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next to neptune
Knowflake Posts: 2361
From: The Moon
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted December 29, 2014 01:23 PM
  
Who else in here have crossed a hysterical scorpios path of vengeance? I mean, are they all like this? Why are so many scorpio people so full of hate, vengeance and aggressions? And why can't they take anything fun? It's like I have never seen a Scorpio having pure fun except John Cleese maybe?
All scorpio seem to me like serious, aggressive little bombs who's just ready to explode in your face the minute you don't say what they want to hear? IP: Logged |
PixieJane
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From: CA
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posted December 29, 2014 07:20 PM
No, they're not all like that. Here is the "7 types of Scorpio" though it's not necessarily based on age:
http://hubpages.com/hub/The-7-Symbols-of-a-Scorpio IP: Logged |
4lifephrases
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From: London, United Kingdom
Registered: Nov 2010
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posted December 29, 2014 07:53 PM
Scorpions aren't fun in gregarious Gemini , clowny Sag sort and showy Leo type or as sarcastic as Cap.If you are looking for fun then you are looking at wrong sign.I feel Pisces/ Capricorn are obsessed on laughing. I think there are things which makes me laugh and things I consider fun. I thought Fawlty Towers was funny. I guess it definitely back fires when somebody just expects us to be laughing , smiling and clowning all the time. We are deep and we have other emotions too so unless you can not acknowledge our other emotions, we wouldn't give you our precious smiles and laughs. maybe ? IP: Logged |
Supreme cT
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posted December 29, 2014 08:14 PM
What signs are in scorpio? Ima scorpio sun but im very goofy and extroverted because of my sag venus/mercury and aquarius moon/rising i need to to talk and laugh and have fun im deff not a brooding type at all IP: Logged |
DeepFreeze
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From: Pluto with Barbiegirl19
Registered: Nov 2013
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posted December 29, 2014 09:13 PM
My nephew is Scorpio sun. He's quiet, but I've never seen or heard of him ever being angry. He loves children and often makes witty jokes at just the right moment.
He's smart and went to college but seems in no hurry to get going in life.
If my sister asks him to do something he does it without so much as a word said under his breath. Just, "yeah, sure." And he does it.
He's definitely not any of those things.Scorpio sun, Pluto, Mars all conjunct
Libra Venus
Sag Mercury
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next to neptune
Knowflake Posts: 2361
From: The Moon
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted December 30, 2014 02:55 PM
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Originally posted by DeepFreeze:
My nephew is Scorpio sun. He's quiet, but I've never seen or heard of him ever being angry. He loves children and often makes witty jokes at just the right moment.
He's smart and went to college but seems in no hurry to get going in life.
If my sister asks him to do something he does it without so much as a word said under his breath. Just, "yeah, sure." And he does it.
He's definitely not any of those things.Scorpio sun, Pluto, Mars all conjunct
Libra Venus
Sag Mercury
Cap Moon
Well, he also got some good placement going. Libra venus is home, also scorpio mars conjunct pluto. Thats very balancing energies.
But I tell you, no matter what, that if you get intimate/very close with these scorpio sun people, at some point they gonna f*** you up. IP: Logged |
Vajra
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From: Europe
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted December 30, 2014 03:07 PM
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Originally posted by next to neptune:
I tell you, no matter what, that if you get intimate/very close with these scorpio sun people, at some point they gonna f*** you up.
I've been close to rather many Scorps. Next to Pisces it's the sign I get along with best, and I've been in an intimate relationship with three Scorp men so far and have rather many Scorp friends and colleagues of both genders. Although I tried very hard to remember, it seems I never met any Scorp who matches your description in the OP (one Pisces came close though, but he was an exception). If anything, Scorp folks often strike me as having exceptional self-control, I tend to freak out much earlier. Neither would I say they are not fun. Maybe you were just unlucky, or maybe it's a synastry thing between your charts. There are jerks of any sign out there, try to focus on those people who are nice to be around, would be my suggestion. IP: Logged |
next to neptune
Knowflake Posts: 2361
From: The Moon
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted December 30, 2014 05:27 PM
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Originally posted by Vajra:
I've been close to rather many Scorps. Next to Pisces it's the sign I get along with best, and I've been in an intimate relationship with three Scorp men so far and have rather many Scorp friends and colleagues of both genders. Although I tried very hard to remember, it seems I never met any Scorp who matches your description in the OP (one Pisces came close though, but he was an exception). If anything, Scorp folks often strike me as having exceptional self-control, I tend to freak out much earlier. Neither would I say they are not fun. Maybe you were just unlucky, or maybe it's a synastry thing between your charts. There are jerks of any sign out there, try to focus on those people who are nice to be around, would be my suggestion.
