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frankie2912
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posted March 04, 2015 08:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for frankie2912     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Who here has a tight Venus-Mars conjunction? What sign is it in and do you think you are naturally sexy, despite what you may look like?

I met a friend of a friend recently who has his Venus conjunct Mars in Leo, with a 1 or 2 degree orb, if I remember correctly.

He is NOT, and I mean ABSOLUTELY NOT, at all what I find physically attractive. Not in pictures, not in person, he just doesn't fit what I like but for some odd reason I find him sexy....in an intriguing, "what are YOU all about" way. The attraction to him isn't just me...the friend I met him through thinks the same thing. SO not her type but for some reason she finds him hot and can't explain why. She said it must be his mannerisms. I am truly flabbergasted. I would go as far as to call him kind of ugly in my opinion but he still exudes an undeniable sexuality.

Ok, so do you other Venus-Mars conjunct people find this reaction to you often? Are you highly in tune with/comfortable with your sexuality?

Do any of you others know a Venus conjunct Mars person who gets a lot of sexual attention even if they're not the best looking?

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posted March 04, 2015 08:38 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for YellowGerbera     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have this in Aries!
I don't think I'm sexy at all... (I think I'm ugly.. lol) but I do get attraction from opposite sex easily. I don't need to dress sexy or act sexy too. When guys like me, I don't know what they like about me.. :/

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posted March 04, 2015 08:42 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for fireopal     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Venus conj Mars Scorpio. You are correct !

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posted March 04, 2015 08:55 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for mercuranian     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
venus conjunct mars in gemini 🔥

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posted March 04, 2015 08:55 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for krltn94     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I've always wondered why people with this aspect seem to exude so much sex appeal..

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posted March 04, 2015 09:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Koniucha     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I am getting to know a guy that has mars conjuct Venus in Virgo. Oh yes, he is so very sexy!

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posted March 04, 2015 09:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for frankie2912     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
fireopal - if you were a man, i'd probably be all over you.

i think this conjunction is so magnetizing because it's the perfect combination. venus brings sweetness, softness, and beauty (not necessarily physically) to mars, and mars brings passion and danger to venus. It's like the ultimate passionate love-story wrapped up in a single person.

I have the trine at 0 degrees (Scorpio-Pisces)..it's the closest aspect in my chart. I experience this to a degree but I think the conjunction is WAY stronger, of course.

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posted March 04, 2015 09:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for YellowGerbera     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
still puzzled about what people see sexy in us that I don't see!

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posted March 04, 2015 09:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for teasel     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by YellowGerbera:
still puzzled about what people see sexy in us that I don't see!

I have the square, and I didn't see it for me, either, but I was apparently hot.

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posted March 04, 2015 10:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for theunknown     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted March 04, 2015 11:19 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for frankie2912     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
YellowGerbera...it's hard to tell specifically because we can't see you or be in your presence...but for me it's that - the PRESENCE.

You guys have this aura about you that is appealing. It's like you have a quiet confidence and 'know-how' (even if that's not true)..it comes off that way. It's a confidence and look in the eyes and physical mannerisms that is just attractive I guess. I feel like the person I'm talking about (who has the Venus-Mars in Leo) has a dirty secret that he'd love to tell me but I have to figure it out myself, the 'hard' way...

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posted March 05, 2015 12:36 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Gabby     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My son is only 10, his scorpio Venus/Mars conjunct by a couple degrees and it's trine his cancer moon on Sirius.

Every little girl in his class falls in love with him. I go to eat lunch with him and he's so frustrated and embarrassed because all the little girls stare at him. He doesn't know it's a good thing yet.
He feels like there's something wrong with him and that's why they stare. Lol

He's cute in general but he has this standoffish charm to....like he's just very comfortable in his own skin, he's self contained but at the same time shy n goofy n a cute way.

He's the only Mars/Venus conjunct I know!

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posted March 05, 2015 05:16 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for SDragon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Venus, Mars in Taurus - 1 degree orb.

don't really see myself as sexy but definitely comfortable in my own skin now - when I was younger, not so much. Had that exact same reaction, people look at me because I must be ugly.

