posted February 27, 2015 10:07 AM            

With my Gemini ASC 11 degrees Saturn might oppose it in the next couple of months.

How many degrees away does it need to be to opposing my ASC?

Does anyone have any experiences with this transit and want to share?

posted February 27, 2015 04:38 PM            

Opposition orbs can be very wide. I'd give it a good 8, maybe even 9, degrees. So, I'd say it's already opposing it. Saturn in Sag is about 5 degrees now. Of course, the closer it gets to the degree of your Ascendant, the more you'll feel it.

I've been through it before but totally forgot what it was like, as I wasn't into astrology at the time. Prepare to take more responsibility for your actions in relationships. If things are getting tough with others, stop and think about how you are contributing to it. Take ownership of your social skills and your influence on others. As far as romance, things can really start getting serious, commitment-wise, with someone. Or, if you're single, your dating life might become a real desert-land. See either situation as an opportunity to really work on how you relate to others.

posted February 27, 2015 08:21 PM            

Plus Saturn is squaring my Venus. I was dumped, and with Saturn still in my 6th house still, it's impacted my health.

I'm at a place where I realize I WOULDN'T take back ex in a heartbeat.

The way I see it, it's not a race who "moves on" with someone else first.

I learned long ago that going right into another relationship after usually is an epic fail.

posted February 28, 2015 10:37 AM            

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Originally posted by Stawr:
Thanks guys!

Plus Saturn is squaring my Venus. I was dumped, and with Saturn still in my 6th house still, it's impacted my health.

I'm at a place where I realize I WOULDN'T take back ex in a heartbeat.

The way I see it, it's not a race who "moves on" with someone else first.

I learned long ago that going right into another relationship after usually is an epic fail.

I'm expecting a portion of this transit will be a desert land for me.

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I'm sorry, Stawr. Yeah, it is a good idea to just take some time for yourself after a break-up. Jumping right into another relationship is usually unsatisfactory because the debris of the last one will find its way into the new one.

Maybe Saturn in the 7th can be a time of building a very solid relationship with yourself. Using the single time to be your own partner. The limitations of Saturn often help us grow. Then, if and when another one comes along, it'll be much stronger because you've got a clearer idea of what you want and don't want.

posted February 28, 2015 12:58 PM            

During my Saturn oppose Sun transit I jumped into another relationship moved in with a guy. Couldn't handle his mental instability. Moved back with parents. Dated him behind peoples back.
Not sure if this is a Scorpio moon trait, but I pretty much did it, so that I could tell him how bad he treated me in the relationship.
About 6 months of that I was finally done it got to the point where I had to block him on FB and and block his number.

Then I would date a little here and there for a while I kept attracting dead beats, and would not take it farther.

Eventually dated better guys.

And eventually met ex that I thought was a soul mate. The relationship was better than the guy I lived with.

I'm at a point now, where I hate him. I ended failing a condensed class partially because of him impacting my well being during the time. At this point the good things he did don't matter now.
Not sure if I always feel this way. But I currently do.

posted February 28, 2015 03:40 PM            

I'm nearing the end of my 7th house transit.

It is a good lesson for a 7th house Sun like myself. I've always liked being alone in favor of improving myself (1st house Jupiter) but it increased to an extreme with Saturn in the 7th.

It has cleaned out my social life except for the most important relationships. But this transit is coupled with tUranus in the 12th.

This is an important distinction on why I'm so happy to have Saturn in the 7th - the combination of Saturn and Uranus' transit are breaking down chains and walls in my personal life in time for my Saturn return and its progression to my 10th house and Uranus entering my 1st house.

posted February 28, 2015 04:18 PM            

Yeah I naturally keep few close to me.
Uranus is transiting my 11th.

I'm about to go hang out with some friends. Thanks God, I have to get out the house. My mom means well but she is driving me nuts.

My dad's side is very Irish, and I told mom I might not be up for a big St. Patrick's day dinner with dad's side. Because I told her I really don't want to talk about the breakup with dad's side. That just sounds overwhelming. I might need more time.

She is not the type to say "okay" and just leave it alone. She would not drop it. She even said "I'll tell everyone not to bring it up to you!"
I was finally like "Can you please just drop it?"
And she decided to be childish and say "you're the one that's talking about it!"
I really didn't need that so I told her "I am absolutely not going now."

My life is falling apart. In many ways, I've been staying positive most of the day and that really brought me down. I do want want to be around her today. She is not able to be supportive in a way I need her to be at the moment.