posted March 03, 2015 10:10 PM            

As for this Scorpio - I'm not shy. And my romances aren't secretive. I can't keep my romances secret because they come about in the work place over 80% of the time. Venus in the 6th house somehow makes me a magnet in the work place.

If I were to say a general thing is I would not use the word "shy" for Scorpio. Shyness makes me think of bashfulness or sheepishness. I wouldn't use reserved either because that feels more of Virgo territory.

Taciturn/Secretive/tight-lipped is the word for Scorpio. We're not engaging you because we're sizing you up. I stare - a lot - more so with astrology on my mind. I very often forget to say Hello the first few encounters with people because I have too much running on my mind as I stare. It's a little annoying but I can't help it. Once I have you sized up my head is cleared enough to remember to be sociable and say hello. There's just so much to process about a person if you're really paying attention.

posted March 03, 2015 10:11 PM            

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Originally posted by Barbiegirl19:
I agree with all that you've said 100 hundred percent!! 🙌🙌 I can't stand fake people especially those that smile in your face one minute yet go running their mouths about you behind your back the next. Ugh that's a huge no for me and doesn't sit well at all. If you don't like me I'd rather it be announced straight away so that we both can move the hell on. I'm not changing for anyone. I can't stand people that criticize or judge people they're unable to relate with. I've so many friends from so many different backgrounds, I'm willing to give anyone a chance and wish others were the same. I don't label and am sick to death of the constant labels.

Yes an unloyal person is such a turn off, yuck. I'm completely willing to do whatever whenever for those I care about and if I can't get the same in return, I don't see how it'll work. One thing I will not do is lie to a friend or anyone I care about. If I don't like the way their acting or don't agree with something they're doing I'm the first to address that. I think that's why my Scorpio friend's and family love me so much and come to me first when they need advice, help or just support. I'm not a liar and just can't for the benefit of someone else, I'm just not that way and can't STAND people that are. That to me is the definition of a lousy friend unwilling to be honest. Also trustworthiness is another big one for me. I've so many secrets that I still have never told and don't ever plan to. Privacy is me. I can't deal with anyone who can't respect that. Trust isn't just handed out from me, it takes a lot to gain and once you have that I never back down on my word.

I swear sometimes I can't tell if it's our Cancer Mars talking or what but I always relate and get what you say.

Hella long post, sorry.

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I dont mind the long post at all hahah but YESSS i completely agree! I had my one friend recently tell me that i have been the only one who he has told secrets to and nobody else has ever came back to him telling him what i told them he was pretty amazed considering its been years of juicy ass secrets lmfao and i have not told one person im VERY big on secrets if someone tells me a secret i will die with that knowledge hahah i have like an unspoken code when it comes to loyalty its just part of who i am, also i dont care what a person is or believes i always give every single person a fresh slate with me i never judge them until i have experience with them and surprisingly not everyone is like that i wish it was easier for everyone to see the bigger picture and not be so judgemental of other races or beliefs, i see every person as equal in my eyes

Also im the same way when it comes to trust! My gf asks me why i dont fully trust her yet and i told her that its not her on anything she has done its just the fact trust cant be obtained from me by one action or word its gradually built up over time but once its built its hard to break back down for me i also agree on telling friends the TRUTH! Idc what they may say if i feel a way i tell them straight up i cant help it and the fact i have a sag mercury i REALLY just say whats on my mind hahah i cant help it i cant process how to filter my opinions at times lmao i be talkin crazyyyyyyy 😂 but yes i wonder why our ideas are so alike it has to be more than just the cancer mars

posted March 03, 2015 10:25 PM            

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Originally posted by Koho:
Meh it depends. All of it really. None of this discussion can be isolated to the Scorpio Sun so far.

As for this Scorpio - I'm not shy. And my romances aren't secretive. I can't keep my romances secret because they come about in the work place over 80% of the time. Venus in the 6th house somehow makes me a magnet in the work place.

