posted January 29, 2021 03:53 AM            

He was extremely moody, obsessive, controlling and manipulative. Lots of dad issues.
He wanted me all for himself, made me spend all my time with him (at first I thought it was because he loved me but then..), he isolated me from my friends and family and even told me multiple times to cut off my bestfriend just because he doesn't "like her" which I didn't do ofc.

He accused me of cheating multiple times just because I had male friends....he used to make me feel guilty for speaking to them and I had to stop speaking to them, because he just felt "insecure" yikes
Oh and he also admitted in one of our arguments that he stalked (and memorized) my followers list (over 500 people that I don't even remember) incase I followed any men or something....issues issues
He also told me that it's not that he didn't "trust" me it's that he was afraid a man will come and sweep me off my feet and I would leave him lol like I'm some sort of object or something..

Anything could ruin his mood, even trivial small things, I guess cause he felt things deeply and intensely unlike me (gemini moon) I get over things rather quickly. If anything small/silly ruined his mood then it's ruined for the rest of the day, nothing can make his mood any better.

He was too heavy for me to handle and being with him suffocated me so much.

posted January 29, 2021 07:01 AM            

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Originally posted by Astra:
This is my favorite moon sign. They are intense, but also so sweet. They are far more sensitive than they let on, so try to show your more nurturing side. Show that you are reliable, so that they know you always have their back.

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This.

My oldest friend is Scorpio Moon. And my partner of 2 years. I have never felt so satisfied with the depth of a relationship until this current one. Pluto aspects every personal planet in my chart, along with Scorpio Jupiter, so he has what I need. But yes, handle with care, especially if you have a lot of air in your chart. You can hurt them and not realise it until the air in the room changes. You feel the weight of their hurt often before they are even able to articulate it verbally. But they are so worth it, loyal to the death if you are worthy of their trust.

posted January 29, 2021 11:48 AM            

Wow. Can't believe you let that one get away.

I have only been close to 1 scorpio moon & I personally love his moon. He is much older & had time to grow into it though. My Venus & Pluto are conjunct his Moon/Neptune in Scorpio though & we both have a grand water trine & all of those planets aspect one another so I guess there is that familiarity of Scorpio heavy energy so we can empathize in a way.

I am a Gemini Moon too, which is pretty much as different as it could possibly be. My Moon is in the 12th and making all sorts of hard aspects, not one easy one. So mine is a bit heavy too. Neither one of us are very vulnerable with our emotions but I was born with my foot in my mouth & I sometimes unintentionally can come off as insulting even though thats never how I mean to sound. He never really shows it but I will usually notice a subtlety of his and be like hmmm let's play that back because I probably said something completely different than what I was getting at. He is real perceptive like he is staring right through you & reading every detail.

I forgot, my grandpa was a Scorpio moon too. He rarely ever talked but when he did everyone would stop what they were doing and paid attention. That man expressed little to no emotion what so ever though.

Your ex sounds a little bit like my ex-husband but crazier, like a mild version of what you had described. You have my condolences. He has his Saturn 11°46' Scorpio exactly conjunct my 11°46' Venus and he had some need to control pretty much every aspect of my life. He was a Virgo though with a Sagittarius moon so who knows where his insanity came from.

My doggie also has a Aqua Sun square her Scorpio moon. She's just a little snuggle bug but can get obnoxious sometimes. Not a mean bone in that dog though.

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posted February 01, 2021 03:41 AM            

As a partner, I think the right one with lots of patience works for them. They have a lot of strong emotions they deal with. If you live with one, you'll experience this emotional wave in the air. They may not outrightly tell you their mood. They rather feel the emotions - the bad and good. Because it is a fixed sign, I notice it takes him time to get out of a funk. Not an hour, sometimes a few days. I feel if they are not allow to have that time, they're crankier somehow. They need some emotional cleanse. You have to be okay and not anxious for this space. They need assurance of your loyalty - may feel taken for granted. There's seem to be a what if and these what if's are fear based.

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My ex would get concern if I am texting and smiling => however they are my good friends not a random guy

They love it when you give them your full undivided attention like they're the only person you see. Eye contacts important and one on one.

I think the one I dated was mature handling jealousy. I think what he couldn't was feedback - he was quite sensitive, no matter how I word it. For example, when I express a concern certain action hurts me, he automatically felt I was accusing him so I had to assure him first. I feel this knee jerk response maybe not feeling good enough and I may leave him. But yeah I think you have to be intuitive to understand these mix signals. They can come off angry but what they really need was tenderness. They may push you away but really they really saying please don't leave.

I think this is the first relationship I felt emotionally connected and there were mutual understanding. The other ones felt missing with deep intimacy.

posted February 01, 2021 07:25 AM            

talk at you about **** obsessively (i'm talking incessant bombarding me with their feelings, usually negative or just obsessive near nonstop for days on end, like some kind of psychological torture method) and you can feel it all coming off then when they do, one also pries too much then gets mad when i dont feel like talking

if theyre prime examples i'd rather shoot myself than ever date one

posted June 09, 2021 05:05 PM            

I can guarantee that we're very loyal to the people we love, and that we love deeply. Unfortunately, this love can also go to very dark places and it's hard for us and for the people who're dealing with our nonsense.

When I was younger, I used to display a lot of the bad aspects of this placement in my relationships (obsessiveness, jealousy, moodiness), but as I got older, I let a lot of that nonsense go thanks to therapy, and I'm a super chill partner these days.

I think it's a placement that we have to grow into and learn how to deal with our ******** first and foremost , instead of using relationships as crutches in the hopes that other people are going to rescue us from our own darkness.

See my ex, the Scorpio Moon one: we had our differences which resulted in the end of the relationship, but despite that, we still care deeply about each other and managed to stay good friends. Our romantic relationship was great, and now that we have a platonic friendship is still great. There was never jealousy or craziness between us, and he's actually the only ex I'm still in speaking terms with. I do think this only happened because we were more mature, though; if we were younger, it would NEVER happen.