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Topic: venus trine pluto and the aries man.
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bella_taurus
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posted January 18, 2015 09:58 PM
  
Okay, I met an aries man, born 3/24/1980. I have fallen heads over him. But I basically blew it by telling him I was falling for him. There was a misunderstanding between us and I have not heard from him in over several days.
I really liked him and I feel so foolish about it. I'm blaming my venus trine pluto transit that's in effect right now. I wish it really could've worked out...I feel foolish thinking he was the one. But why do I feel he was the one????!!! Ugh. What to do????? Ugh. IP: Logged |
EmGem
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posted January 18, 2015 10:03 PM
oh dear. was the misunderstanding that you told him you were falling for him?aries men love the chase. if its too easy for them they get bored - apparently :S IP: Logged |
bella_taurus
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posted January 18, 2015 10:08 PM
So I basically effed it up...? Ugh. IP: Logged |
Solar_Leo_Queen
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posted January 18, 2015 10:11 PM
You might have turned him off. Based on experience, Aries don't like women chasing after them. They wanna be the one to chase especially if they have their Mars in Aries as well. If his Venus is either in Pisces or Taurus, that would be another reason he'd be turned off because those Venus signs like their women extremely feminine. I did something like this with the Aries I was last seeing. He did make the first move, but then I got pretty impatient because he was taking too long and I started making advances to make things a little quicker. That blew it all off.It's okay to feel foolish. Love makes a fool out of everybody. If he is really the one, he will come back. If not, then someone else is the one. I'm not exactly sure what you should do, but I guess in your case, just wait what happens. Don't try to get in contact with him or whatever because that will only make him think you're being clingy and desperate. Maybe keep yourself busy with other things at the moment. IP: Logged |
EmGem
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posted January 18, 2015 10:25 PM
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Originally posted by Solar_Leo_Queen:
You might have turned him off. Based on experience, Aries don't like women chasing after them. They wanna be the one to chase especially if they have their Mars in Aries as well. If his Venus is either in Pisces or Taurus, that would be another reason he'd be turned off because those Venus signs like their women extremely feminine. I did something like this with the Aries I was last seeing. He did make the first move, but then I got pretty impatient because he was taking too long and I started making advances to make things a little quicker. That blew it all off.It's okay to feel foolish. Love makes a fool out of everybody. If he is really the one, he will come back. If not, then someone else is the one. I'm not exactly sure what you should do, but I guess in your case, just wait what happens. Don't try to get in contact with him or whatever because that will only make him think you're being clingy and desperate. Maybe keep yourself busy with other things at the moment.
well said. fill your life with other things and to be honest men generally come back. with aries, sometimes the more you show you are not interested the more interested they become because you turn into a challenge for them and aries are all about the challenge! winning their prize  just out of curiosity, what if an aries has his venus in aries? would they still like to be the one chasing or have the woman chase him?!
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Solar_Leo_Queen
Knowflake Posts: 1990
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Registered: Jan 2014
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posted January 18, 2015 10:29 PM
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Originally posted by EmGem:
well said. fill your life with other things and to be honest men generally come back. with aries, sometimes the more you show you are not interested the more interested they become because you turn into a challenge for them and aries are all about the challenge! winning their prize just out of curiosity, what if an aries has his venus in aries? would they still like to be the one chasing or have the woman chase him?!
Aries men with Venus in Aries would like to be the one chased, or at least that's what I've read.
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EmGem
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posted January 18, 2015 10:40 PM
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Originally posted by Solar_Leo_Queen:
Aries men with Venus in Aries would like to be the one chased, or at least that's what I've read.
there was one i met who had this and he said the chase is the best part and he doesnt like it when it's too "easy". he had gemini mars too. argh men can be so confusing lol. @bella_taurus
here's an interesting article about aries men. http://www.aphroditeastrology.com/2012/01/experiences-with-aries-male.html IP: Logged |
CatMote
Knowflake Posts: 813
From: Fighting Neptune for his trident
Registered: Apr 2013
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posted January 19, 2015 12:22 AM
this guy sounds like an asshat.
he sounds like he wanted to play games. he won the game and now hes moved on.
its true, as an aries man i love the chase. but in this case there shouldnt be any game playing going on because you were being honest and open with your feelings. its time to move on, if its meant to be he will come back, if not, pick yourself up and get back on your game. ------------------
"Perhaps there are new plateaus to reach, even greater heights to which I must ascend." IP: Logged |
bella_taurus
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posted January 21, 2015 01:05 AM
Thank you everyone for your replies! I guess I'll just move on...IP: Logged |
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