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teasel
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posted March 04, 2015 09:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for teasel     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm an Aries with a lot of Uranus in my chart, but this is the way I usually feel. Last year, I started having nightmares about being moved without my permission (moving house, and/or countries) - without even being asked.

Anyone else? Saturn squares Jupiter, Mercury and Pluto (ruler of my chart). I have to be pushed to do certain things that usually make me feel better, wishing that I'd got it over with sooner.

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awakemer
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posted March 04, 2015 09:20 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for awakemer     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
raises hand

mars in cancer square saturn and then moon, mercury, venus square uranus and mars trine uranus... so yeah i hate it

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deepseablues
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posted March 05, 2015 12:42 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for deepseablues     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I am feeling like this overwhelmingly lately. I have a pretty big life decision to made in my life and I am having a battle to the death over what it's stronger, my fear of change and desire for familiarity and stability or my want/desire to get away and do something new and different. It's pretty awful.

Uranus isn't that active in my chart, in the 12th, mostly wide orbs, sextile sun, conjunct Asc/Saturn/neptune very wide opp jupiter. However, transit uranus has been wreaking havoc in my moon by being opposite it for the past year, coming to it's final exact this month with the fun pluto-uranus square so pluto is squaring my moon exact too right now! And the lunar eclipse in April will be exact conjunct my moon too.

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teasel
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posted March 05, 2015 02:57 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for teasel     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
deepseablues - that is me, a lot of the time. The biggest changes have always been made with my family, which made it a little easier when I was younger - but moving so many times (being forced to) hurt me socially, and my confidence in general.

awakemer - I have Mars in Pisces in the 4th, which might be a lot like Mars in Cancer.

One problem for me, is that whenever I've been feeling happy, and excited for things that might happen next, it has been trashed for me. I've had a lot taken away from me over the past five/six years, and I'm not a teenager - it's more difficult to get over this sort of thing the second time around, or the third time. I'm anxious about everything now - the one piece of stability I had, was the biggest thing that was ruined for me. That's making this feeling worse for me.

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GypseeWind
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posted March 05, 2015 05:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for GypseeWind     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
This is my life story.
A bunch of fire with pluto, uranus and saturn squaring it. Ughh.

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Aries23Degrees
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posted March 06, 2015 04:09 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aries23Degrees     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I think the issue could be that you don't fear change so much as much as you being weary of the unanticipated obstacles /complications that may occur.That Saturn squaring Jupiter/Mercury is the culprit.

Saturn knows better that even though change is good,it can also come with some unprecedented complications.

Saturn on top of Mercury suggests you often doubt that you will be able to meet up with those challenges competently etc.

So you really are weary of all the administration(square Mercury) that comes with planning a trip and inhibit any initial excitement felt by a possible adventure into the great "unknown" (square Jupiter)

This aspect is the girl who is persuaded by her Uranus rich boyfriend to go out.

He is always calling her out on being a prude and unexciting (his Uranus squares her natal Saturn):Too locked up in the "safe" and known etc.

So she decided to go against her initial reserves(natal Saturn square Jupiter /Mercury).

She decided not to bore him with details of her fears and "I am saying "no" because I ..." etc. and just "go with the flow".

Fortunately everything works out better than she expected. She really does enjoy herself.But as the evening dies down, the boyfriend remembers that in all the rush to get there,he forgot to confirm their bookings at a lodge.

Upon learning all this, she has two options;

1. Let her natal Saturn squaring her Jupiter/Mercury say, "I told you to check on the details of this trip" and kick herself for not listening.Forgetting all about how fabulous it all was -up to and until that point.

2.Swallow her lecture to her boyfriend and channel her Saturn instinct into begging, borrowing and stealing their way into getting a place to sleep for the night etc.

Saturn provides caution, but the square aspect suggests that the inhibition could go towards overdrive-depending on the sign.

Someone with Mercury in Gemini squaring Saturn in Virgo may have learnt early on in life(and perhaps painfully) that telling tall tales(Gemini trait), gets one into trouble.

Either people find out that you are lying or something happens in the wake of your tale to have others doubt you/your intentions for telling it etc.

So the individual may grow excessively obsessed (Saturn in Virgo) with watching their tongue, relating only relevant information and NEVER "puffing" a story etc. Its as if their intellectual ego depends on them being absolutely factual etc.

The result is often a dull, nervous and overly self-conscious individual who is not much joy to keep company with -because they tend to be so self "editing" etc: Apologizing constantly for the use of a certain word and afraid of being misunderstood etc.

Don't ever let a square change you into the example above.

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LaceyLeigh
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posted June 18, 2016 01:02 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LaceyLeigh     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Same here. I have a lot of 4th house placements, with Venus in the 6th house. I like my home, and I find it a bit difficult to adjust to different surroundings, quickly.

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Piscean Tigress
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posted June 18, 2016 01:14 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Piscean Tigress     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Mars conjunt Saturn, both opposite Jupiter... I often feel like a racing car with breaks on

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