posted December 25, 2014 08:30 PM            

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posted December 26, 2014 06:30 AM            

Is there possibly any other way of looking at this.

posted December 26, 2014 07:55 AM            

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posted December 26, 2014 08:37 AM            

He may try to be parental but it may not feel too bad due to the trine of Saturn/Moon and not a hard aspect so it could be sweet

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posted December 26, 2014 08:39 AM            

I think the biggest problem may be that you may have struggle a bit understanding the hearts of each other( moon to Moon aspects) but you can do it if you try due to good Mercury aspects.

Want to put up the Comp and are you gonna give me the back story, Dee

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posted December 26, 2014 09:21 AM            

Honestly its a long term relationship
that has run it's course for me. i want out and am biding my time.

posted December 26, 2014 09:42 AM            

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posted December 26, 2014 02:30 PM            

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posted December 27, 2014 01:47 AM            

I really value Mars-Venus contacts and none here. Moon to Pluto and Saturn is factorable but without the basic sexual attraction aspects I wouldn't of assumed this generational energy would manifest into something of a sexual relationship.

Not too many relationshipy house overlays except for the Sun bit into the dudes 5th house and it's one sided.

Nice aspects to the Sun signs, but the signs themselves are not truly compatible.

Good mercury contact here, it's the strongest part of the synastry IMO.

Venus-Jupiter is nice too. It probably made you have fun times together. Probably increased goodwill and tolerance.

But honestly, generational aspects lose value to me without support of the personals.

So I probably would of chalked you two up as friends and been wrong. Back to the drawing board for me and my techniques then

Edit: 7th house overlays, now it makes more sense. Missing something so basic is what I get for doing astrology on my cell phone from my bed

Ami did a good job catching that Saturn(his) parental stuff since it is hitting both the Sun and Moon in synastry in a good way. But the troubles comes from the opposition of Moon-Saturn in the composite which I factor as stronger over time

And since it is his Saturn hitting your Moon in the synastry and not mutual I would imagine you may represent the moon more in the opposition of the composite and he the saturn. I imagine it as wiring in my head I hope it makes sense.

But yea, totally tell the guy,
Hey man, you're manifesting that Capricorn Saturn energy of the composite too much. Quit harshing the mellow of the cancer composite moon and relaaaax. Just feeeeel

posted December 27, 2014 02:49 AM            

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Originally posted by Koho:
If I had just seen this chart w/o confirmation of a relationship I would of said these two people could of been better as friends.

I really value Mars-Venus contacts and none here. Moon to Pluto and Saturn is factorable but without the basic sexual attraction aspects I wouldn't of assumed this generational energy would manifest into something of a sexual relationship.

Not too many relationshipy house overlays except for the Sun bit into the dudes 5th house and it's one sided.

Nice aspects to the Sun signs, but the signs themselves are not truly compatible.

Good mercury contact here, it's the strongest part of the synastry IMO.

Venus-Jupiter is nice too. It probably made you have fun times together. Probably increased goodwill and tolerance.

But honestly, generational aspects lose value to me without support of the personals.

So I probably would of chalked you two up as friends and been wrong. Back to the drawing board for me and my techniques then

Edit: 7th house overlays, now it makes more sense. Missing something so basic is what I get for doing astrology on my cell phone from my bed

Ami did a good job catching that Saturn(his) parental stuff since it is hitting both the Sun and Moon in synastry in a good way. But the troubles comes from the opposition of Moon-Saturn in the composite which I factor as stronger over time

And since it is his Saturn hitting your Moon in the synastry and not mutual I would imagine you may represent the moon more in the opposition of the composite and he the saturn. I imagine it as wiring in my head I hope it makes sense.

But yea, totally tell the guy,
Hey man, you're manifesting that Capricorn Saturn energy of the composite too much. Quit harshing the mellow of the cancer composite moon and relaaaax. Just feeeeel

Also important to note that Mercury, strong on the synastry is getting getting really beat up in the composite.

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Koho.

That is the Absolute truth of the matter,we should have just been friends.
There were lots of fun times just like you said
Also your right about it being one sided on his part.

Thank you,i would realy be interested in more of what you have to say about this

posted December 27, 2014 03:36 AM            

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Originally posted by Dee:

Koho.

That is the Absolute truth of the matter,we should have just been friends.
There were lots of fun times just like you said
Also your right about it being one sided on his part.

Thank you,i would realy be interested in more of what you have to say about this

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Ok! I'll try. I'm still a pony with only a few tricks which is why I'm so reliant on the basics.

The reason I think this relationship happened, aside from the Moon-Pluto trine (which is known to be sticky) is that 7th house Aquarius influence in the synastry.

I would guess you often find people with Aquarius energy (any of the personal planets in Aquarius) as attractive. Sexy if Mars, beautiful and comforting if Venus, wonderful and full personality if Sun, and yadda yadda yadda.

