posted January 06, 2015 05:22 PM            

If you are being honest with us and you have done NOTHING to deserve this treatment then do the following:

Pull him aside. Tell him his constant questioning of you and your schedule is not helping the relationship, it's hurting it.

When he realizes he's hurting something he cares about he'll stop.

If he continues then you need to have another conversation--patience is key when dealing with a cancer.

Ask him what you did that triggered this kind of behavior from him. SOMETHING someone said, something you did, has likely disturbed his peace.

You gotta fix this or he will become nasty. Cancers have no problem with kicking you to the curb once they've had enough.

posted January 06, 2015 06:29 PM            

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Originally posted by PrettyPisces:
Why does my male friend question me about EVERYTHING? Everytime he calls me he askes what was I doing ? If I don't instantly answered but say something else he'll ask again . If I say I'm in my car driving he'll say are you in the car by yourself . One time he called me and the my phone just died even tho I was at 50 percent and it didn't come on until I put it on the charger and he questioned me on that . He even told his bestfriend that when he askes me about guys I act like I'm hiding stuff and we are just cool . But that's so NOT the case I'm just a private person . Now before I knew he sounded like a possessive bf but I wasn't sure but the real kicker came when he asked me what was I did this week , I replied when to the gym, and church and he replied you know you're not a good liar . But that's what I actually did! Oh and by the way whenever him and I get into a disagreement he's the first to say you're acting like a girlfriend would treat her boyfriend

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Judging from what you were saying, it sounds like any of the following:

He has strong feelings for you. (Maybe even has a crush on you!)

He's bored and wants someone to talk to, so plays childish games with you to try and irritate you.

He wants to show you he cares, but doesn't understand how to. He seems like the kind of guy who has fixed perceptions of men and women. (Hence the girlfriend/boyfriend thing).

posted January 07, 2015 09:20 AM            

Maybe he asks if you are alone because he doesn't want to sit and chat on the phone while you are in company.

The tone might be escalated because he does like you. ... even if he says he doesn't.
Really.. who WANTS to be called out on that? Especially if we aren't sure if the feelings aren't mutual.
Its scary so he might be a little on the defensive side.

posted January 12, 2015 09:59 PM            

The exception to this is that Cancers are feminine signs and they'll tend to care and "smother" someone they care about too. They cling like that, but it's a good sign because revealing that anxious "I need to know what you're doing all the time" worrying side is a vulnerability. Something they won't do with someone they don't trust.