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lisalisa
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posted February 28, 2015 09:50 PM
  
what will make a taurus man lose respect for you? IP: Logged |
SDragon
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posted February 28, 2015 10:43 PM
Taurus people are pretty straight forward most of the time so I'd say honesty and integrity. That's for those that have it themselves. The younger ones, well, you'd have to determine what their values are and not step on those. Their values could either be based on real principles or could be the whim of their emotions. Taurus gets a bad rap for not really being a feeling sign but Taurus is the moat likely Earth sign to react based on feelings. IP: Logged |
lisalisa
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posted February 28, 2015 11:20 PM
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Originally posted by SDragon:
Taurus people are pretty straight forward most of the time so I'd say honesty and integrity. That's for those that have it themselves. The younger ones, well, you'd have to determine what their values are and not step on those. Their values could either be based on real principles or could be the whim of their emotions. Taurus gets a bad rap for not really being a feeling sign but Taurus is the moat likely Earth sign to react based on feelings.
Could his jealousy make him lose respect? For example i talk with other guys, not to make him jealous at all, i just have alot of male friends. I do think it makes him jealous..
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EmGem
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posted February 28, 2015 11:31 PM
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Originally posted by SDragon:
Taurus people are pretty straight forward most of the time so I'd say honesty and integrity. That's for those that have it themselves. The younger ones, well, you'd have to determine what their values are and not step on those. Their values could either be based on real principles or could be the whim of their emotions. Taurus gets a bad rap for not really being a feeling sign but Taurus is the moat likely Earth sign to react based on feelings.
i would have to agree based on experience with a previous rel with someone who had mars and venus in taurus. honesty and integrity was hugely important to him and if for some reason i wasn't.....eeeeek IP: Logged |
Gabby
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posted March 01, 2015 12:41 AM
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Originally posted by lisalisa:
Could his jealousy make him lose respect? For example i talk with other guys, not to make him jealous at all, i just have alot of male friends. I do think it makes him jealous..
Making a taurus jealous usually isn't bad, they get off on other ppl wanting what is they own.....but if they think your giving to much attention to someone else and it's interfering with their confidence, it's no longer a fun game for them. If you leave them feeling like they are losing their property(you) to someone else they have been known to get mad, throw a fit, sulk and possible not forgive you. It depends on how far it went and how many times it has happened. If they are in love they are very territorial! IP: Logged |
Gemini Blues
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posted March 01, 2015 12:48 AM
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Originally posted by lisalisa:
what will make a taurus man lose respect for you?
Touch his things without his permission. Move them around and don't put them back. Lose them or damage them or take without asking first. Its not that they are stingy or greedy. Its a security issue, and a respect issue.
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awakemer
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posted March 01, 2015 12:50 AM
in my experience not having an established career or degreee. they care about status and money.. and i agree with honsety and integrity as a must or they w ill lose respect for youIP: Logged |
lisalisa
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posted March 01, 2015 01:43 AM
so if a taurus guy asks you to send him nude pictures, is this a test or does he not respect you? i find it very disrespectful..... this guy i know for 2 years , we havnt spoken last half year, we just started talking again, he stated he was in love with me before and several times before 6 months no communicationIP: Logged |
Gabby
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posted March 01, 2015 02:14 AM
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Originally posted by lisalisa:
so if a taurus guy asks you to send him nude pictures, is this a test or does he not respect you? i find it very disrespectful..... this guy i know for 2 years , we havnt spoken last half year, we just started talking again, he stated he was in love with me before and several times before 6 months no communication
I've dated a few Taurus's and if they respect you they do not ask for that kind of stuff unless your deep in a relationship and go there without his prompting.
He might start to respect you if you stand up to him and tell him no! But he's just playing trying to figure out where you fit in, are you a play toy or the real deal. If he's not ready for the real deal then your "not playing with him" will make him lose interest but who wants a guy like that anyway. But if he's looking for the real deal you will win his respect and possibly love. IP: Logged |
lisalisa
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posted March 01, 2015 03:57 AM
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Originally posted by Gabby:
I've dated a few Taurus's and if they respect you they do not ask for that kind of stuff unless your deep in a relationship and go there without his prompting.
He might start to respect you if you stand up to him and tell him no! But he's just playing trying to figure out where you fit in, are you a play toy or the real deal. If he's not ready for the real deal then your "not playing with him" will make him lose interest but who wants a guy like that anyway. But if he's looking for the real deal you will win his respect and possibly love.
Thank you! I first laughed it off, then i told him i found it disrespectful, now he told me he's sorry.. Haha IP: Logged |
Gabby
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posted March 01, 2015 04:07 AM
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Thank you! I first laughed it off, then i told him i found it disrespectful, now he told me he's sorry.. Haha
Good, he needed to apologize!  hopefully he's mature and sees your a keeper! IP: Logged |
SDragon
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posted March 01, 2015 09:56 AM
Hmmm. I'd say there's some other influence there too. Speaking from a Taurus sun, Venus, Mars, the natural inclination is that you have my respect until you prove otherwise in your actions or deeds. Based on that, I wouldn't do anything to lose my own self-respect but then my Venus is trine Saturn so maybe that's why. IP: Logged |
babybull82
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posted March 01, 2015 11:34 AM
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Originally posted by Gemini Blues:
Touch his things without his permission. Move them around and don't put them back. Lose them or damage them or take without asking first.Its not that they are stingy or greedy. Its a security issue, and a respect issue.
