posted February 09, 2015 11:41 PM            

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Originally posted by EmGem:
never really going directly for the prize until he has a million clear signs pointing to YES.!

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posted February 10, 2015 12:54 AM            

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Originally posted by lisalisa:
At least he doesn't have mars in taurus.. They are slowwwwww, mine doesn't make up his mind in 2 years

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posted February 10, 2015 01:28 AM            

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As a gemini mars man I can relate to the behavior you are describing. However, I'm not sure if this behavior has anything to do with gemini mars. But I can still explain it for you! Basically I'm really gun shy about making overt moves now because i've been rejected alot and misread alot of signals in the past. So whenever I see a girl I think is interested in me I usually second guess and psychoanalyze her and the situation. I think "is she really into me or am I just imagining it?" Or "is she just being friendly or is she interested in me on a deeper level?" Anyways.... That's what causes me to wait things out. Maybe that's what is going on with your guy.

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posted February 10, 2015 01:30 AM            

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Originally posted by Gemini Blues:
As for Taurus Mars... When we pursue, it ain't pretty... Like a bull in a china shop kind of not pretty. So we learn to wait so we don't scare off the object of our affection...

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posted February 10, 2015 02:24 AM              

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Originally posted by EmGem:
you frustrate the heck out of me! lol

i think my leo mars just gets impatient with these people (ok one in particular) and he seems to dance around me, flirting and playing. never really going directly for the prize until he has a million clear signs pointing to YES. soooooo frustrating! does this relate to anyone here?
this is paired with a taurus asc - slow to catch on? lol venus is in aries though so wtf?!?!

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It's not the Mars in Gemini that causes him to be indirect (well, sort of) but it's Mars in Gemini paired with Taurus. Because Gemini is a mutable sign and wishy-washy in itself if it's home planet is aspected funky, but then you add Taurus and they are slow to be overt because they're a sensitive and sweet natured sign who gets offended or feels rejected easy.

posted February 10, 2015 04:52 AM            

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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
It's not the Mars in Gemini that causes him to be indirect (well, sort of) but it's Mars in Gemini paired with Taurus. Because Gemini is a mutable sign and wishy-washy in itself if it's home planet is aspected funky, but then you add Taurus and they are slow to be overt because they're a sensitive and sweet natured sign who gets offended or feels rejected easy.

Mars in Gemini likes mixed signals, and not being able to figure someone out (to a degree) turns them on. So does keeping someone guessing. The big picture to focus on here is do you notice them doing it to you and you only? With Taurus ASC and Venus in Aries I feel this speaks to their focus and they would be the type to have a singular love interest despite Gemini's need for variety. For perspective - you would see the opposite with a Sag ASC because Jupiter is a really big planet and it's energy expands wherever it sits.

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Well it's very new so I'm not sure what he does with others. I know that he doesnt like it when girls are "too easy" as he likes the chase. He thinks its the best part. hello aries! I know he had a girl he loved who was murdered 2 years ago. the only one he's ever loved apparently. and recently had been seeing someone casually. He loves to flirt, loves women but yes I think he has this cautious, controlled side that tends to ground him. I can't quite figure him out and how to approach this situation. He gives me signals of interest but its like he's afraid to take the plunge and just go for it and ask me out for a drink or something. I think he was able to do that previously because he was about to leave for his holiday. now its been 2 months and he initiated contact with me since being back and we're back to the flirtatious texts - although as i said its only been a few days and maybe we both need to settle into it more before proceeding.

posted February 10, 2015 07:14 AM            

I've asked him to get excited about my new career and he said after he sees results that it's going to work out hell be excited for me.
Um, no, that's not how support works, jerk.
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We had a long talk that he's going to show support, even if he has to fake it till he makes it

It takes A LOT to get him excited

posted February 10, 2015 07:23 AM              

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Originally posted by fairaqua:
The SO is a Gemini mars, 10th house, and he's like that.

