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Topic: Leo risers - Anyone else sick of the Neptune transit in H7?
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Geeky Knowflake Posts: 1360 From: the Sun, vacation house on Mercury Registered: Dec 2012
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posted January 12, 2015 10:40 PM
I'm just over it & I've got about 3 more years to go. During this Neptune transit in H7, I have... Been cheated on Divorced Fell in love Been heartbroken Feel unrequited feelings for two people (both with Neptune in H7 transit / other Leo risers, go figure!) Fell in love again Remarried Oh and I didn't know what all of this meant when I decided to remarry last year. I feel like it was a huge mistake. I feel like he completely misrepresented himself, what he wants out of life and how he feels about me. He's not at all what I made him out to be and I am trying so hard to hold it together and hide my disappointment. I know no one is perfect, but I thought I had found a good partner. He's a nice companion, but that's it. Sooooooo disappointing! There is a difference between a companion and a partner. A partner is supposed to work towards a future with you, support your goals and dreams, do things for you that are supportive, etc. I don't have that with him at all and when I try to discuss it, he just walks out saying "If I don't say or do anything, I can't **** you off." (That's how he handles ALL conflict though, whether it's at home or at work.) And I'm angry about it. I have Mars & Chiron transiting H7 too though. Anyone else over it? ------------------ “Most people would rather be sheep than stand on their own with antlers on.” IP: Logged |
Marandana Knowflake Posts: 156 From: Earth. Registered: Dec 2013
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posted January 12, 2015 10:57 PM
My best friend is leo sun and asc, and she has recently dated a drug addict, she's head over heels for him, I'm sure it has to do with this transit too.IP: Logged |
Violets Knowflake Posts: 4209 From: Registered: Apr 2011
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posted January 12, 2015 11:10 PM
Weird. I didn't even notice it. What I've noticed more is that it's triggering my Mutable T-square from my 8H now. I'll have to go back and look at when Neptune began transiting my 7H and get back to you. I also got married while it was in my 7H, but there is a very spiritual connection between my husband and I, so I can only guess that I was (for once) on the better end of anything having to do with Neptune. Hopefully it will get better for you soon. IP: Logged |
Selenite Knowflake Posts: 322 From: Registered: Aug 2013
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posted January 13, 2015 12:14 AM
Omg, yes. I am extremely confused. I have been experiencing so many weird and fated relationships. It's hard to explain. I have Karma and Saturn conjunct in the 7th, and Neptune is conjunct them. I feel like people from my past lives just keep popping up out of nowhere and it's never goes smoothly. Also feel like I'm more lucid in my dreams and constantly working out issues with people in them. I also just did a past life regression for the first time and I found out what happened with one of them. It was horrible but I guess it makes me feel a little less confused. IP: Logged |
babybull82 Knowflake Posts: 511 From: Registered: Aug 2013
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posted January 13, 2015 01:44 AM
Yup I've noticed it. So far with me I'll meet a potential match we get to know each other..we have sex ONE time and then never again. But oh we still talk and I know they still like me but they keep denying me sex. Funny I do have Mars square neptune natally and what I learned is Neptune will allude to sex and give false hope in order to keep mars interest. Mars gets frustrated at Neptune's elusiveness. That's pretty much it in a nutshell. I'm sure there have been other follies but these are the most irritating ones to date. IP: Logged |
Faith Knowflake Posts: 10146 From: Bella's Hair Salon Registered: Jul 2011
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posted January 13, 2015 06:13 AM
It's already moved into my 8th house.Out of the pan and into the fire. IP: Logged |
venus2tinkerbell Knowflake Posts: 154 From: New York, New York, USA Registered: Nov 2014
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posted January 13, 2015 10:42 AM
I am so shocked by this thread. I don't even know what to say or think, but I am a part of it. Leo rising, yes. Major confusion in the love department, yes.That's all I know. I don't know enough about astrology to understand transits but my love life has been terrible...since I was 17 (the beginning), but it's been REALLY terrible since 2007. I been divorced, received 3 serious proposals that fell through, married again, and wanting another divorce, but not pushing since he says when I try to leave he goes crazy....I feel like I am wrecking my life by staying and wrecking his life by leaving. I'm a home wrecker- my own home wrecker. I've always thought highly of Neptune, coming from a deeply spiritual back round. I thought Neptune was just misunderstood the way many shaman are.... but it's hard to think nice thoughts when you're the one being taught the lesson....and I'm not even sure what the lesson is. IP: Logged |
venus2tinkerbell Knowflake Posts: 154 From: New York, New York, USA Registered: Nov 2014
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posted January 13, 2015 10:47 AM
@GeekyI feel like your current relationship is a good description of my relationship, but mine is long distance... IP: Logged |
Kate August Knowflake Posts: 34 From: NYC Registered: Nov 2013
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posted January 13, 2015 11:14 AM
Thanks for making me feel like I'm not crazy Geeky! This transit has lifted the veil from every serious relationship and it hasn't been nice. Saturn going through Scorpio and the fourth house made it worse. I'm over it too. Leo rising wants to think the best of everyone and with Neptune going through the house of relationship and secret enemies, we have to be careful that we are seeing clearly.IP: Logged |
Geeky Knowflake Posts: 1360 From: the Sun, vacation house on Mercury Registered: Dec 2012
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posted January 14, 2015 02:20 PM
quote: Originally posted by venus2tinkerbell: @GeekyI feel like your current relationship is a good description of my relationship, but mine is long distance...
