posted February 05, 2015 01:57 PM            

Around December 2018 Saturn is gonna return in capricorn, and I'll be 29 at that time.

But around June 2019, the year I will turn 30, I run into the transit where Neptune in pisces is gonna hit my Sun with an opposition.

I have already read a lot about Saturn return, meaning that you will enter a new periode of your life, getting rid of everything that hasn't served you well.

But how can I possible know what to get rid of and what direction my life will take with that Sun opp. Neptune transit all over my chart?

I am probably gonna be so confused about my entire life, not only career wise, but with practically everything. How can I deal with this?

It already feels like I can feel that neptune entering pisces, cause I already start being confused.

My boyfriend is libra sun (9 degrees) with pisces moon as well (18 degrees).
Around the time my sun-opp-neptune transit will be over, HIS will start! But you know, that is already almost 5 years from now, so who knows if we will ever be together by that time...

But if we would still be together until then, I can hardly believe we can ever keep it together during all these difficult transits, and our saturn return clashing with it all.
I can only see that it will be some extremely challenging years, I don't even know what to do about it now.

I feel very lost here, so if there is anyone who could give a good insight please help!

posted February 06, 2015 10:56 AM            

The same can happen for you. Take a hard look at your life right now. Are you happy with the way your life is going right now? Do you feel a sense of fulfillment with work or school? Do you truly love your boyfriend or are you only with him because you are afraid of being alone?

Do not be passive with your life. If there is something you don't like, change it now before you hit your Saturn Return. I have too many friends now at the age of 29/30 who are all headed back to school or trying to figure out what they are supposed to do with their life. They wasted too much time in their 20s and now they are paying for it.

posted February 06, 2015 03:58 PM            

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Originally posted by Astra:
The best advice I can offer you is to get your life together now before the neptune opposite sun transit hits. I did not wait until my Saturn Return to get my life together. At 23, I started making changes to my life. Most of my 20s really sucked as a result due to the instability of it all. However, I figured out what I was meant to do by 24 and worked diligently for the next 4 years to reach my career goal. I just now finished my Saturn Return and it was a breeze! Instead of suffering through my Saturn Return, I reaped rewards for my hard work.

The same can happen for you. Take a hard look at your life right now. Are you happy with the way your life is going right now? Do you feel a sense of fulfillment with work or school? Do you truly love your boyfriend or are you only with him because you are afraid of being alone?

Do not be passive with your life. If there is something you don't like, change it now before you hit your Saturn Return. I have too many friends now at the age of 29/30 who are all headed back to school or trying to figure out what they are supposed to do with their life. They wasted too much time in their 20s and now they are paying for it.

If you can at least get yourself on the right path, your Saturn Return will be much more pleasant. As for that lovely Neptune opposite Sun transit, the best advice I can offer is to avoid drugs and alcohol. Beware of cults. I know it seems terrible to have this transit around the time of your Saturn Return, but rest assured that Saturn will force you into the right direction if you are currently on the wrong path. It may be painful process, but you will come out the other end stronger than ever. Promise.

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Thank you, it's a brilliant advice! Absolutely worth a prize if I could give it to you

I already feel that I am heading the right path though... well, right ATM I am not studying, but I am starting this year again. I should be done a year before my saturn return, so my hope is to get a nice job before the saturn return, so I can see that I am on the right path career wise (for good). I do feel that I am doing the right thing now, after years of wondering what I should do with my life...
allthough, I still got some stuff I need to try though...

