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From: norwich
Registered: Jan 2015

posted January 26, 2015 03:38 PM            

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hi,
i recently met this cancer man and we hit it off straight away, he had family issues that he used to confide in me with and we would text for hours. after a few weeks we met and we instantly liked each other. to cut a very long story short, i asked if he was talking to other women, he went mental at me and abruptly cut me out of his life. we no longer talk. ive apologised but although he responds to me, he never initiates communication. we havent talked in a month now. i know cancers go into their 'shell' and they old a grudge but have i lost him?
i dont think he trusts me anymore for him to open up to me.

me
rising gemini
sun libra
moon virgo
murcury libra
venus virgo

him
rising libra
sun cancer
moon virgo
mercury leo
venus virgo
mars capricorn

can anyone help me understand him and although i dont want to chase him, should i based on his chart??

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From: OR
Registered: Apr 2011

posted January 26, 2015 03:50 PM            

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why would you still want to go after a guy who 'went mental' on you over an innocent and legitimate question? you dodged a bullet.

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From: norwich
Registered: Jan 2015

posted January 26, 2015 04:25 PM            

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yeah i get that. i think im just interested to see what he is like in relationships from his chart.. i hate to think id upset him and made this go wrong as he is everything i was looking for in a man..

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From: nevada
Registered: Apr 2009

posted January 26, 2015 06:36 PM            

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Hello kestrelfairy! Welcome to LL

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From: Pluto with Barbiegirl19
Registered: Nov 2013

posted January 26, 2015 06:48 PM            

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If he is Libra rising, but Virgo Venus and moon then likely his Venus and moon are in the 12th?

He may have felt that you were trying to invade his privacy. It may not make sense but it's possible.

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From: Chengdu, China
Registered: Jul 2014

posted January 26, 2015 07:58 PM            

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I had kind of dated a Can man(Moon, Venus and Mars in Gemini). I felt he hid something, I mean I felt he had someone else.I asked him to tell me the truth, he said he didn't. By and by, we went apart, he kept quiet and didn't talk to me any more. Even I sent a few emails and left a few words twice, he still kept quiet. Last Christmas Eve, I left a message just wish him Merry Christmas, to my big surprise,he responded. He had been quiet for about ten months.

So I don't know if he will talk to you again in this case. You got the same Moon and Venus, I don't know if your moon and Venus aspected each other or not. If you do, that is better, Venus/Moon contact can ease the tension of hard aspects. That is my personal opinion

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