posted January 30, 2015 03:31 PM            

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Originally posted by lisalisa:
So i'm wondering if anyone could tell me about if there is an attraction with people who have personal planets conjunct your DSC, even if they're not aspecting your personal planets or chart ruler..

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posted January 30, 2015 04:11 PM            

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Originally posted by wheresthemoon:
Yes. One guy had venus on my dsc and one had mars on my dsc. Definite attraction on my part. I dated the venus guy so at least in that instance the attraction was mutual.

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Did they make aspects to your personal planets?

posted January 30, 2015 04:46 PM            

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Originally posted by lisalisa:
Did they make aspects to your personal planets?

I have pluto conjunct my ascendant therefore every man with planets conjunct my dsc is opposing my pluto (chartruler) i always thought that's why i'm attracted.. Not the dsc conjunction perse

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Yes we do have some personal planet aspects.

posted January 31, 2015 05:02 PM            

I can tell whenever a woman has a Scorpio placement because I find that aspect of her personality completely hot and attractive. Most of my relationships/flings have had Scorpio placements. Usually Venus or Sun are the culprits.

I just started dating someone now and she has Sun and Mercury in Scorpio which means her Sun and Mercury is in my 7th house conjuncting my Sun and Mercury. We met at a party and stuck to each other like magnets talking the entire night.

But it also helped that my Mars is in a sign conjunction of her 7th house Aries. It's in her 6th but I find that the sign conjunction is enough.

posted February 03, 2015 05:45 AM            

The first one I was 15 when I met him and he really was the sun to me. It took me years to get over him.

The second was just recently. He wasn't really my type and the plan was to meet each others friends. But as soon as I met him in person I was smitten.

It never went anywhere with either of them and I guess it's because of little connection other than their sun on my DSC.

posted February 03, 2015 08:48 AM            

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Originally posted by LucieLemonade:
I've had two serious unrequited crushes in my life. Both of them had their sun tightly conj my DSC.

The first one I was 15 when I met him and he really was the sun to me. It took me years to get over him.

The second was just recently. He wasn't really my type and the plan was to meet each others friends. But as soon as I met him in person I was smitten.

It never went anywhere with either of them and I guess it's because of little connection other than their sun on my DSC.

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I'll second this experience. Their Sun on my DSC has been the culprit of unbalanced crushes. I don't say unrequited because I'm certain there usually is some mutual interest. It just seems like the DSC person feels it way more and the Sun has the tendency to not match it.

posted February 03, 2015 10:33 AM            

I mean, I can definitely commit to an Aqua (my DSC), and I can even love an Aqua the way they tend to need to be loved. We make great friends. We make great partners in humanitarian causes. I can give an Aqua all the space he needs, a little too much space. I end up drifting away... Anyway I can commit, but for me, it is never intense, it is just about the sameness of ideas.

For me the DSC indicates an affinity that can built upon. Not earth moving without other aspects.

Now my Asc, MC, and IC fall in Leo, Taurus, and Scorpio. I would say that the Asc connection is fast, fiery, and just nuts. The IC connection is the most deeply felt and intense (water). I'm not sure about the earth MC...I think I don't know about the MC because I haven't been in a long term relationship with someone who's planet was conjunct my MC.

Anyway, I wonder if the nature of the DSC attraction has to do with the actual sign, no matter the planets. I've had venus conjunct, and venus,mars, moon in my 7th house.

posted February 03, 2015 05:07 PM            

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Originally posted by Koho:
I'll second this experience. Their Sun on my DSC has been the culprit of unbalanced crushes. I don't say unrequited because I'm certain there usually is some mutual interest. It just seems like the DSC person feels it way more and the Sun has the tendency to not match it.

It always feels really nice to have 7th house overlays but I value Mars-Venus for the consistency.

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Well, yes. Unrequited was not really the right word. I like it better as it's more dramatic! LOL.

In the first crush it took years, literally years for him to decide that he was interested. Of course, at 15 and him 18 I was only a kid to him. But by that time I just didn't believe he was "really" interested. It still took a few more years to get over him.

posted February 03, 2015 08:52 PM            

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Originally posted by DeepFreeze:
What I've always heard is that you attract people with those characteristics, not necessarily that sign.

True in my case. Aries is my DSC and I've only BRIEFLY dated one Aries.

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See, I think it's the other way around. You attract based on your Asc & are attracted based on your Dsc.

Eg. If your Asc is red, then you are RED. You won't attract someone looking for black or white. You will attract someone who likes the color red, your Asc, you. OTOH, as RED you will then be looking for your complimentary color, Green. So, while you will attract to yourself lovers of Red, what you're really looking for is a Green among that group.

posted February 04, 2015 12:00 AM            

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Originally posted by Nine:
See, I think it's the other way around. You attract based on your Asc & are attracted based on your Dsc..

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