This is the most shallowest crap I've ever seen. You are obviously talking about a bull under 25 with this.. A mature taurus is not going to lose respect for you if you touch their things..annoyed, yes but it's not THAT serious. We'll lose respect for you if you're inconsistent and don't keep your word. Blowing a bunch of hot air but no action that kind of stuff.
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Adimi
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posted March 01, 2015 12:49 PM
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We'll lose respect for you if you're inconsistent and don't keep your word. Blowing a bunch of hot air but no action that kind of stuff.
Definitely. I'm not a Taurus myself, but I deal with many Taurus-influenced people in my life, and lying & being deceitful to them can act like a death penalty in their lives, unless it's a well justified behaviour. They're very pratical people and all they ask of those who they love is to cut the games and be upfront with them, regardless of the situation! IP: Logged |
Gemini Blues
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posted March 01, 2015 01:33 PM
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This is the most shallowest crap I've ever seen. You are obviously talking about a bull under 25 with this..A mature taurus is not going to lose respect for you if you touch their things..annoyed, yes but it's not THAT serious. We'll lose respect for you if you're inconsistent and don't keep your word. Blowing a bunch of hot air but no action that kind of stuff.
With apologies then... Based on several I've known including one male roommate I had for several years... And yes he was in his mid to late 20s. IP: Logged |
Gabby
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posted March 01, 2015 02:02 PM
The biggest liars I've ever known were taurus! They were good ppl in some ways but the biggest cheaters and liars I've ever seen. I was with them until I found out they were lying to me and their girlfriend/wife. I saw the truth behind how they lied and manipulated women from the inside.2 biggest liars I've ever known-
1st-
Taurus Sun, Venus, Saturn, Mercury, IC
Saggy Moon
Gem Mars
Cap AC 2nd-
Taurus Sun, Merc
Libra Moon
Gem Venus
Pisces Mars
Aries AC I will admit they both had nearly exact afflictions to mars.... 1st had gem Mars opposed saggy Moon in intercepted houses.... I've read the planets that fall in intercepted houses can act Independant from the rest of the chart. Allowing the person to do things they might not usually do when those planets are triggered by a conjunction. He lied to me about having a girlfriend, we had a LD relationship for a year before I found out. My saggy Sun exact on his Moon and my gemini Ceres on his Mars. 2nd had pisces Mars in 12th, it was the focal point of a t-square with his saggy Neptune and gem Mars.
He was a pathological liar and cheater. I was with him a month of 2 before I found out.
He told me he had weekly affairs on his wife for their entire marriage. A year n half after I stopped seeing because of this....I found out he killed himself. My point...look at the whole chart! Don't judge based on only Sun, Moon n AC!!
Mars/Venus/Uranus/Saturn/Neptune aspects to the big 3 are vital to showing a persons true character.
Any sign is capable of being terrible or being awesome depending on the aspects. Sometimes the ones with very little hard aspects in their chart are the worst! Things come to easy to them and they don't feel stress to perform well, they don't worry how they appear or care what others think. They know they will be forgiven and skate by without to much issue.
It's always a mixture of all the energies together that make up a persons abilities for good or bad. IP: Logged |
lisalisa
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posted March 01, 2015 03:42 PM
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Originally posted by Gabby:
The biggest liars I've ever known were taurus! They were good ppl in some ways but the biggest cheaters and liars I've ever seen. I was with them until I found out they were lying to me and their girlfriend/wife. I saw the truth behind how they lied and manipulated women from the inside.2 biggest liars I've ever known-
1st-
Taurus Sun, Venus, Saturn, Mercury, IC
Saggy Moon
Gem Mars
Cap AC 2nd-
Taurus Sun, Merc
Libra Moon
Gem Venus
Pisces Mars
Aries AC I will admit they both had nearly exact afflictions to mars.... 1st had gem Mars opposed saggy Moon in intercepted houses.... I've read the planets that fall in intercepted houses can act Independant from the rest of the chart. Allowing the person to do things they might not usually do when those planets are triggered by a conjunction. He lied to me about having a girlfriend, we had a LD relationship for a year before I found out. My saggy Sun exact on his Moon and my gemini Ceres on his Mars. 2nd had pisces Mars in 12th, it was the focal point of a t-square with his saggy Neptune and gem Mars.
He was a pathological liar and cheater. I was with him a month of 2 before I found out.
He told me he had weekly affairs on his wife for their entire marriage. A year n half after I stopped seeing because of this....I found out he killed himself. My point...look at the whole chart! Don't judge based on only Sun, Moon n AC!!
Mars/Venus/Uranus/Saturn/Neptune aspects to the big 3 are vital to showing a persons true character.
Any sign is capable of being terrible or being awesome depending on the aspects. Sometimes the ones with very little hard aspects in their chart are the worst! Things come to easy to them and they don't feel stress to perform well, they don't worry how they appear or care what others think. They know they will be forgiven and skate by without to much issue.
