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venus2tinkerbell
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posted February 26, 2015 09:11 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for venus2tinkerbell     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I really dislike those threads which bash other signs or aspects, as they reflect a narrow outlook, so this is NOT what this is.

This is a ploy to get you over here:
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum35/HTML/002168.html (pardon my intro on the thread. I was feeling a little dramatic)

I don't care if you do synastry or not. Just tell me what you think. I feel so sick about this.

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But in an attempt to make this legit, weigh in below. Who's more determined in love, Cancer or Capricorn?

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venus2tinkerbell
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posted February 26, 2015 09:13 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for venus2tinkerbell     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
oh, and I LOVE CAPRICORNS

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posted February 26, 2015 09:15 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for DeepFreeze     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by venus2tinkerbell:
oh, and I LOVE CAPRICORNS

I don't know of a woman who doesn't!
(I'm actually being serious)

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venus2tinkerbell
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posted February 26, 2015 09:16 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for venus2tinkerbell     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
lol, hey there Freeze. It's nice to hear from you this morning. Really refreshing since I feel like I have been imprisoned by my own emotions for 24 hours. Can you go over and give this a shot?

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posted February 26, 2015 09:23 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for DeepFreeze     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Sure!!

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posted February 26, 2015 09:26 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Solar_Leo_Queen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I don't know about what DeepFreeze said, but I'm not a big fan of Cappy energy. Maybe it's bc I feel it lacks warmth and the emotions are usually invisible.

But if we're talking about determination here, it's obviously Capricorn. It doesn't matter where it's directed. I've always found Cappys to be more determined than anything. I've attracted a couple of Cappy moons, venus, and mars in the past. They just don't give up.

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posted February 26, 2015 09:30 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for DeepFreeze     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
^^^
The first one I've known about. You DO exist!!

Every time Barbie finds a guy on tv attractive he's guaranteed one of two things.
Cap sun...
Or Scorpio moon

Coincidence or no?? My Draconic is cap sun, Scorpio moon. It just hit me!! @_@

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posted February 26, 2015 09:32 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for venus2tinkerbell     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Solar_Leo_Queen, thanks for chiming in. You're right. I don't see any end to this. I get him to understand it's over. It's really painful for me too. He goes away. I worry about him, so when he wants to talk (and he is so casual about it), I say yes. I want to know how he is. Maybe the Cancer in me wants to mommy him a bit. Just because it's over doesn't mean I hate him, or even stopped loving him. But I let him talk, and then Bam! He's asking me if it's over. Before I can muster the courage to say yes, Bam! He's telling me how we're going to work on it! I can't think or move fast enough to keep up with him. I'm not usually like this, but it is his mind against my Cancer sun/venus. This part of me is just not equipped to do battle like this!

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posted February 26, 2015 09:34 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for venus2tinkerbell     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by DeepFreeze:

Coincidence or no?? My Draconic is cap sun, Scorpio moon. It just hit me!! @_@

awww. lol

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posted February 26, 2015 09:45 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for venus2tinkerbell     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by DeepFreeze:
Sure!!

Thanks DF. I'll check back later.

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posted February 26, 2015 11:04 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Gemini Blues     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by venus2tinkerbell:
Solar_Leo_Queen, thanks for chiming in. You're right. I don't see any end to this. I get him to understand it's over. It's really painful for me too. He goes away. I worry about him, so when he wants to talk (and he is so casual about it), I say yes. I want to know how he is. Maybe the Cancer in me wants to mommy him a bit, because just because it's over doesn't mean I hate him, or even stopped loving him. But I let him talk, and then Bam! He's asking me if it's over. Before I can muster the courage to say yes, Bam! He's telling me how we're going to work on it! I can't think or move fast enough to keep up with him. I'm not usually like this, but it is his mind against my Cancer sun/venus. This part of me is just not equipped to do battle like this!

His Merc conj Uranus in his (and your) 5th. Uranus can really supercharge Mercury. And its in bright cheerful optimistic Sag. And as far as I can see, its opp your Mars, near conj your Neptune Rx, and inconj Venus. That's a good number of buttons he presses with his Mercury.

Yup, sometimes its just not fair... :)

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posted February 26, 2015 01:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for venus2tinkerbell     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Gemini Blues:
Yup, sometimes its just not fair...

I'm just no match for him.

Thanks for making those points Gemini Blues. I know the hold he has over me is all intellectual/emotional, and not sexual at all, which is weird.

I'm trying to be gentle with him, but I think I have to just cut him off completely.


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posted February 26, 2015 01:35 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for teasel     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Faith is an example of good Capricorn energy. My sister, not so much.

I can't help with synastry. Sorry.

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posted February 26, 2015 01:38 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for venus2tinkerbell     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by teasel:
Faith is an example of good Capricorn energy. My sister, not so much.

I can't help with synastry. Sorry.


where the heck is Faith? I'm starting to miss her!

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posted February 26, 2015 01:41 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for teasel     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by venus2tinkerbell:
where the heck is Faith? I'm starting to miss her!

I don't know. I thought she was here last week. She posted a birthday thread for Violets, but I was wondering, as well.

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posted February 26, 2015 01:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Koho     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'd be very surprised if women found my Capricorn Moon personality traits particularly irrestible. It is certainly a respectable placement but most wouldn't find it the most comforting and doting placement as a boyfriend. Much less so with my exact Saturn conjunction.

