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Topic: Venus/Mars in the natal
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socialgraffiti Knowflake Posts: 522 From: Registered: Jul 2013
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posted December 28, 2014 05:45 PM
I've noticed with Venus/Mars aspects (specifically the conjunction, trine, square and opposition) draw people towards them. Like something about them gets people wanting to know them.Does anyone know anything else about this pairing? IP: Logged |
Pretty Theft Knowflake Posts: 136 From: Chicago Registered: Nov 2014
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posted December 28, 2014 05:56 PM
My boyfriend has a tight Mars/Venus conjunction in 0' Aries -- intense. I knew another guy who was born two days after him and he had the same conjunction. They are both definitely noticeable people, both Aquarians, but mine has a Cancer moon and the other guy has a rather obvious Leo moon.Both catch the eye, but mine is a little more incognito. Once he talks, you wonder why you didn't see him before, and then he is so charming and goofy and charismatic that you want to stick around to see what happens next. (Setting things on fire, maybe) The other guy, I was never attracted to, but plenty of girls were, and he is known in some circles. Actually, both of the guys have a bit of a reputation. Not necessarily bad or good. Just ... out there. Visible. Magnetic. IP: Logged |
Jo B unregistered
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posted December 28, 2014 07:27 PM
I have it (wide conj) in Leo. I'm not sure it actually draws people to you but you do tend to get noticed. Aura sort of thing. IP: Logged |
Supreme cT Knowflake Posts: 927 From: NJ Registered: Jan 2014
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posted December 28, 2014 08:15 PM
I agree a lot of people that i know that get noticed a lot by the opposite sex have venus/mars aspects i always thought that if mars aspects venus and venus is our planet of attraction that it would give off a primal raw sexual mars like energy that would attract others to them subconsciously IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19 unregistered
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posted December 28, 2014 08:43 PM
Absolutely. I have a pretty tight trine. I feel it also helps people see me for me, meaning how I accept myself, my flaws and all. I'm a happy person, smile a lot which makes me more approachable. It creates this warmness, happy go lucky vibe in my personality. IP: Logged |
theunknown Knowflake Posts: 3182 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted December 29, 2014 12:53 AM
I know a few with the trines who aren't that noticeable... Sometimes I think astro interpretations are a bit dramatic Like the ones for Mars-uranus or moon-uranus is like: you are the spark! Everyone notices you! I've noticed there are plenty of those people who are just plain janes/joesSometimes it's your other aspects that get you notice. Scorpio energy is one of them... Or Leo. Fyi, I have the conjunct IP: Logged |
AnastasiyaEnchanted Knowflake Posts: 417 From: Canada Registered: Aug 2013
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posted December 29, 2014 01:02 AM
I have venus conjunct mars in Sagittarius 3 degree orb. Jupiter is also part of the conjunction. I don't think i give off a raw animalistic energy but i do notice that I turn a lot of heads where ever i go (don't mean to sound cocky). This aspect also gives me passion in everything i do and makes me the pursuer in relationships. Another thing, i noticed that i cant seem to make guy friends - they always want more. I always wanted to have a friend that was guy like other girls but it never works out because at the beginning of every encounter i can sense it can turn into something romantic even if i am not interested. Maybe this is the case because mars rules my 7th house and venus rules my first? IP: Logged |
frankie2912 Knowflake Posts: 1662 From: Here and There Registered: Apr 2011
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posted December 30, 2014 02:46 AM
i have Venus in Scorpio trine Mars in Pisces at 1 degree applying...I attract a lot of stares, looks, even when I'm dressed in jeans and a hoodie and looking like warmed over hell. I also attract a lot of weirdos..like, creepy weird. IP: Logged |
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posted December 30, 2014 10:11 AM
quote: Originally posted by frankie2912: i have Venus in Scorpio trine Mars in Pisces at 1 degree applying...I attract a lot of stares, looks, even when I'm dressed in jeans and a hoodie and looking like warmed over hell. I also attract a lot of weirdos..like, creepy weird.
