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Topic: Obsessive in love, but I'm not sure why
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shyberry Knowflake Posts: 125 From: a flower garden Registered: Oct 2014
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posted January 19, 2015 05:45 PM
I sound ridiculous, but I'm unfortunately v e r y obsessive in love. It's not the usual, "My boyfriend didn't call me back! My life is ruined! :'(" type of thing. Ever seen Fatal Attraction? Yeah. I wouldn't kill an animal, though. No way...But it does make me feel very violent and "on the edge". I hate it. I don't have Venus in Scorpio and my Venus isn't aspecting Pluto. Had I been born maybe an hour later, an opposition would've formed, but no such luck! I don't have planets in Scorpio either. My ASC is in Scorpio but it's in a very late degree so the majority of my 1st house is in Sag. Now I'm left confused and annoyed. What other aspects point to obsession in love? IP: Logged |
VestaFlake Knowflake Posts: 129 From: 5th house Registered: Sep 2014
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posted January 19, 2015 05:49 PM
there must be some drama tendencies apart from obsession. how's your sun and 5th house doing?IP: Logged |
VacantGazer Knowflake Posts: 205 From: The Sky Registered: Dec 2014
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posted January 19, 2015 05:50 PM
Ascendent in scorpio is still ascendent in scorpio, I think that would make the positions of mars and pluto quite prominent in your chart - where are they? IP: Logged |
shyberry Knowflake Posts: 125 From: a flower garden Registered: Oct 2014
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posted January 19, 2015 05:50 PM
quote: Originally posted by VestaFlake: there must be some drama tendencies apart from obsession. how's your sun and 5th house doing?
Sun has some minor afflictions in the 6th. Saturn and Mercury occupy my 5th. There are no "good" aspects to Mercury at all. IP: Logged |
shyberry Knowflake Posts: 125 From: a flower garden Registered: Oct 2014
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posted January 19, 2015 05:52 PM
quote: Originally posted by VacantGazer: Ascendent in scorpio is still ascendent in scorpio, I think that would make the positions of mars and pluto quite prominent in your chart - where are they?
True. Pluto is in my 1st widely conjunct Asc. Mars is in 10th conjunct my Mc. IP: Logged |
VestaFlake Knowflake Posts: 129 From: 5th house Registered: Sep 2014
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posted January 19, 2015 05:58 PM
quote: Originally posted by shyberry: Sun has some minor afflictions in the 6th. Saturn and Mercury occupy my 5th. There are no "good" aspects to Mercury at all.
and where are your venus and moon?
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shyberry Knowflake Posts: 125 From: a flower garden Registered: Oct 2014
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posted January 19, 2015 06:03 PM
quote: Originally posted by VestaFlake: and where are your venus and moon?
Venus is also in the 6th! My Moon is in Pisces in the 4th. It could have something to do with my moon...not sure. I read that lunar pisceans "feel" more than other moon signs, but I'm still not sure. IP: Logged |
VacantGazer Knowflake Posts: 205 From: The Sky Registered: Dec 2014
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posted January 19, 2015 06:06 PM
quote: Originally posted by shyberry: Venus is also in the 6th! My Moon is in Pisces in the 4th. It could have something to do with my moon...not sure. I read that lunar pisceans "feel" more than other moon signs, but I'm still not sure.
does pluto square your moon? IP: Logged |
shyberry Knowflake Posts: 125 From: a flower garden Registered: Oct 2014
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posted January 19, 2015 06:07 PM
quote: Originally posted by VacantGazer: does pluto square your moon?
No aspects between the two. IP: Logged |
VestaFlake Knowflake Posts: 129 From: 5th house Registered: Sep 2014
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posted January 19, 2015 06:07 PM
yup, that's it, it's your moon.And don't worry for partners, they come, clean our karmic debts and go. What you need is a partner who is grounded and when I say grounded I mean someone who is earth dominant emotionally. a watery moon and a fiery venus (I'm assuming you are aries venus?) can make that happen. IP: Logged |
Koho Knowflake Posts: 320 From: New York Registered: Jun 2014
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posted January 19, 2015 06:16 PM
It probably is the Scorpio rising + Pluto in the 1st. Any planet in the 1st has a huge impact on the person, I think, on a wide basis.I mean think about it this way - the Ascendant is like a doorway. It's how people perceive you so in a way it is how they come to you right? But wouldn't we agree the Ascendant is also how we engage the world? Having Scorpio and Pluto on your Ascendant is kinda like having creepy touchy feely doormen/bouncers that only allow people to come in and out after a sufficient shake down. Ok I had a little too much fun with this. See I'm a Taurus rising with Jupiter in the 1st so my doorway is more of like having a bowl of candy and beer with a sign saying 'just have fun and get fat' but then people walk through and realize it's a Scorpio Sun and Capricorn Moon crowd at the party. Oh noes!! False advertisement bro Ok I'm really gonna stop now cause I'm having too much fun with myself. IP: Logged |
shyberry Knowflake Posts: 125 From: a flower garden Registered: Oct 2014
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posted January 19, 2015 06:21 PM
quote: Having Scorpio and Pluto on your Ascendant is kinda like having creepy touchy feely doormen that only allow people to come in and out after a sufficient shake down. [/B]
IT'S TRUE oh my god hahaha I definitely wasn't popular in high school because of this. If anyone tried to talk to me I'd freak out internally and rudely sputter out a, "I'm tired". And nah, man. Your party sounds hella fun. IP: Logged |
shyberry Knowflake Posts: 125 From: a flower garden Registered: Oct 2014
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posted January 19, 2015 06:23 PM
quote: Originally posted by VestaFlake: yup, that's it, it's your moon.And don't worry for partners, they come, clean our karmic debts and go. What you need is a partner who is grounded and when I say grounded I mean someone who is earth dominant emotionally. a watery moon and a fiery venus (I'm assuming you are aries venus?) can make that happen.
earth venus actually! you're right. i think anyone who makes me feel so "inhumane" is someone i don't need to be around for very long.