But it seems like DF was referring to the Sun Cap more

Edit:

To answer the question more directly I don't feel like my Capricorn placement in particular gets me determined/into trouble in a relationship. It's too controlled to bother.

My Scorpio Sun in the 7th has probably caused more trouble in love in my teenage years than my Cap placement.

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posted February 26, 2015 02:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for venus2tinkerbell     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Koho, respectability and maturity are irresistible. A man who seems steady in his emotions is irresistible, though I do like to discover a little bit of crazy and a lot of intensity after some digging.

That said, it would seem as of the Cap I'm talking about would be perfect. Well thank goodness he lacks significant water placements, otherwise I might carry on this ridiculous long distance relationship while he finishes his PhD...

edit: my reply is for your comment before your edit

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posted February 26, 2015 02:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for venus2tinkerbell     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Well I dont feel his water...

I just feel his drive and control.

and also his very admirable Aqua placements. I think it was his aqua that I love/d, his cap I found attractive.

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posted February 26, 2015 06:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Koho     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Aquarius Moon is one of my favorite Moons. But looking at your chart his Aqua placements must have been very frustrating. I didn't look at aspects but just judging from sign placements his Aqua placements are probably difficult for you to deal with in the long term.

You connect with him well through your Mars and Merc but overall I wouldn't call it compatible. And his Sun. But the Aqua placements, lovely as they are, I don't believe match up well with your Cancer nature and your Taurus Moon unless you have significant Uranus aspects in the natal.

The fact that he has some 7th house placements should make him less detached than the usual heavy Aqua

He doesn't have water placements unless that Mars is actually in Pisces due to an incorrect birth time.

I believe I looked at this synastry before. Have you posted it once before?

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posted February 26, 2015 07:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for frankie2912     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Both. We're both.

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posted February 26, 2015 08:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for venus2tinkerbell     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Koho:
Aquarius Moon is one of my favorite Moons. But looking at your chart his Aqua placements must have been very frustrating. I didn't look at aspects but just judging from sign placements his Aqua placements are probably difficult for you to deal with in the long term.

You connect with him well through your Mars and Merc but overall I wouldn't call it compatible. And his Sun. But the Aqua placements, lovely as they are, I don't believe match up well with your Cancer nature and your Taurus Moon unless you have significant Uranus aspects in the natal.

The fact that he has some 7th house placements should make him less detached than the usual heavy Aqua

He doesn't have water placements unless that Mars is actually in Pisces due to an incorrect birth time.

I believe I looked at this synastry before. Have you posted it once before?


Uranus does a little in my natal. It squares my ascendant, mercury, and jupiter. It trines my sun and venus. You would think we could get along but where I need freedom he can give me none. He challenges my ideas for the sake of challenging them, and then after hours of fighting (me in enraged tears) he tells me he was just making a point. It's long distance so there's no make up sex. It ends with him smiling sweetly, trying to make nice with me, and me feeling exhausted wondering what I just spent the last 4 hours doing. I'm quiet about the amount of space he needs, because I'm quite busy myself. I trust him, so I don't worry about what he's doing in his time away from me. The problem is without regular sex (I express and receive love through sex), and with long periods of time passing with no communication, I wander off (emotionally). I just don't care. I think 'well, he must realize this isn't working'. But somehow he is more committed than ever, and I can't understand to what. So yeah, I don't fight about my Sun, Moon, Venus needs not being met, but it doesn't work.

I'm an optimist. I try to be brave about everything, but his damn Mercury. He gets in and speaks to my fears. He uses my dreams against me. I believe that half the time. The other half of the time I think he's right.

No I've never put this up before. I try really hard to respect the privacy of the people in my life. I had the synastry chart of one other man up a month or so ago, but I quickly took it down after an hour. The reason I've left this up is because our dynamic, mine and his, pushes me to to do things I don't normally do. I feel suffocated, and I'm trying to find air to breathe ( lol, I am being so freaking dramatic. I'm sorry). But honestly, what drove me to call it quits in the first place was not my dissatisfaction with him, but the things I was starting to do to take the pressure off.

What is it you like about Aqua Moons?


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posted February 26, 2015 08:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for venus2tinkerbell     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by frankie2912:
Both. We're both.

That's a balanced and honest position, and I like it

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posted February 27, 2015 07:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Koho     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
They're cool and detached. They tend to give me the space I like. Cappy and Aqua moons can also relate on emotional control. Different methods to that control and processing it but they ultimately understand the emotional coolness.

A few of my water Sun partners had Aqua Moons and it balanced them out very well.

Also, they're not shocked by extreme ideas. I could share with them anything and not feel judged. It isn't their natural reaction to be shocked and judgmental.

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posted February 27, 2015 08:57 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for venus2tinkerbell     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Interesting, Koho. You're lucky you've been paying attention to the astrology aspects of your partners for so long. I really dont have a point if reference in most situations. I'm looking at these things for the first time.

He is a person who is very flexible. Someone who is not shocked by extremes or taboos. He comes from a ver conservative society. He's not from, but studies in Saudi where I visit him 4 times a year (working vacations) or did visit. He is perfectly comfortable in that society, but he is also comfortable with someone like myself. He enjoys my "wild" and I can tell him anything, but I have learned that it must be in confession. If I confess my secrets, no problem, but when I assert myself (something that must be done in this private empire I'm ruling ) he can't take it. He has to pick me apart. Maybe it's cultural...

We're not compatible.

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posted February 27, 2015 09:04 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for venus2tinkerbell     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks for going over this with me Koho.

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