Yes!! I'm Venus in Scorpio trine Cancer Mars, 5 degree orb, and attract the same. It's even creepier when the weirdos start saying things to you, gross, inappropriate things. IP: Logged |
YellowGerbera Knowflake Posts: 1043 From: Registered: Jul 2014
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posted December 30, 2014 07:06 PM
Wow so interesting! I experience everything that's mentioned here already! I have Mars/Venus conjunction (1 deg orb) in Aries. This trines my Asc. 
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posted December 31, 2014 07:10 AM
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next to neptune Knowflake Posts: 3104 From: The Moon Registered: Aug 2013
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posted December 31, 2014 07:46 AM
you're definitely on to something. People with this aspect, get extremely much attention, mostly from the opposite sex. A little too much, for my taste. I mean, how can you know if people actually like you, and not just think your a sexbomb? It's a little irritating aspect, I feel happy that I don't got it, but I have scorpio venus in 5th house trine venus, so I even got my attention fair enough just from that.
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dreamysag Newflake Posts: 6 From: Registered: Jan 2015
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posted January 09, 2015 01:32 PM
@frankie2912 @Barbiegirl19 This is a funny and interesting shared experience! What are your ascendants?I have the same exact placements as frankie - Venus Scorpio/Mars Pisces in 1 degree orb. I haven't noticed people being attracted to me lately, but in the past I did run into some characters. I think my ascendant in Scorpio might add an "unapproachable" look to me, so people don't try to talk to me, lol. IP: Logged |
suireen Knowflake Posts: 511 From: Registered: Oct 2012
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posted December 03, 2015 11:26 PM
I was just looking for info about this aspect on google when I came across this thread haha. I have Venus-Mars conjunction on Capricorn 11th house. (Sag Sun, Taurus Moon, Pisces ASC)What I've noticed is that I've attracted quite a lot of older men.. Usually 10+ older than me. I was slightly attracted to them too and I've never dated any of them haha. I ALWAYS end up becoming really close friends with all of them. From time to time, we do have those 'stimulating and hot' conversations but we always draw the line.  IP: Logged |
StubbornVirgo Knowflake Posts: 2946 From: Welcome to Mercury Registered: Jul 2015
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posted December 04, 2015 12:20 AM
quote: Originally posted by next to neptune: A little too much, for my taste. I mean, how can you know if people actually like you, and not just think your a sexbomb?
That's how my square feels. Venus in Virgo square Mars in Gemini exact. I'm a long term relationship type of gal but guys just assume that I'm up for a fling. It quickly becomes very irritating. I don't know if I would call it being magnetic, though. It's just like the energy - raw, primal, whatever you want to call it - is on the surface for everyone to see, even though many times the person who has it isn't even aware of it. It's not like with a Plutonian person or someone who has Pluto aspects or Pluto in the 1st house, though. Their energy is there all the time. Venus square Mars seems to play out in the initial interaction...like, as soon as they realize that you're so much more than what they're seeing on the surface, they're gone. Or at least that's how I've experienced it. I have noticed that other women are aware of that energy, they're just not attracted to it. But it can still make them very jealous/possessive of a guy. But as far as magnetism, intrigue, making people want to get to know you...I think my Pluto square ASC probably has more to do with that. Venus square Mars feels more like short-lived curiosity for me. IP: Logged |
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posted December 04, 2015 12:39 AM
I don't have a Venus/Mars aspect. But I have a Venus/Pluto aspect (sextile)I get attention from the opposite sex also but any idea how this would plays out different from Mars? IP: Logged |
teasel Knowflake Posts: 21840 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 04, 2015 01:11 AM
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gh1IxhPwMb4 A comment above reminded me of this. I used to get a lot of that sort of attention, and I didn't like it. I also disliked women's boyfriends hitting on me. I didn't intentionally give out that sort of energy, and had no interest in them, so I don't know why they bothered. I have an 8th house Moon/Venus/SN square Mars in Pisces, trine Pluto, sextile Jupiter, and inconjunct Uranus/ascendant. IP: Logged |
Aquafine Knowflake Posts: 27 From: Registered: Jan 2021
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posted February 02, 2021 01:58 PM
quote: Originally posted by frankie2912: i have Venus in Scorpio trine Mars in Pisces at 1 degree applying...I attract a lot of stares, looks, even when I'm dressed in jeans and a hoodie and looking like warmed over hell. I also attract a lot of weirdos..like, creepy weird.