I've asked him to get excited about my new career and he said after he sees results that it's going to work out hell be excited for me.
Um, no, that's not how support works, jerk.
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We had a long talk that he's going to show support, even if he has to fake it till he makes it

It takes A LOT to get him excited

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posted February 10, 2015 08:43 AM            

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Originally posted by Gemini Blues:
As for Taurus Mars... When we pursue, it ain't pretty... Like a bull in a china shop kind of not pretty. So we learn to wait so we don't scare off the object of our affection...

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posted February 10, 2015 09:00 AM            

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Originally posted by EmGem:
you frustrate the heck out of me! lol

i think my leo mars just gets impatient with these people (ok one in particular) and he seems to dance around me, flirting and playing. never really going directly for the prize until he has a million clear signs pointing to YES. soooooo frustrating! does this relate to anyone here?
this is paired with a taurus asc - slow to catch on? lol venus is in aries though so wtf?!?!

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I have a gemini mars, and believe me when I say that if we find you boring, we don't waste our time on you.

You have a leo mars, so put it to good use and take the initiative. Chances are if he is spending time with you, then he likes you (on some level). This, however, doesn't necessarily mean he wants a relationship. He may just want something casual. Who knows?

What you need to find out is what what his intentions are. Be blunt. His venus in aries will find a "take-charge" attitude to be very attractive. Ask him directly what's going on? Is he just flirting for fun? Does he want a fling? A relationship?

Don't drive yourself crazy waiting for him to say what's on his mind. Take the initiative yourself and find out the situation, so you don't waste any of your time. Your time is valuable, too, you know.

posted February 10, 2015 10:44 AM            

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Originally posted by DeepFreeze:
Sounds like me and I'm Gemini moon.
I think it stems from not wanting to "waste energy" on excitement and then being disappointed.

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posted February 10, 2015 07:27 PM            

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Originally posted by Astra:
I have a gemini mars, and believe me when I say that if we find you boring, we don't waste our time on you.

You have a leo mars, so put it to good use and take the initiative. Chances are if he is spending time with you, then he likes you (on some level). This, however, doesn't necessarily mean he wants a relationship. He may just want something casual. Who knows?

What you need to find out is what what his intentions are. Be blunt. His venus in aries will find a "take-charge" attitude to be very attractive. Ask him directly what's going on? Is he just flirting for fun? Does he want a fling? A relationship?

Don't drive yourself crazy waiting for him to say what's on his mind. Take the initiative yourself and find out the situation, so you don't waste any of your time. Your time is valuable, too, you know.

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Well I guess then he doesn't find me boring since he initiates contact and was the one who asked to meet previously. I do think it has more to do with his Taurus asc now though. Cautious. I've never been the one to usually be upfront about things in a rel but I have been with him in the way of showing my interest. Maybe I do need to be more open and honest about intentions, but face to face rather than through text. It's just a matter of actually meeting up! I thought he may have been a player at the very beginning but now I'm starting to see things differently. Perhaps he is more sensitive than I thought?!

posted February 12, 2015 12:40 PM            

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As a gemini mars man I can relate to the behavior you are describing. However, I'm not sure if this behavior has anything to do with gemini mars. But I can still explain it for you! Basically I'm really gun shy about making overt moves now because i've been rejected alot and misread alot of signals in the past. So whenever I see a girl I think is interested in me I usually second guess and psychoanalyze her and the situation. I think "is she really into me or am I just imagining it?" Or "is she just being friendly or is she interested in me on a deeper level?" Anyways.... That's what causes me to wait things out. Maybe that's what is going on with your guy.

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posted February 12, 2015 05:13 PM            

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Originally posted by jjj:
I know one Gemini mars Aries venus guy pretty well (sun in Pisces though). All I can say: they have to be sure of your feelings, but keep them on their toes forever. Never never profess your love to an Aries venus man first . Give him clear signals that you are interested, but don't make the first direct step. Gemini and Aries in him will loose interest.

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