I feel all the scorpio people I have ever been close to, have really hurted my feelings so bad each time. I have scorpio venus conjunct scorpio pluto myself, and anything scorpio always touch my 5th house. It looks like scorpio energy should be a very good match with me, but this holds not true. I've had one scorpio ex boyfriend who really ended up hurting my feelings after 2 years. Another was a room mate who was really unfair and just never liked me. And the third was my best friend until 3 days ago, she suddenly decided to dump me as a friend.
I've had another scorp friend in high school who did the same thing. The funny thing is that 3 of them was born around the same week in november, the same year. Our synastry looks fine, we have no bad aspect almost, so I don't know why, it must be their natal chart or something, cause I really can't explain it. But I will never ever open my heart for a scorpio ever again. IP: Logged |
Odette
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posted December 30, 2014 06:01 PM
I don't know about vengeance... but the one currently in my life will not stop calling and txt-ing. He is now having a conversation with himself about music that I barely even replied to. He just keeps on talking or writing - whatever.
He is strangely obsessed when he only just met me and doesn't even know me.
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Bluejay
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posted December 30, 2014 07:52 PM
next to neptune, I'm a Scorpio with Moon conjunct Pluto, and the only time I've abruptly broken off friendships is if I was wronged by the person in some way. Usually for lying, or other shady behavior. I absolutely cannot tolerate a lie, no matter how small. I have had issues with Neptune influenced people because of their tendency to lie or hide things from me, so I cannot trust them. Other than that, I'm loyal to a fault to friends and loved ones. If this is a situation that you've experienced with several different Scorpios, you may want to look at your own behavior. It sounds like you may have done something to upset them, so you're suffering their wrath.
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Barbiegirl19
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From: Pluto with DeepFreeze
Registered: Jul 2013
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posted December 30, 2014 08:44 PM
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If this is a situation that you've experienced with several different Scorpios, you may want to look at your own behavior. It sounds like you may have done something to upset them, so you're suffering their wrath.
I was gonna say something on the lines of this as well. Very true. Scorpios, like any other human being, needs a push over the edge to act in such a manner. I'm guessing they were pushed over and that's why you're experiencing their wrath. Sane people aren't vengeful for no apparent reason. I've met/know a wide variety of Scorpios and they were for the most part nice, calm, normal people. In certain situations some didn't care for vengeance, some did. Its human nature, I wouldn't base this observation just on them being Scorpios. Go off of the situation and good ol' human nature. quote:
But I tell you, no matter what, that if you get intimate/very close with these scorpio sun people, at some point they gonna f*** you up.
If you hurt them than maybe depending on how much they care. Many other signs do this not just Scorpios. My best friend's a Scorpio and is one the most loyal people I've ever met. Very caring, will do anything for anyone. Normal, sane people don't f-up others for the heck of it. There's a reason for it. Just my own opinion of course.  IP: Logged |
GypseeWind
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From: Love Street, she lingers long on Love Street..
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posted December 30, 2014 10:20 PM
My son is a scorpio, and is very silly and giggly. He has saggie Mars and a 1st house stellium though.
My ex, omg, he just always has this look on his face that I want to smack. It's a look that says whatever a person is about to say or do is being harshly judged. No matter what you say to him he seems to have a negative sarcastic remark, like 90 % of the time. Unless he's drunk.
I messaged him on his bday to tell him that the band we saw on the night we fell in love was playing at a place down the street, his reply was "thanks, but I don't care for them."
2 weeks after that I messaged him to let him know that a girl we ran around with had a horrible car crash and died, his reply was "I didn't care for her."
Cold and negative. My dad's the same way..
When we do family slides and reminiscing, instead of laughing and enjoying it with everyone else, he points out all the negative details of the time. :/IP: Logged |
next to neptune
Knowflake Posts: 2361
From: The Moon
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted December 31, 2014 06:01 AM
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Originally posted by Bluejay:
next to neptune, I'm a Scorpio with Moon conjunct Pluto, and the only time I've abruptly broken off friendships is if I was wronged by the person in some way. Usually for lying, or other shady behavior. I absolutely cannot tolerate a lie, no matter how small. I have had issues with Neptune influenced people because of their tendency to lie or hide things from me, so I cannot trust them. Other than that, I'm loyal to a fault to friends and loved ones. If this is a situation that you've experienced with several different Scorpios, you may want to look at your own behavior. It sounds like you may have done something to upset them, so you're suffering their wrath.