If I were to say a general thing is I would not use the word "shy" for Scorpio. Shyness makes me think of bashfulness or sheepishness. I wouldn't use reserved either because that feels more of Virgo territory.

Taciturn/Secretive/tight-lipped is the word for Scorpio. We're not engaging you because we're sizing you up. I stare - a lot - more so with astrology on my mind. I very often forget to say Hello the first few encounters with people because I have too much running on my mind as I stare. It's a little annoying but I can't help it. Once I have you sized up my head is cleared enough to remember to be sociable and say hello. There's just so much to process about a person if you're really paying attention.

But trust me, with a Scorpio like me, especially with Mercury in Scorpio, I'm already getting to know you before the first word is said.

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posted March 03, 2015 11:08 PM            

NM - Scorpio-Scorpio

In total I believe I've met three NM Scorpios. All three were very charming, easy going and friendly/helpful/honest/open at first blush. Nothing at all like what you read in the books. I lived with one and things got ugly fast. This one was a hard drinker & smoker. He moved into town, if you listened carefully, because he may have been asked to leave his state due to domestic violence or some such. Anyway, there were games, silly little games. That really sank our ship.

A younger one (Sag Asc) admitted he's everything as written the cookbooks - He must have things his way. In the beginning this one was engaging and seemed to say many interesting things, this stirred my Gemini Sun. However, the instant it was observed I sought their attention - games, refusal to communicate, but sexual innuendo...pass. I actually feel/felt terrible here. With luck I'm hallucinating and haven't hurt anyone's feelings. I studied their chart and understood this person needs an assertive partner who will pursue them, not simply show interest and then let them take over, but go after them. You know, the way I went after that Scorpio back in '04 - insistent, stalkerish, holding their arm when them the try to walk away, thinking about them so hard I pop into their dreams & them into mine. Yea, that stuff...but that's the old or younger me.

FQ - Scorpio-Aquarius

I grew up with this one. Friendly little fella. Potential to be a really great guy. Not vindictive at all, but will ice you out if he believe you've wronged him. There's also a suspicious side.

FM - Scorpio-Taurus

AAH!!! I was obsessed with this one. This one squeezed so much poetry outta me, didn't know I had it in me.

LQ - Scorpio-Leo

posted March 04, 2015 01:43 AM            

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Originally posted by Koho:
Meh it depends. All of it really. None of this discussion can be isolated to the Scorpio Sun so far.

As for this Scorpio - I'm not shy. And my romances aren't secretive. I can't keep my romances secret because they come about in the work place over 80% of the time. Venus in the 6th house somehow makes me a magnet in the work place.

If I were to say a general thing is I would not use the word "shy" for Scorpio. Shyness makes me think of bashfulness or sheepishness. I wouldn't use reserved either because that feels more of Virgo territory.

Taciturn/Secretive/tight-lipped is the word for Scorpio. We're not engaging you because we're sizing you up. I stare - a lot - more so with astrology on my mind. I very often forget to say Hello the first few encounters with people because I have too much running on my mind as I stare. It's a little annoying but I can't help it. Once I have you sized up my head is cleared enough to remember to be sociable and say hello. There's just so much to process about a person if you're really paying attention.

But trust me, with a Scorpio like me, especially with Mercury in Scorpio, I'm already getting to know you before the first word is said.

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He's got Moon, Mercury and Mars in Libra, Venus in Sagittarius, Jupiter in Cancer... that explains a LOT! He probably genuinely means all the sweet thing he says and it takes me off guard because I have so much earth in my chart. He doesn't seem to be sizing me up at all, he wants to be together already!

posted March 04, 2015 02:19 AM            

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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
He's got Moon, Mercury and Mars in Libra, Venus in Sagittarius, Jupiter in Cancer...