SAME I also had a couple of incidents where a random guy would follow me around, and I'm not even pretty so that's definitely creepy
------------------ I'm a black belt when I'm beating up on myself, But I'm an expert at giving love to somebody else 💔 IP: Logged |
Aquafine Knowflake Posts: 27 From: Registered: Jan 2021
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posted February 02, 2021 02:04 PM
Teasel's comment just refreshed my memoryAlot of times women with boyfriends (who are my distant friends or I somehow know them) would be mean to me or even threaten me to stay away from their man when I was never into their man not at all (yuck), it was quite frustrating cause I could never understand why this happened to me alot of times.. ------------------ I'm a black belt when I'm beating up on myself, But I'm an expert at giving love to somebody else 💔 IP: Logged |
Dumuzi Knowflake Posts: 3936 From: Registered: Oct 2018
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posted February 02, 2021 02:58 PM
i have it in libra/cap (venus in libra conjunct my ascendant mars in cap square, south node is on my genus/ascendant too) i do get a lot of sexual attention both unwanted and otherwise i have pluto in the first in scorpio in placidus as well which someone mentioned which probably contributes (pluto is sextile my sun) it's hard to really narrow the energy down because my venus and mars are part of a t-square with my moon (which is on my descendant) and my moon and venus are part of a kite with mercury and uranus IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 74237 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted February 02, 2021 03:15 PM
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Somna7H Knowflake Posts: 1738 From: East India Company Registered: Apr 2018
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posted February 02, 2021 09:57 PM
Used to know a woman with Venus Conjunct Mars Conjunct Sag Asc. All very close. Very Animalistic in nature. Never satisfied with one man. Always hungry for more. Never stick to one. IP: Logged |
Somna7H Knowflake Posts: 1738 From: East India Company Registered: Apr 2018
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posted February 02, 2021 10:00 PM
I don't have those Venus Mars. My Venus and Moon both Trine Mars with very wide orb. Mars Conjunct Pluto in Libra. I'm a very plain guy. Always stay away from raw energy.IP: Logged |
SimplyLuna Knowflake Posts: 587 From: Registered: Jul 2017
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posted February 02, 2021 10:28 PM
I know two people with Venus/Mars Aries - One was my ex - Somehow was easy to talk to. The opposite sex like how he's confident and calm at the same time - at least thats what he told me. My exes' sis in law had Venus/Mars Aries too - I would say she can talk to anyone. Confident and charming at the same time. My friend has the Venus/Mars/Uranus in Scorpio. He's good with talking to people too. People do look at him and talk him seriously. He can charm ppl but unlike the Aries placement, I think he's more reserved. But he does have a push to charm with the Mars there. I know someone with Venus (virgo) sextile Mars cancer - but it seems very very very mild. I don't see that appeal. Even at less than 1 degree. Than another ex with V in Gemini square M in Virgo. He was.... a chaser. When he knows what he wants, he goes for it. But I don't think he attract many opposite sex but he knows how to seduce them. I wonder do these Venus/Mars are attracted to Venus Aries (my placememt), it seems I know a lot personally. Romantically and platonically. I do love their energy IP: Logged |
Hikaru29 Knowflake Posts: 3734 From: Asia Registered: Nov 2018
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posted February 03, 2021 05:59 AM
I’ve Venus square Mars which is part of a t-square with Moon/Neptune. I don’t know about attracting people but I sometimes get hostile behaviour from women who see me as a romantic rival even though I’ve absolutely no interest in whoever they’re eyeing. What’s more ridiculous is I get sh*t-stirrers who were interested in my boyfriends and they made it their mission to break us up...and some of these women were married so it’s really wtf.IP: Logged |