Our conflicts is almost always about some misunderstanding, where they take something too personally. I am a virgo sun and I use a lot of sarcasm, joking around and is very un-serious with many things. Though still I am a person that say my mind, and it always comes down with the scorpio people taking it all too personal, or feel extremely offended, it's like they are so sensitive that no matter what I say to them, they take it as a huge critique of them. And most of the time they take it much harder than I feel it really was.
Besides that, I think that many scorpio people are extremely selfish, it's like if they got a problem they are totally hysterical and serious about it, they can't take any jokes or fun if they got a personal problem. Fire/Air signs are totally different, they can still laugh and have fun, while their house is burning down. Most of my friends are fire/air signs including my boyfriend, they have no problem with joking, but scorpio people just seem to be too serious all the time for my taste.
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Knowflake Posts: 2361
From: The Moon
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posted December 31, 2014 06:08 AM
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Originally posted by Barbiegirl19:
Scorpios, like any other human being, needs a push over the edge to act in such a manner. I'm guessing they were pushed over and that's why you're experiencing their wrath. Sane people aren't vengeful for no apparent reason.
I think I might push them over by being myself, really. I can feel 100% myself around fire/air people and joke, have fun, not take anything too literally and everyone is totally equal with that, And I am not a mean person, I don't make mean jokes, I just try to see a funny thing in any problem and not make a situation that is all depressive and too intense. I just don't think I fit with scorpios intense energy, I enjoy conversations that is more light-hearted and fun, not depressive and dark. And if I try to be optimistic around a scorpio they just flip out. I can also have darker and depressive days, but if people try to lift me up by joking, I would light up and laugh little by little and feel better. Apparently it doesn't work like this with scorpio people.
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theunknown
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posted December 31, 2014 06:21 AM
The fact that they were born in the same week might mean your composite chart has something with them? IdkWith cancer Mars my generation, I have compisite Mars square uranus. It's not in my nature to dump ppl but I've decided to let go of 2 friendships with these ppl... It's just really not working.
I think instead of dwelling on it you should move on with energy that's more compatible with you. It might mean in your psyche there's something about scorpio energy that you desire initially in a relationship
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Knowflake Posts: 2361
From: The Moon
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posted December 31, 2014 06:35 AM
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Originally posted by theunknown:
The fact that they were born in the same week might mean your composite chart has something with them? IdkWith cancer Mars my generation, I have compisite Mars square uranus. It's not in my nature to dump ppl but I've decided to let go of 2 friendships with these ppl... It's just really not working.
I think instead of dwelling on it you should move on with energy that's more compatible with you. It might mean in your psyche there's something about scorpio energy that you desire initially in a relationship
I think you are right. I don't remember our composite completely, but in synastry with these people all born between 8-16 november (same year) who all dumped me, we have either uranus square mars or mercury square saturn/neptune. Funnily I've had better chemistry almost with a libra who I had mars-uranus square doubble whammy with (and many other even worse aspect) We still talk sometimes, even. Scorpio people just cut contact completely. But I really think you are right, something is just not working, and it is too much hard work if I have to constantly watch my step in anything I say, and always having to think about if it came out the right way. Especially when I absolutely don't feel like this with so many other people. EDIT: I guess what I desire about scorpios is that they are so loyal and good friends, who is always there for you and very insightful with many things. Fire/Air signs are more flighty and not always you know...there... but through the years I've come to realize that fire/air people are actually very loyal and make very great friends with me also, even though I'm virgo (and only earth/water in my chart) and we don't have compatible basic energies. IP: Logged |
theunknown
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posted December 31, 2014 01:47 PM
^^^ that completely makes sense. You should also check your transits to see why you were attracting these Poole in your life and the lessons they taught you.I'm heavily saturn and I have similar with Cancer heavy, neptunian heavy people where I feel like I can just hurt their feelings with the most simple comments. I've learned recently that my lessons with these people is to not adapt the role they project on me but play an actve role on defining what I want in a respectful manner. Maybe for you, it is to let go of fears and enter relationships with more compatible energy with less of a black/white standard
The truth is scorpio energy in incompatible relationships would just be torturing. I appreciate the fact that they cut things off for good because honestly many people are incapable of calling it quit
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