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Topic: plutonian/scorpio people question
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NeptunianSag
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posted January 25, 2015 01:20 PM
  
How do you feel when your not taken seriously or 'left in the dumps' do you feel like there's alot of hidden anger and resentment because that person doesnt feel the same way about them as you do? Asking because I'm going through a harsh moon/pluto transit and I'm surprised I haven't murdered anyone yet lol IP: Logged |
ifaf
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posted January 25, 2015 03:52 PM
I feel the same way as if I'd been betrayed and no longer put any trust into the person, and don't have any deep feelings for them anymore.IP: Logged |
Gabby
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posted January 25, 2015 04:06 PM
I feel pretty devastated and thrown away after something like that. It really p*sses me off, at first, but my AC/Pluto/Venus issues are in libra so I get over it really quickly, although I rarely want that person back even they try to regain my trust....it's very hard to get that back with me.Here's the song I dedicate to the people that do this kind of thing to me....
Korn "Trash" http://youtu.be/5tD6NTGJ4Ug IP: Logged |
Gemini30
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posted January 25, 2015 04:11 PM
Moon in scorpio conj pluto. Sun in the 8th house, pluto in the 1st, venus opp pluto. Yes when i don't get the attention or respect i want, i tend to get very angry with it. I can't help it at times when i lose my temper and lash out. Unfortunately, i always lash out at the wrong people who don't deserve it. IP: Logged |
theunknown
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posted January 25, 2015 04:32 PM
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Originally posted by Gemini30:
Moon in scorpio conj pluto. Sun in the 8th house, pluto in the 1st, venus opp pluto. Yes when i don't get the attention or respect i want, i tend to get very angry with it. I can't help it at times when i lose my temper and lash out. Unfortunately, i always lash out at the wrong people who don't deserve it.
Afterward do you calm down or do you still dislike the person? IP: Logged |
frankie2912
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Registered: Apr 2011
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posted January 25, 2015 05:12 PM
I get mad and raise my voice and push push push trying to persuade them or make them take me seriously.Or i'm like, "whatever. f*ck off." classy, i know. IP: Logged |
YellowGerbera
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posted January 25, 2015 08:50 PM
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Originally posted by theunknown:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by Gemini30:
[b]Moon in scorpio conj pluto. Sun in the 8th house, pluto in the 1st, venus opp pluto. Yes when i don't get the attention or respect i want, i tend to get very angry with it. I can't help it at times when i lose my temper and lash out. Unfortunately, i always lash out at the wrong people who don't deserve it.
Afterward do you calm down or do you still dislike the person? [/B][/QUOTE] I calm down quickly and I do what ifaf said.. lol! IP: Logged |
theunknown
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posted January 25, 2015 09:18 PM
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Originally posted by YellowGerbera:
I calm down quickly and I do what ifaf said.. lol!
Would you take a sincere apology? IP: Logged |
Violets
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posted January 25, 2015 09:39 PM
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Originally posted by NeptunianSag:
How do you feel when your not taken seriously or 'left in the dumps' do you feel like there's alot of hidden anger and resentment because that person doesnt feel the same way about them as you do? Asking because I'm going through a harsh moon/pluto transit and I'm surprised I haven't murdered anyone yet lol
I can relate to this, yes. Here is the song that often comes to mind for me in such scenarios. Treat Me Like Your Mother by The Dead Weather. 
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=M7QSkI6My1g Aaannnndd...Die By the Drop, also by The Dead Weather.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K0YI0UUazkU I think it's the Pluto opposite Venus, and the Sun/BML in 8H that does it.
Not that I like it.
It just is what it is. IP: Logged |
Gemini30
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From: Los Angeles
Registered: Sep 2014
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posted January 26, 2015 12:15 AM
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Originally posted by theunknown:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by Gemini30:
[b]Moon in scorpio conj pluto. Sun in the 8th house, pluto in the 1st, venus opp pluto. Yes when i don't get the attention or respect i want, i tend to get very angry with it. I can't help it at times when i lose my temper and lash out. Unfortunately, i always lash out at the wrong people who don't deserve it.
Afterward do you calm down or do you still dislike the person? [/B][/QUOTE] I usually tend to dislike the person. i mean i'm still holding grudges from Kindergarten lol. IP: Logged |
YellowGerbera
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posted January 26, 2015 12:33 AM
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Originally posted by theunknown:
Would you take a sincere apology?
I do actually, but I will have to know why they behaved the way they did. I will see if they are genuine about their reasoning. If I think they are BSing and all excuses. I will just acknowledge their apology and won't trust them again. I'd remain observant and study them constantly.... I have Pluto in Scorpio, 11H, conjunct Vesta, trine Sun/Moon/Merc in Pisces, 3H.  IP: Logged |
Ann7
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Registered: May 2009
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posted January 26, 2015 03:58 PM
It depends on who is ******* me off. If it's family, I tend to forgive and forget. If it's a friend or acquaintance they eventually will cease to exist as far as I am concerned. I will not do anything vengeful, like a lot of scorps might, I just won't waist my energy on them and I sincerely stop caring what they think. Their loss. IP: Logged |
Gabby
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posted January 26, 2015 04:50 PM
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Originally posted by Violets:
I can relate to this, yes.Here is the song that often comes to mind for me in such scenarios. Treat Me Like Your Mother by The Dead Weather.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=M7QSkI6My1g Aaannnndd...Die By the Drop, also by The Dead Weather.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K0YI0UUazkU I think it's the Pluto opposite Venus, and the Sun/BML in 8H that does it.
Not that I like it.
It just is what it is.
Cool songs, I like that band!!
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Yanmorg
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posted January 27, 2015 08:53 AM
Yes. i'm trying to gain a different perspective because if we take every rejection personally and internalize that pain, we will never be happy. No one is responsible for our own feelings except us. & we control our own happiness. Of course this is my Eagle-Scorpion self talking.. I always get angry and emotional after finding out I've been deceived by someone I puf my feelings into, but I usually get ignored which reinforces the feelings of rejection and worthlessness, but after a fee more hesrtbreaks, I realized why I was so unhappy. Blaming others for their actions is like blaming someone for the fact that you can't control them. We can only control how we respond to a situation and when situations where another person doesn't value you or your presence all you can do is bow out gracefully because most likely they'll see you're not chasing them which signals that you're actually the one that should be chased after. It's not a game if it's genuine self love. IP: Logged |
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