly new.

I'm just still confused about how pluto affects relationships through synastry. For example, I just started talking with a girl and her and I have sun square pluto. I'm the pluto, she is the sun and it's tight, like .25 orb or whatever. So, who exactly is the lesson for? I'm falling into the common themes of obsession, sadness, etc because I feel as though she's left me or is done with the relationship. But she seems like she's scott free and unaffected. So who exactly needs to transform since transformation is Pluto's game? both or one more than the other? Me? Since I'm pluto? or am I doing the transforming and not even realizing it?

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From my understanding, you will be the one who is transformed...

But I am pretty certain she will be affected by other aspects as well?
post the chart and people will be able to help you understand better

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posted December 20, 2014 03:46 AM            

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Hmmmm...

I am Asc, Mars and he is Pluto. I know he is mesmerized by my Asc (my outer persona) at times but it also scares him, which he tries to control with very subtle things.

He has Pluto op Venus and his Venus is op my Asc, Mars and I can very easily hurt him with words if not careful.

We have a pretty severe synastry though so I can't pinpoint any of it really. Lots of Uranus squares/oppositions, and Saturn conjunctions.

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posted December 20, 2014 02:25 PM            

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Welcome! Moving this to Interpersonal Astrology.

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