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posted March 05, 2015 01:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for fireopal     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Haha Frankie. Well its never as clearcut as it seems. I also have Pluto 8th house, a tonne of Scorpio placements, BML conjuncting the Sun in 12th Sagittarius and a Mars MC conjunct to name a few. Sometimes I feel like grace Jones in that raw power and scare all the men away! Other times they think I'm a wench and I've had experiences where both of my female neighbours boyfriends have come knocking at my door thinking I was gonna be some kind of something, something for them ( I didn't and wasn't), things like that happen, or the stand staring hypnotic ones. I think its more complex than it seems, granted there is an emanation a vibe which exudes and its racy and raunchy, but it also doesn't fit, its both at ease and not at the same time. This could be to do with female repression I dunno.
Its difficult to describe it in this wee box!

What other placements does this guy have with you or in his chart? And I like it when you get curve balls like that in life, like whoa !

Scorpio\ Pisces, sounds perfectly balanced, how does that play out for you?

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posted March 05, 2015 02:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for frankie2912     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
You might find that reaction toward you not only because of the conjunction, but also because it's in Scorpio. Scorpio seems to come across as uber sexual a lot of the time and it can give people the wrong impression for sure.

I've experienced similar things with men, where they just assume I'm going to bang them. I tend to attract a lot of men who are already in relationships or even married! My Venus in Scorpio is in my 1st house conjunct my ASC and that trine to my Mars is going to the 5th house..my Mars conjuncts my 5th house cusp exactly. Maybe that's why..I appear to be a fun-loving ho bag. Sometimes I pretend I am...LOL

I like my trine..it gets me a lot of male attention without really having to try, similar to the conjunction I guess. My sexuality is really hard for me to express comfortably, though..I blame Pisces. Those poor guys who think I'm going to blow their mind only to find out I have to really be coaxed out. Pisces sexuality is hard to grasp. Scorpio makes it guarded.

Anyway, the guy I'm mentioning above is a Cancer sun (go figure, I attract Cancer men like CRAZY) with Capricorn moon. I'm a Capricorn sun. His moon is conjuncting my sun with a 1 degree orb. I know that's why we get along right off the bat.

I also tend to really like Leo Venus/Mars..it shows up a lot, and since he has both I'm sure my Scorpio venus squaring it all is just LOVING the tension and confusion.

Did anyone ever tell you that you're complicated? I feel like Scorpio energy is super 'complicated'.

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posted March 05, 2015 06:38 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for YellowGerbera     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by frankie2912:
YellowGerbera...it's hard to tell specifically because we can't see you or be in your presence...but for me it's that - the PRESENCE.

You guys have this aura about you that is appealing. It's like you have a quiet confidence and 'know-how' (even if that's not true)..it comes off that way. It's a confidence and look in the eyes and physical mannerisms that is just attractive I guess. I feel like the person I'm talking about (who has the Venus-Mars in Leo) has a dirty secret that he'd love to tell me but I have to figure it out myself, the 'hard' way...


Thanks for your input frankie!

I want to meet another Ven/Mar person!! Then I will know how attractive I am... maybe I don't know anyone else who has the same conjunction...

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posted March 05, 2015 10:32 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for aquaguy91     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have mars square venus and i'm naturally awkward. LOL! I come on too strong or I don't come on strong enough. Oddly enough My dad has mars conjunct venus in cancer and he was a ladies man. We look exactly alike but in this case the apple did fall pretty far from the tree.

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posted March 06, 2015 05:15 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LexusVirgo     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I know a guy with this aspect in leo. I don't think he's attractive but he is attractive. I think the attraction is in his confidence and the fact he oozes this "Im great in bed" Sex appeal. Where in real life hes not at all my type he's got a receding hairline and a bit of a gut.

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posted March 06, 2015 07:35 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for TuxLuigi     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have Mars conjunct Venus (409).
Every person who has had something to say about my looks said I was either average or physically unattractive. Well, besides my girlfriend, obviously. But I'm certainly not handsome or charming.

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