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Topic: scorpio moon and mistrust..
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zirr1
Newflake Posts: 14
From: Scotland
Registered: May 2014
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posted January 29, 2015 08:56 AM
  
Everything I read on Scorpio moons are people saying they couldn't deal with the constant mistrust and reading between the lines with them. As a Scorpio moon who has just had a relationship breakdown with this being the reason, what do you do..?Are there any Scorpio moons out there who don't do this? I would say I'm not aware of my mistrust showing, or even that I'm mistrust-ing when communicating. What's a good way of stopping coming across like this when communicating? I think I naturally analyse when people talk and I realise this could be taken as me not believing them. IP: Logged |
Pretty Theft
Knowflake Posts: 83
From: Chicago
Registered: Nov 2014
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posted January 29, 2015 09:29 AM
I was in a 3-year relationship with a Scorpio moon (Taurus sun) and I adored the pants off him. It made sense for me though, I have a Pisces moon. I also have a fair amount of Scorpio myself -- Saturn, Mars and MC -- so the probing didn't put me off (I myself can be a bit of a detective with my Scorpio Mars!).I don't think there's anything wrong with you. But perhaps it might help to consider other people's boundaries -- Scorpios can have a tendency to overlook them and not realize when they're crossing lines. IP: Logged |
margym0o
Knowflake Posts: 360
From: Ontario, Canada
Registered: Jul 2014
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posted January 29, 2015 10:21 AM
As a Scorpio Moon myself I can tell you this is a constant struggle. However, I do believe there are varying degrees of mistrust based on your relationship with the person you're interacting with, and also their own personal attributes. My worst tendencies tend to come out in my love relationships. Ever have that feeling when someone just doesn't vibe right? Even if you have a perfectly acceptable relationship otherwise? I can tell you someone who vibes as being even the slightest bit untrustworthy or "shady" (even if they're not in reality) sends my mistrusting brain into overdrive. Suddenly everything they do and say is analyzed for alterior motives and hidden agendas. Even in my most "trusting" relationships I've had moments where I start to feel suspicious unnecessarily, almost like I can never let my guard completely down.It is hard. The best part is you have recognized it and really the only advice I can give is to try and restrain yourself from acting on your impulses to lash out. It really is an internal battle and you have to make a conscious decision to try and feel otherwise. IP: Logged |
DeepFreeze
Knowflake Posts: 4079
From: Pluto with Barbiegirl19
Registered: Nov 2013
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posted January 29, 2015 10:32 AM
One day I was looking at charts of people that I have known and discovered a few Scorpio moons. I really didn't know before that. One Cancer sun, scorpio moon would tell me all kinds of their deepest secrets that they told no one else. They enjoyed it and obviously trusted me. Another Cancer sun, Scorpio moon obviously struggled with wanting to be close, but not open themselves up to possibly being hurt. They were secretive, yet a little affectionate and very flattering. It didn't take too long for me to become frustrated and walk away. I generally do not like overly cautious or secretive people. But I've found this trait to be true of all water in a general sense. It comes out a little differently but they all seem to carry this trait.
I've had similar experiences as my second example, but with other water signs. Just a little different. ~~ Libra Rising
~~ Leo Sun
~~ Gemini Moon IP: Logged |
Stawr
Moderator Posts: 3082
From: N. America
Registered: Nov 2010
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posted January 30, 2015 08:33 AM
I have Scorpio moon, and I am working on this now. Saturn is squaring my Venus and will be in my 7th house soon. So my relationship feels VERY tested lately. My guy currently took a full time job along with full time school. I went from on average, seeing him 4 times in a week to once a week.What helps me with my issues is, sometimes making an ass out of myself and never wanting to make an ass out of my self again, talking to my Libra sun sister, she has great advice and I always have a better relationship perspective after talking to her, and then putting being more mature and calm into place. Last weekend was rough for us, but now choosing not to let things get to me has made this week better. Though we had a lot to get off our chest, he made it clear that he wanted this to work. So I'm mellowing out. We are both busy, but he is the busiest currently. But lately I've been mentally preparing myself for the Saturn square Venus transit, and Saturn entering my 7th house. IP: Logged |
Sylven
Knowflake Posts: 47
From: Netherlands
Registered: Nov 2014
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posted January 30, 2015 10:03 AM
I know many with that Moon placement and a lot of people with Scorpio stuff. I am wondering how come?  My sister and my best friend from primary school. My sis and I were best friends. She is kind of introverted about her feelings. There are those things that I just don't know about her. I never saw her being- and I am almost very sure she is not mistrusting though. There are variations. Introverted is one but I also know an Aries, who is a dear friend, and he tells me everything and would tell other people as well. I think. Another guy I have had (or still do but don't see him anymore) a strong bond with has told me a lot of his secrets he said no one else knows. Not even his brother. I on the other hand find this hard to believe and start to mistrust myself. I have Pluto in the first house 9 dgrs from Asc. square Sun, quincunx Moon. This guy has a lot of secrets so I can understand he is mistrusting others as well (projection).
Another dear guy is very very closed about his feelings but he has Moon Libra conjunct Pluto, Scorp Asc. Venus and Mars. What do you expect?! And yes he is sort of afraid people will hurt him so he keeps it to himself. I heart him! IP: Logged |
charlie
Knowflake Posts: 2796
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Registered: Jun 2012
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posted January 30, 2015 11:12 AM
I have many Pluto squares and a Scorpio NN in 3H (communication) and will say this: I probe the depths. Some can handle it, others can't. I don't mistrust UNLESS person in question is doing or saying shady things and then all hopes are pretty much ruined. I won't be able to fully trust that person ever again. It's one thing not wanting to share personal things because they might dig up old ghosts but hide stuff that are insincere in nature is a no-go with me. IP: Logged |
the89freespirit
Knowflake Posts: 447
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Registered: Jan 2012
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posted January 30, 2015 01:11 PM
Scorpio Moon conjunct PlutoAnd no, I'm making a very conscious effort to not hide my feelings anymore, no matter how people might take them or not. In getting over my childhood, I've realized that not being able to openly share my feelings with others is only repeating the conditioning I was brought up with: that there are feelings that aren't "allowed" and should be hidden. So, I'm finding a huge change in myself now. More relaxed, happier, not suspicious anymore of what people have to hide. It's the dramatic transformation that Scorpio is said to be capable of. And I seek out only the people who can truly listen to and acknowledge my feelings, without any guilt trips or manipulation or projection or anything else. I am aware that everyone is not capable of that. But, that's no reason to go around being all closed off and resentful. That's a very painful way to live. I should know. ------------------
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