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Whoa I wonder if he was born the same day as me, I have those placements..

posted March 04, 2015 06:23 AM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
I've noticed that alot of the women that post on astrology sites like LL always talk about how sexy and magnetic scorpio influenced men are. What's the deal with that? I can't think of any scorpio guys i've met in real life that are ladies men. And i'm being 100% serious when I say that. I really can't think of a single one...... However, I do notice that the Leo men I know have a way with the ladies. Actually, i've noticed that fire sign men in general seem to be popular with women, but leo still beats aries and sag by a mile. These are just my real world observations of course and they may not line up with any of y'alls experiences. Having said all of that I still find it interesting that the scorpio men I know are zeros with women given the sign's reputation for being a lady killer.

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posted March 04, 2015 07:45 AM            

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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
He's got Moon, Mercury and Mars in Libra, Venus in Sagittarius, Jupiter in Cancer... that explains a LOT! He probably genuinely means all the sweet thing he says and it takes me off guard because I have so much earth in my chart. He doesn't seem to be sizing me up at all, he wants to be together already!

I know what you mean about Scorpios sizing people up though. My best friend has a Capricorn moon and she likes to know what people are all about before she sets her boundaries with them. It's so smart and she's often right, I rely on her a lot to do that because I'm more trusting with everyone assuming they have good intentions.

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I have a Cappy Moon as well in the 8th. Pluto affiliations pop up all over the place in my chart. Perhaps the Moon makes me more severe with staring and sizing up. It is a very calculated thing after all

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I should also mention I don't think Scorpio Suns are automatically sexy. The Scorpio Sun descriptions are plagued with bad writing. If I had to guess then id say Scorpio Rising has a better chance of being sexy

I don't feel sexy. I consider myself really handsome but I would never attribute the word sexy to myself. I think My Taurus rising rules my sex appeal. I have a Taurus rising handsome look to myself and that's it. I don't believe my Scorpio Sun makes me sexy even if it is opposing my Ascendant, as well as Pluto being opposed.

Maybe girls find my Scorpio Sun *personality* traits sexy when intimate/in bed/one on one. But it's not an attribute I'll be holding onto in my mind.

posted March 04, 2015 03:50 PM            

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Originally posted by Koho:
NEWTON DIED A VIRGIN!!

supposedly. I heard it in an audiobook.

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posted March 04, 2015 06:23 PM            

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Originally posted by Supreme cT:
I dont mind the long post at all hahah but YESSS i completely agree! I had my one friend recently tell me that i have been the only one who he has told secrets to and nobody else has ever came back to him telling him what i told them he was pretty amazed considering its been years of juicy ass secrets lmfao and i have not told one person im VERY big on secrets if someone tells me a secret i will die with that knowledge hahah i have like an unspoken code when it comes to loyalty its just part of who i am, also i dont care what a person is or believes i always give every single person a fresh slate with me i never judge them until i have experience with them and surprisingly not everyone is like that i wish it was easier for everyone to see the bigger picture and not be so judgemental of other races or beliefs, i see every person as equal in my eyes

Also im the same way when it comes to trust! My gf asks me why i dont fully trust her yet and i told her that its not her on anything she has done its just the fact trust cant be obtained from me by one action or word its gradually built up over time but once its built its hard to break back down for me i also agree on telling friends the TRUTH! Idc what they may say if i feel a way i tell them straight up i cant help it and the fact i have a sag mercury i REALLY just say whats on my mind hahah i cant help it i cant process how to filter my opinions at times lmao i be talkin crazyyyyyyy 😂 but yes i wonder why our ideas are so alike it has to be more than just the cancer mars

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I absolutely agree with everything you've wrote! I'm sure your friends love and respect you tremendously! We need more loyal, trustworthy, willing to give others a chance regardless of their background people in this world! Talking without a filter? Hahaha that's me all day everyday of my life! I feel like people automatically think I'm sensitive douche whenever they hear how I feel on such and such. I'm a passionate speaker, I talk from the heart and sometimes it's crazy but hey that's me. I'll take being crazy and honest over superficial liar any day!

I love Batman! I want that emblem you have where the provider goes! hahaha