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Topic: Which natal aspects make it hard to forgive (and forget)?
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ikja
Knowflake Posts: 335
From: London, UK
Registered: Oct 2014
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posted December 20, 2014 02:30 PM
  
I find that the wrongs people do to me, often resurface or replay in my mind and I have to create space between me and the person to resolve the issue.
Even though I do actually want to be close(r) to them!What aspects traditionally make it harder to forgive and forget? IP: Logged |
lalalinda
Moderator Posts: 4117
From: nevada
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 20, 2014 10:53 PM
That would be a fixed sign trait.
They're notorious for their stubbornness.------------------
"For all those who believe, expect a miracle.”
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deepseablues
Knowflake Posts: 434
From: the ocean floor
Registered: Jan 2014
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posted December 20, 2014 11:00 PM
One of Scorpio's main lessons is resentment and learning to let go of it and bitterness. So I would say look to Scorpio placements or aspects to the Ruler of or Scorpio house placements... Though I am sure there are others.Forgiving and forgetting is a learned lesson for most Scorpios, part of the transformation process. Resentment is a poison that poisons the heart and soul and in the end hurts the one holding the resentment more than the ones the resentment is being held against... Am speaking from a place of experience, not judgement. IP: Logged |
ikja
Knowflake Posts: 335
From: London, UK
Registered: Oct 2014
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posted December 20, 2014 11:39 PM
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Originally posted by deepseablues:
One of Scorpio's main lessons is resentment and learning to let go of it and bitterness. So I would say look to Scorpio placements or aspects to the Ruler of or Scorpio house placements... Though I am sure there are others.Forgiving and forgetting is a learned lesson for most Scorpios, part of the transformation process. Resentment is a poison that poisons the heart and soul and in the end hurts the one holding the resentment more than the ones the resentment is being held against... Am speaking from a place of experience, not judgement.
Aha! I am a Scorpio rising!
I'm trying to overcome resentment, I often think I am doing quite well until it is trigged by something. And it's a fixed sign... so, I guess LaLaLinda has a point too! IP: Logged |
Lonake
Knowflake Posts: 9910
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Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 21, 2014 01:57 AM
quote:
Originally posted by deepseablues:
Resentment is a poison that poisons the heart and soul and in the end hurts the one holding the resentment more than the ones the resentment is being held against.
You've got that one right.Poisoned souls.
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hannaramaa
Moderator Posts: 9149
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Registered: Nov 2011
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posted December 21, 2014 02:02 AM
quote:
Originally posted by deepseablues:
One of Scorpio's main lessons is resentment and learning to let go of it and bitterness. So I would say look to Scorpio placements or aspects to the Ruler of or Scorpio house placements... Though I am sure there are others.Forgiving and forgetting is a learned lesson for most Scorpios, part of the transformation process. Resentment is a poison that poisons the heart and soul and in the end hurts the one holding the resentment more than the ones the resentment is being held against... Am speaking from a place of experience, not judgement.
I'm somewhat Plutonian and this resonates so much for me, thank you. IP: Logged |
7ate9
Newflake Posts: 17
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Registered: Nov 2014
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posted December 21, 2014 04:58 AM
I speak from experience that cap will never forget. But i do forgive, eventually, even tho i might give the cold shoulder with zero difficulty for a certain time. Feeling betrayed in some way just cuts us so deep.IP: Logged |
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