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butterflymama
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posted January 10, 2015 09:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for butterflymama     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I cannot figure this guy out! He takes me out, we talk for 5.5 hours. Texts me as soon as he got home to show me a song and chit chat. Texts me everyday after that, sometimes before 10am!
Today at 8:45am, he texts to say that I am so "damn cool," that it is rare and amazing that we have the same strange religious and political views, that we get along so great...but he has no SPARK for me. He considers me a friend. He said he wants to keep our 2 upcoming plans for dates, though.I said, don't worry about it. I will have someone else take me. He said "LOL. No, i do want to go " His actions say something different than his words! VIC is all about it's actions. In fact, he texted me this evening for chit chat. I ignored it. He is trying to use me for my brain! That is a new one!

I am a Venus in Scorpio, moon gemini, Sun in Virgo. We have great synastry.

Please help me.

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butterflymama
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posted January 10, 2015 10:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for butterflymama     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Very worth noting that his VIC is in the 11th house

"11th house
There can be friends of the opposite sex, and lovers/partners are often met through group activities and associations. One's lovers must also be friends and a marriage relationship often started out as a friendship. Group and team relationships, as well as friendships are often friendly and harmonious. "

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Plutonian_Gal8
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posted January 10, 2015 10:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Plutonian_Gal8     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ok, that sucks! lol Though I don't know his whole chart, yes he has that Uranian approach to "love" and with Uranian types we have our own definition of what love is. As you already know, yeah he'll have that very platonic air about dating and so forth. Your Scorpio Venus will NOT like this lol It's super frustrating for you; a natural clash even with good synastry.


Have you studied his natal well? Understand the puzzle of who he is 1st, if you haven't already done so.

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lisalisa
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posted January 11, 2015 06:42 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for lisalisa     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
What is his moon sign?

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butterflymama
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posted January 11, 2015 10:08 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for butterflymama     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by lisalisa:
What is his moon sign?

His moon is a very messy topic, bc he is a moon cuspian! He was born just as the moon entered leo. His mother was in labor for the cancer moon though, and he has more traits of cancer moon. EVERYTHING on his chart makes 100% sense but his moon...and the moon is what I need to understand right now to manage this situation. Ugh

I am nearly positive that this shift to "friends" is more than meets the eye. I believe there is some Scorpio sun manipulation going on here. I think he is trying to brain hack me into comfort and easing up my walls so he can probe me slowly.

That being said, what in the world COULD a spark look like to a uranian with a dry venus in cap??? I swear on my life that our intellectual connection is so strong that we can't even stop talking to each other. This should satisfy his 11th house need for a lover/friend. If that ISNT a spark, then what IS?

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butterflymama
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posted January 11, 2015 11:02 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for butterflymama     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Plutonian_Gal8:
yes he has that Uranian approach to "love" and with Uranian types we have our own definition of what love is.

What would make a spark for a uranian type?

Also, he is addicted to me. He texted me this morning already! He is NOT done with this...

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Plutonian_Gal8
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posted January 11, 2015 12:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Plutonian_Gal8     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Well, I am an Aquarius Sun, Capricorn Venus, sprinkled with Scorpio placements.


Something has to be unique about a guy. I gravitate towards men who intrigue me by simply marching to the beat of their own drum. He has to naturally be ok with pacing himself and allowing a friendship to develop first If a guy says something/writes something that I interpret as "jumping the gun" it will easily put me on pause. To speak in a very "roses are red" way early on, makes ME take a step back and I may say something to get the guy to understand he has to pump those breaks.

Being a Cap Venus, intellectual connections are the smoking gun. It's absolutely a turn on. Someone with a proper reserve, who can hold great conversations about any and everything is the aphrodisiac of this placement. Words, words, words. Not the "charmer" approach, but the brainy kind of person who's a true thinker. This is the hook and line, he has for you. I couldn't tell you what would be the sinker. BUT, I will prematurely agree, there is some manipulation. He's clearly trying to slow you down a bit. You may not have even said a whole bunch of "ooh la la" stuff, maybe he accidentally jumped the gun and checked himself at the door after the fact. I feel like he is very much into you but he wants to control the pace. It's a risk he's taking because you have to decide if you're ok with that. And yes, his actions won't add up to his words often; But I would think he hopes you will hang in there and be his "buddy" first for a while longer.

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butterflymama
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posted January 11, 2015 02:38 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for butterflymama     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Plutonian_Gal8:
He's clearly trying to slow you down a bit. You may not have even said a whole bunch of "ooh la la" stuff, maybe he accidentally jumped the gun and checked himself at the door after the fact. I feel like he is very much into you but he wants to [b]control the pace. . [/B]

This resonated with me. Thank you SO MUCH. And yes, my Venus in Scorpio (VIS) is very dominant in my life 8th degree I think. After we started talking every single day all day, I had every reason to believe that I could let my verbal VIS out a little more, and I have spooked him a bit. He hasn't cut me off, his actions are showing a lot more than his words. We shall see how it goes this weekend at our next "date." I mean, "outing as friends." When we arranged it previously, it was a date. Either way, I'm gonna show up looking classically smashing in a black dress with a little VIS cleavage. He may say there is no SPARK, but I aim to set him on fire.

Do you think this placement is prone to jealousy, or no? He said no, but he says a lot of stuff. And btw---this man is CALCULATING. I think he plans the smallest details, and possible rehearses at least in his head. He tries to control the environment, the situation, etc. It is really hot actually. Very 50 shades of Grey kinda of vibe under all this ice. He gives me the impression that if I pass all the tests and thaw the ice, that the ground under the ice is rock solid, steady and consistently warm.

I just want to show him that I respect him. I know he likes that, and I like that too. Likewise, I want him to respect me. I want stand out like no other girl he has ever encountered. I told him early on that I value myself, and sex is only for commitments. He seemed to respect that. He is literally a perfect 10, so I would be that is departure from what he is used to experiencing.

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lalalinda
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posted January 11, 2015 02:55 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for lalalinda     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hello butterflymama! Welcome to LL

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theunknown
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posted January 11, 2015 03:55 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for theunknown     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Cap venuses are not gonna meet you if they are not serious...

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butterflymama
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posted January 11, 2015 06:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for butterflymama     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by theunknown:
Cap venuses are not gonna meet you if they are not serious...

...And meet knowing that I told him no relations outside of a relationship, bc I am a serious person.

Maybe this is not a lost cause at all

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