*hug* I understand everything you wrote. ------------------ “Most people would rather be sheep than stand on their own with antlers on.” IP: Logged |
Geeky Knowflake Posts: 1360 From: the Sun, vacation house on Mercury Registered: Dec 2012
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posted January 14, 2015 02:21 PM
quote: Originally posted by Faith: It's already moved into my 8th house.Out of the pan and into the fire.
What has it been like so far? ------------------ “Most people would rather be sheep than stand on their own with antlers on.” IP: Logged |
Geeky Knowflake Posts: 1360 From: the Sun, vacation house on Mercury Registered: Dec 2012
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posted January 14, 2015 02:27 PM
quote: Originally posted by Kate August: Thanks for making me feel like I'm not crazy Geeky! This transit has lifted the veil from every serious relationship and it hasn't been nice. Saturn going through Scorpio and the fourth house made it worse.
Nope, not crazy. And Mars has joined the 7th house party (for me anyway) and will be there for about 2 more weeks, I think. I've got Saturn smack in the middle of my fourth house too. It is emotionally exhausting. ------------------ “Most people would rather be sheep than stand on their own with antlers on.” IP: Logged |
bumblebee Knowflake Posts: 232 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted January 14, 2015 02:36 PM
Total mess, yeah. And total disilusionment, especially when saturn entered sagitarius and square tr. neptune. Not that in scorpio was fun, was awuful...Just as it was mentioned above - I don't even know what the lesson was! Thank God currently jupiter is around Asc, it gives a little hope, after all. IP: Logged |
Geeky Knowflake Posts: 1360 From: the Sun, vacation house on Mercury Registered: Dec 2012
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posted January 14, 2015 02:43 PM
quote: Originally posted by bumblebee: Thank God currently jupiter is around Asc, it gives a little hope, after all.
Indeed! IP: Logged |
Geeky Knowflake Posts: 1360 From: the Sun, vacation house on Mercury Registered: Dec 2012
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posted January 14, 2015 02:53 PM
Oh and to make it even more annoying, I am watching my good friend totally have the veil over his eyes. I did his chart for him once before and we both have Leo asc, both in the third decan. I just want to shake him and say "WHAT ARE YOU DOING?!!" because I see the hurt that's going to happen.------------------ “Most people would rather be sheep than stand on their own with antlers on.” IP: Logged |
babybull82 Knowflake Posts: 511 From: Registered: Aug 2013
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posted January 14, 2015 03:17 PM
quote: Originally posted by venus2tinkerbell: I am so shocked by this thread. I don't even know what to say or think, but I am a part of it. Leo rising, yes. Major confusion in the love department, yes.That's all I know. I don't know enough about astrology to understand transits but my love life has been terrible...since I was 17 (the beginning), but it's been REALLY terrible since 2007. I been divorced, received 3 serious proposals that fell through, married again, and wanting another divorce, but not pushing since he says when I try to leave he goes crazy....I feel like I am wrecking my life by staying and wrecking his life by leaving. I'm a home wrecker- my own home wrecker. I've always thought highly of Neptune, coming from a deeply spiritual back round. I thought Neptune was just misunderstood the way many shaman are.... but it's hard to think nice thoughts when you're the one being taught the lesson....and I'm not even sure what the lesson is.