The gentleman has Sun in Aqua(overlayed in the 6th), and his Venus in Aqua overlayed into your 7th. But the problem is, I tink, is that you are mostly grounded in Earth energy except for your Mars in Libra (love you Mars in Libra folk).

So this is a difficult combination. Aquarius energy brings you in, and the more Aquarian energy they have the more I think you can see them as your type. But once the energy begins playing you'll find that you reallyyyyyyyy don't make too many meaningful aspects to Aquarius folk. Had his Venus in Aqua made that trine to your Mars in Libra there would of been some significant indications that this person really fits you well in the arenas ruled by Mars and Venus. Being in the same signs do help but a tight orb within that same sign just charges it up as I'm sure we all agree on.

7th house descendant attractions can be tricky if the element doesn't match the rest of your placements. Gotta have the energy you seek match what you are to make that part of life a little easier I think or else you miss out on all the sextiles, trines, and conjunctions from 7th house synastry.

Like for me, I have Scorpio on the DSC so women with Scorpio placements melt me. But I also have Sun and Merc in Scorpio, and my Moon is in Cappy. So Scorpio women bring me in with 7th house attraction AND they'll usually conjunct my Sun and Merc, and sextile my Moon. If my DSC was in, i unno, Leo, I'd probably pursue the Leo only to find that they didn't really match my Scorpio Sun, Merc, or my Cappy Moon.

So this issue kinda jumps on top of the issues with the aspects.

posted December 27, 2014 03:58 AM            

I had two long term relationships prior to this one

they were both Agua's

their energy does draw me in

but what started out as lighthearted

now turned controlling.

he also seems delusional

posted December 27, 2014 04:17 AM            

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Originally posted by Dee:
you nailed that right.

I had two long term relationships prior to this one

they were both Agua's

their energy does draw me in

but what started out as lighthearted

now turned controlling.

he also seems delusional

no matter how direct i am with him he's acting
like were in a fairy tale romance

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From the sounds of it your troubles are definitely coming from the composite. I'm a firm believer that the composite plays out stronger in the mid-late game of the relationship and I value synastry in the beginning to tell me the foundations.

The delusion is represented in the composite opposition of Neptune and Venus.

"This relationship can begin with a lot of hope and shared fantasies, but there is a time when realities set in and you might realize that a lot of what you've been projecting to your partner and believing about your partner is not based on reality. One or both of you might feel pressure to live up to the other's fantasies or high opinion, or you might be trying to prove your relationship to disapproving or cynical outsiders. While you might feel that you intuitively understand one another, and that you don't need to define your connection or your boundaries, it is more than likely that you don't truly know what it is your partner wants or expects of this relationship. Misunderstandings can lead to major disappointments, so it is critical that you allow one another to feel comfortable enough to express your more human needs and wants from each other. Fear of hurting one another with the truth can be strong, but eventually you will discover that lies hurt more than the truth. Hypersensitivity and treating one another with kid gloves are possible themes as you strive towards a spiritual or unconditional love, but it is vital that you ground yourselves from time to time, or this relationship might be confused and unclear."

I'd also check his natal chart for inherent Neptune tendencies to idealize.

You guys definitely have a lot of oppositions and squares to deal with in the composite so I'd imagine if you explore them more issues would be highlighted.

posted December 28, 2014 11:30 PM            

I would love to look at anything you'd like to show me. Can we start again?

posted December 29, 2014 01:58 PM            

Moon rules the chart.

First thing that jumped out at me was the Moon opposition to Saturn.
Both are trying to dominate.
Saturn has the edge because he is in his home sign of Capricorn AND exalted in the 7th house.
The Moon is also in it's home sign of Cancer but in detriment in the 1st.

This opposition shows that you are at odds.
Both have different needs with the Moon focused on the self (1) and Saturn focused on the relationship (7)
Saturn just hates to let go, I equate it to not wanting to give up to time invested.

The 2nd house Mars/Leo is square to a 5th house Neptune/Scorpio.
Here Mars puts his personal wants up against Neptune's slight variation on Mar's reality.
This feels like a game, a series of compromises. 2 steps ahead one step back.
(supported by the Moon/Jupiter opposition)
Generous Jupiter wants to be fair.

Directness doesn't work?
Time to take action.

Next year is your year Dee.
Jupiter will be in Virgo and you will get what you want.
I'm curious why you chose a Composite chart to post instead of a Comparison?

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posted December 29, 2014 05:01 PM            

we are at odds we are two opposites,i don't know why we ever got together we have nothing in common,

Directness dosen't work,you wouldn't believe some of the things i say to him,there honest direct downright mean and nasty,i have never been like this with anyone else before.

i can't wait till next year.
when i finally get to close the door on him I never want any contact with him again,and i know it's bad to say but i'm going to enjoy his misery.