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VestaFlake Knowflake Posts: 129 From: 5th house Registered: Sep 2014
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posted January 19, 2015 06:32 PM
oh earth venus you say, then I'm not satisfied again. still, if you go through web, there are very nice things about being a watery moon, ignore the drawbacks for a while and just focus on the good sides. BUT remember; pisces/12th house are the placements of self-undoing. When you feel that your partner has not called you back and it's the end of the world, you may be telling this; Oh man, I'm so afraid that our relationship has lost its fuel, I better bring it to an end so it hurts less. IP: Logged |
shyberry Knowflake Posts: 125 From: a flower garden Registered: Oct 2014
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posted January 19, 2015 07:03 PM
quote: Originally posted by VestaFlake: oh earth venus you say, then I'm not satisfied again. still, if you go through web, there are very nice things about being a watery moon, ignore the drawbacks for a while and just focus on the good sides. BUT remember; pisces/12th house are the placements of self-undoing. When you feel that your partner has not called you back and it's the end of the world, you may be telling this; Oh man, I'm so afraid that our relationship has lost its fuel, I better bring it to an end so it hurts less.
you're not satisfied? such a perfectionist.  thank you. honestly. it's true. i make rash decisions based off of my own assumptions that actually make the situation way worse than what it was. i don't HATE my moon sign per se, but it is a bit troublesome.
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Yanmorg Knowflake Posts: 751 From: Registered: Feb 2013
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posted January 21, 2015 07:35 AM
quote: Originally posted by shyberry: you're not satisfied? such a perfectionist.  thank you. honestly. it's true. i make rash decisions based off of my own assumptions that actually make the situation way worse than what it was. i don't HATE my moon sign per se, but it is a bit troublesome.
This fits me perfectly or would describe my mindset. If I haven't heard from my bf because he's been busy with work or just exploring the world, my mind tends to imagine situations, scenarios, etc that he's probably not engaging in. It's almost as if I'm a angry, mad woman but when I finally get some attention and reassurance, I'm back to my calm sexy Scorpio stellium self. I also have mars conjunct pluto mars conjunct descendant (scorpio), pluto opposite ascendant. Pluto ALSO rules my 7th house with mars sitting right on my 7th house cusp in 1st degree Sagittarius. My Sun, venus, mercury(r), jupiter, and pluto are all in my 6th house. My mercury in scorpio retrograde is conjunct nessus (ouch) which would probably explain my obsessive thoughts. I also have pholus inconjunct my uranus in the 8th which adds to my unpredictable craziness. My moon in libra in the 5th is square my uranus. Virgo rules my 5th, sagittarius rules my 8th, libra rules my 6th. I used to beat up all my boyfriends. Not out of malice, buf out of anger and sadness. I would always catch some type of deception on their end. I once showed up at an old bf's house of mind and started swinging on him (punching, kicking, etc) as soon as he answeres the door OVER a FACEBOOK STATUS. I have so many of this crazy stories. I will love the man with every fiber in my being who decides to marry me and decides to pit up with all that, understand the root cause, and love me anyway. I know I can change a few things, but I love hard regardless so not much will change. Are you sure it's not a minor aspect or what you consider minor that adds to your behavior? I know scorpio placements alone spells possesive, crazy in love, etc but a lof of scorpios keep this well-hidden. I know this because i study their bahavior, trying to figure out how to adopt their self-control. Good luck! You are not alone my friend!  IP: Logged |
shyberry Knowflake Posts: 125 From: a flower garden Registered: Oct 2014
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posted January 21, 2015 12:41 PM
quote: Originally posted by Yanmorg: Are you sure it's not a minor aspect or what you consider minor that adds to your behavior? I know scorpio placements alone spells possesive, crazy in love, etc but a lof of scorpios keep this well-hidden. I know this because i study their bahavior, trying to figure out how to adopt their self-control. Good luck! You are not alone my friend! 
ah, thank you so much! you have A LOT of intense placements. the only scorpio in my chart is my ascendant and it's too intense for me sometimes hahaha. i'm not sure, to be honest. my moon is in a tight semisquare to uranus so that could also influence it. after you've abused your boyfriends (i can't word that nicely LMAO) do they ever call you selfish/uncaring even though you know deep inside you did what you had to do because you truly did care? i feel that's a downside with pisces moon. your other placements such as a scorpio venus could make you act rash and rude, but your moon tells you it's all for a good reason that only you can see.
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YellowGerbera Knowflake Posts: 219 From: Registered: Jul 2014
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posted January 21, 2015 01:07 PM
quote: Originally posted by VestaFlake: yup, that's it, it's your moon.And don't worry for partners, they come, clean our karmic debts and go. What you need is a partner who is grounded and when I say grounded I mean someone who is earth dominant emotionally. a watery moon and a fiery venus (I'm assuming you are aries venus?) can make that happen.
Omg this is ME! Venus also conjuncts Mars in Aries, and Pisces Moon in 3H. I have the same tendency as the OP. My boy don't msg me even for a few hours, I go NUTSSSSS!! I know I'm over exaggerating so I try to keep my cool, but inside, I'm BOILING. My moon conjuncts Mercury in 3H so I think I need a lot of emotional support through communications. My pluto is in Scorpio, 11H but it conjuncts Vesta. I'm just a very intense lover IP: Logged |