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posted December 20, 2014 08:08 PM            

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To better explain the subject; I was very interested in this guy and this morning, he picked me up to take me to work. His car was a mess and I was instantly turned off. Ever since, I haven't felt a damn thing towards him. I wasn't particularly "disgusted", but neat and organized is more my cup of tea.

That got me thinking.. What in a natal chart would cause this? I assumed Virgo placements but I'm completely Virgo void. No planets, no house cusps, nothing in Virgo, so there's got to be another culprit..

What do you guys think?

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posted December 20, 2014 08:53 PM            

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Moon/Uranus, Moon/Neptune

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posted December 20, 2014 09:12 PM            

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Having Virgo myself I've always thought Virgo was more about wanting things to function as they should. Their gadgets and things to work flawless. To have the fastest computer or phone and that sort of thing, rather than clean.
Im the same as you and we both have Gemini Moon but IDK if that could be it at all.
But I know I'd be put off too.

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posted December 20, 2014 10:39 PM            

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Venus/Uranus?

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posted December 21, 2014 05:25 PM            

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I have neither Moon/Uranus nor Moon/Neptune aspects.

I think the Gemini moon could create fickleness.. But to the degree that I am off-put by uncleanliness, I really would have associated it with Virgo traits and qualities. Every Virgo I know, or anyone with personal planets in Virgo, truly lives up to the stereotype; dirty finger nails ONE TIME has ruined it for one of my friends, even though the guy was a mechanic. I understood wholeheartedly. Even though it's petty and unfair, it's just one of my deal-breakers.

I have Venus quintile Uranus + Neptune.. How could that affect it? I know the rep Uranus gets but I have a harmonious aspect between the two.

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posted December 21, 2014 09:14 PM            

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I'm kind of the same as you nor do I have any planets in Virgo or Libra.

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posted December 22, 2014 01:31 AM            

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how's your 6th house lookin'?

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posted December 22, 2014 06:42 AM            

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I've only got Jupiter in Libra in my 6th.

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posted December 22, 2014 12:39 PM            

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Do I remember correctly ~ are you a Pisces sun?

My Pisces moon has functioned like this...if I interpreted sloppiness as a sign that they just didn't care about me, I was turned off.

If, however, the guy had been racing to my rescue after I got a flat tire, and I knew he had no time to clean his car before this "date," I wouldn't care about it, I would be too grateful and charmed by the other circumstances.

Basically when I was dating I needed assurance every step of the way that they were genuinely interested in me, or I would fade out and disappear. Messy car would be one indication that they weren't that into me. I would then reciprocate that feeling immediately.

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posted December 22, 2014 12:47 PM            

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I have venus conjunct neptune and uranus.
This would turn me off but I think it'd be my saturnian influences.

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posted December 22, 2014 12:49 PM            

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Oh yeah I have Venus conjunct Neptune too. Venus exactly semisextile Uranus (1 minute orb.)

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posted December 22, 2014 05:22 PM            

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I definitely would overthink it to the point where I would be like "wow he mustn't be that interested - I would want to give off the best impression possible, so I would make sure it's spotless!"

No Pisces placements at all.. Taurus sun and AC (hence my username ) but I do have sun in the 12th as well as a 12th house stellium in Aries.. So maybe the 12th house energy is giving me some Pisces/Neptune-like traits?

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posted December 22, 2014 09:20 PM            

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Sorry, I was thinking of IV ASTRO...I think he's a Pisces. (?)

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I definitely would overthink it to the point where I would be like "wow he mustn't be that interested - I would want to give off the best impression possible, so I would make sure it's spotless!"

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Yup.

I think that line of reasoning could be a factor of your service-oriented 12H Sun + stellium...it comes naturally to you to want to give the other person a great experience. And things will work out best if they naturally want to do the same for you.

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