It's always a mixture of all the energies together that make up a persons abilities for good or bad.
Well gem mars and venus are known to be 'cheating' IP: Logged |
Gabby
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posted March 01, 2015 03:44 PM
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Well gem mars and venus are known to be 'cheating'
I have gem mars, I'm not a cheater. Like I said it's the whole charts energy, you can't judge off one signs placement. IP: Logged |
babybull82
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posted March 01, 2015 05:26 PM
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With apologies then... Based on several I've known including one male roommate I had for several years... And yes he was in his mid to late 20s.
No apologies needed, that wasn't a dig at you it was to whatever Taurus person you were dealing with who went beserk because you touched their things. That's just crazy, like I said I may get irritated if you touch something and don't put it back where it belongs, but it's not earth shattering. They sounded like they had some other issues.
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DreamCatcher
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posted March 02, 2015 10:54 AM
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Originally posted by SDragon:
Taurus people are pretty straight forward most of the time so I'd say honesty and integrity. That's for those that have it themselves. The younger ones, well, you'd have to determine what their values are and not step on those. Their values could either be based on real principles or could be the whim of their emotions. Taurus gets a bad rap for not really being a feeling sign but Taurus is the moat likely Earth sign to react based on feelings.
I'm a Taurus Gal here, and agree with what you've said mostly. EXCPET- I am SUPER emotional, but that's my moon in Pisces. Loyalty is the biggest. Be who you are, and be upfront. We smell BS MILES away and do not take well to phonies. Once you've hurt us, we may forgive but will never look or feel the same way about you again. IP: Logged |
lisalisa
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posted March 02, 2015 03:52 PM
this taurus man is testing me or what? After appologizing about asking for nude pictures, he asked again today, does he tests to see if i'm that kind of girl?? We're not dating officially, he said he was in love with me 2 years ago, 1 year ago then past 6/8 months we didn't spoke, we called on valentines.. Now hes contacting me almost everyday.. He knows im not going to take nude pictures for him, he knows im not that kind of girl.. Still he keeps asking..IP: Logged |
babybull82
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posted March 02, 2015 04:40 PM
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Originally posted by lisalisa:
this taurus man is testing me or what? After appologizing about asking for nude pictures, he asked again today, does he tests to see if i'm that kind of girl?? We're not dating officially, he said he was in love with me 2 years ago, 1 year ago then past 6/8 months we didn't spoke, we called on valentines.. Now hes contacting me almost everyday.. He knows im not going to take nude pictures for him, he knows im not that kind of girl.. Still he keeps asking..
You need to shut his butt down. Tell him you're not giving him any nudes and if he asks for any one more time, you're done. But you'd have to be prepared for him walking away..but he's a Taurus so I doubt he will. Did you ask him why he keeps asking? He could be testing you I guess. But most men do this and know some woman after awhile will just give in. So keep standing your ground on this one even if he's annoyed by it, he'll respect you for standing up to him and not cracking. IP: Logged |
lisalisa
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posted March 02, 2015 05:35 PM
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Originally posted by babybull82:
You need to shut his butt down. Tell him you're not giving him any nudes and if he asks for any one more time, you're done. But you'd have to be prepared for him walking away..but he's a Taurus so I doubt he will. Did you ask him why he keeps asking? He could be testing you I guess. But most men do this and know some woman after awhile will just give in. So keep standing your ground on this one even if he's annoyed by it, he'll respect you for standing up to him and not cracking.
LOL!!! He walked away just like you said!! He writes, goodbye then don't contact me anymore and that he's going to block me LOL, i'm ignoring this.. So you think he'll be gone for good? He has taurus sun/merc/mars/venus aqua moon IP: Logged |
babybull82
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posted March 02, 2015 05:42 PM
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LOL!!! He walked away just like you said!! He writes, goodbye then don't contact me anymore and that he's going to block me LOL, i'm ignoring this.. So you think he'll be gone for good? He has taurus sun/merc/mars/venus aqua moon
Hmm, I truly doubt he'll be gone forever, I mean he keeps coming in an out anyway. Honestly if I were you I'd move on. One thing Tauruses like to do unfortunately is go back to old flames, just to see if they've still "got it"..and he sounds silly, he's blocking YOU because you won't give him nudes? If anything you should be blocking HIM for harassing you. Sounds like he's trying to manipulate you with the "fear" of losing him. But will it work? Well hopefully not, but of course the decision to play into his crap is yours, we won't judge you if you do. lol. IP: Logged |
Gabby
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posted March 02, 2015 05:48 PM
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Originally posted by lisalisa:
LOL!!! He walked away just like you said!! He writes, goodbye then don't contact me anymore and that he's going to block me LOL, i'm ignoring this.. So you think he'll be gone for good? He has taurus sun/merc/mars/venus aqua moon
Wow!! That's immature!
He's not ready or wanting anything serious....if he did, he wouldn't treat you like this. He's probably treating everyone he talks to like this, it's not anything you could have done to lose his respect...it's that he needs to grow up. IP: Logged |
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