It's ok to admit Neptune sucks lol
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venus2tinkerbell Knowflake Posts: 154 From: New York, New York, USA Registered: Nov 2014
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posted January 14, 2015 03:41 PM
quote: Originally posted by babybull82: It's ok to admit Neptune sucks lol
maybe it's Neptune that won't let me admit my love affair with Neptune was all in my head IP: Logged |
Aquacheeka Knowflake Posts: 2916 From: Toronto Registered: Mar 2012
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posted January 14, 2015 03:46 PM
3 more years?! (cries)I have had two abusive relationships both with Mars-Pluto men who have Sagittarius moons... in the latter case, it was a full-on square with my own. Should I just not date until it's over? This sucks! IP: Logged |
Aquacheeka Knowflake Posts: 2916 From: Toronto Registered: Mar 2012
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posted January 14, 2015 03:50 PM
quote: Originally posted by bumblebee: Total mess, yeah. And total disilusionment, especially when saturn entered sagitarius and square tr. neptune. Not that in scorpio was fun, was awuful...Just as it was mentioned above - I don't even know what the lesson was! Thank God currently jupiter is around Asc, it gives a little hope, after all.
Yeah, for me the veil lifted as soon as Saturn entered Sagittarius... and to make matters worse, that heralded the start of my Saturn Return! :-S
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Faith Knowflake Posts: 10146 From: Bella's Hair Salon Registered: Jul 2011
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posted January 14, 2015 09:47 PM
quote: Originally posted by Geeky: What has it been like so far?
Positively, I've actually learned a lot about 8H subjects (such as astrology), had some psychic experiences that opened my mind, and I am generally more at peace than I used to be ~ maybe because Neptune rules my 8H, so it's at home now. Negatively, there has been one property issue after another, some paranormal activity that frightened me, some confusing relationship issues, not just with my husband, but with everyone I know well (Neptune is squaring my Venus, though.) IP: Logged |
Violets Knowflake Posts: 4209 From: Registered: Apr 2011
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posted January 14, 2015 11:15 PM
quote: Originally posted by Faith: Positively, I've actually learned a lot about 8H subjects (such as astrology), had some psychic experiences that opened my mind, and I am generally more at peace than I used to be ~ maybe because Neptune rules my 8H, so it's at home now.Negatively, there has been one property issue after another, some paranormal activity that frightened me, some confusing relationship issues, not just with my husband, but with everyone I know well (Neptune is squaring my Venus, though.)
I will pretty much have to second all of that, minus the property issues. We're selling our house, but no problems so far. My mom is having property issues, however. And Neptune is currently conjunct my Sun and opposite my Moon. Best wishes to everyone while it moves through your 7th...I think I'm so accustomed to Neptune's Mad Hatter ways in my life that I barely noticed (my 7th is empty of planets, so it just sort of passed through). It just moved into my 8H at around 4 degrees Pisces. IP: Logged |
Geeky Knowflake Posts: 1360 From: the Sun, vacation house on Mercury Registered: Dec 2012
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posted January 15, 2015 04:43 PM
quote: Originally posted by Aquacheeka: 3 more years?! (cries)
Approx. 3 more years for me. I don't know where your Leo Asc. is. Mine is at 22 degrees, so I am third decan. However, my friend who is also third decan is at 29 degrees, so he has until April 2021. :/ I think your birthplace will matter as well. ------------------ “Most people would rather be sheep than stand on their own with antlers on.” IP: Logged |
Iced8Ace Knowflake Posts: 124 From: CA Registered: Aug 2014
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posted January 15, 2015 08:01 PM
I have early virgo asc, neptune is conjunct my dsc, venus and widely my moon.I quite hate it, whenever a man seems like a good prospect - he just disappears out of thin air?! When I find them again they're either a druggy, a wimp, a confused soul, or a man having low self esteem. They manage to annoy me to no end. I kind of get the urge to slap them and say "STOP FEELING SORRY FOR YOURSELF"?? I hate when people want pity but never want to put in any effort. If this pattern continues, I'm just going to hide in a hole until I graduate. IP: Logged |
Arachne18 Newflake Posts: 8 From: Registered: Jan 2015
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posted January 16, 2015 03:00 AM
That's a pretty hard road Geeky, and other, hope life gets better for you. Leo asc also and have neptune in the 7th for sooo long, I haven't had too many detrimental experiences other than caring for an ailing loved one (not a partner) who subsequently passed and being a bit "uncommited" in committed relationships (should have taken my rose coloured glasses off eh). I have Venus and mercury in the 7th and met my partner within this time and married when tneptune conjuncted my natal Venus (didn't know that at the time) and have had no dramas since. I have still got another few years too until neptune mergers into my 8th house where it will go back and forth over my sun. Tchiron has just gone into my 8th- still trying to get my head around that "planetoid" or whatever it is. I wish you luck IP: Logged |
Geeky Knowflake Posts: 1360 From: the Sun, vacation house on Mercury Registered: Dec 2012
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posted January 18, 2015 06:34 PM
quote: Originally posted by Arachne18: I wish you luck
You as well! ------------------ “Most people would rather be sheep than stand on their own with antlers on.” IP: Logged |