And my boyfriend is absolutely right for me too. There is no doubt that he is the one I want to spend my life with, but I just hope that these transit would mess with my mind. Cause I have no need to start worrying about that... he is my one and only true love, but our synastry is complicated. He have neptune square sun natally, but we also have this aspect in synastry. So you see, it is hard with all this deception going on in both our charts and in a few years also in our transits... but I'll try the best as I can to follow my heart and see where it will take me!!!

posted February 07, 2015 10:14 AM            

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Originally posted by next to neptune:
Thank you, it's a brilliant advice! Absolutely worth a prize if I could give it to you

I already feel that I am heading the right path though... well, right ATM I am not studying, but I am starting this year again. I should be done a year before my saturn return, so my hope is to get a nice job before the saturn return, so I can see that I am on the right path career wise (for good). I do feel that I am doing the right thing now, after years of wondering what I should do with my life...
allthough, I still got some stuff I need to try though...

And my boyfriend is absolutely right for me too. There is no doubt that he is the one I want to spend my life with, but I just hope that these transit would mess with my mind. Cause I have no need to start worrying about that... he is my one and only true love, but our synastry is complicated. He have neptune square sun natally, but we also have this aspect in synastry. So you see, it is hard with all this deception going on in both our charts and in a few years also in our transits... but I'll try the best as I can to follow my heart and see where it will take me!!!

But really a thousand thanks for your answer, you really got me something to think about

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Aww…you're very welcome!

One last thing…in order to make sure your relationship survives the crazy neptune opposition sun transit, make sure that you and your boyfriend are extremely direct with each other…more so than usual. Neptune is all about deceit and misunderstandings, so you need to make sure that there is no confusion with your communication. Do not assume he will be able to read your mind even if he is currently very intuitive to your needs. You both will be going through a very confusing time. As a result, you need to be very direct with your needs. Be blunt, but kind. If any minor annoyances pop up, then deal with them swiftly. Do not let little problems build up into uncontrollable anger because this will lead to resentment and contempt, which is the kiss of death for relationships.

Make a pact right now with your boyfriend that you both will take the time to let each other vent frustrations and be absolutely clear about your needs. If one of you becomes too overwhelmed during the neptune transit and needs a little solitude for let's say…a week, then this desire should be stated explicitly. It's far better to say "hey, I'm feeling kind of stressed right now. Could you give me a week or two to myself?" than to withdraw without explanation. Don't take it personally if he wants to take a break. I've gone through some heavy neptune transits and the last thing I wanted to do was be around other people. I wasn't very sociable. It had absolutely nothing to do with how I felt about my loved ones. I simply needed time to myself in order to energize myself.

If your relationship is meant to be, then it will survive the Saturn Return.

posted February 07, 2015 11:26 AM            

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Originally posted by Venusincap89:
How in the world do you find out, what it is that you wanna do career wise??
All astrology tells me is either become an astrologer or emotional support for people
But I suck at both!!

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posted February 07, 2015 02:35 PM            

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Originally posted by Venusincap89:
How in the world do you find out, what it is that you wanna do career wise??
All astrology tells me is either become an astrologer or emotional support for people
But I suck at both!!

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Forget what astrology "tells you." What makes YOU happy? Are you at your happiest working with others? By yourself? Do you prefer crunching numbers? Or talking to people? Are you creative and artistic? Or do you prefer math, logic and science? Do you like fast-paced, chaotic environments? Or do you prefer calmer environments? Do you like working with kids or does the thought of working with kids make you want to run and hide?

You need to be honest with yourself with what you like. Based on what you come up with, think about careers that match your interests. Someone who prefers working solo and loves crunching numbers would probably be happier working as an accountant as opposed to working as a salesman or marketing executive. When you've come up with a few possible careers that seem intriguing, then the next step involves talking to people who are currently working in these careers. Ask them about both the good and the bad. You better be aware of both sides….alll jobs have them. Make sure you can live with the unpleasant parts of a job because no job is all sunshine and roses.

Ask to shadow people who have careers that look interesting. Ask a lot of questions and try to get an internship or volunteer experience in the field to make sure it is something that you are still interested in. It can be very costly to make career changes later on. It's better to find out now that you can't stand the sight of blood, for example, than to work very hard to be accepted into medical school only to find that you hate dealing with blood and guts. That is a lot of time and money that you can't get back.