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Topic: Feminist vulnerability for Aries/ Leo etc Men to feel good.
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FreeLy Newflake Posts: 17 From: SG Registered: Feb 2015
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posted March 11, 2015 11:23 PM
Any psychology to help my Ego back?? I read women need pretend vulnerable to make guys feeling musculine in order to get our woman life easier, any input for this? (I'm sure you guys sure read somewhere before about 'letting man feel like they are the Man' before) I think this is especially very true for certain bigger Ego signs like Aries/ Leo/ Scorpios men.. (and just recently read about Aries man love damsel in distress since they are warriors)
As a very typical strong placement in Aquarius, I'm naturally very independent and irk at having to be pretentious and acting weak so to let a man feel good about themselves. It felt part of me inside dying having upon to hear that even, let alone to act and behave vulnerable cute lil girl. For god's sake, I'm not even Pisces.
But people give me some input of your encounters and what you thinking about 'Feminist vulnerability for getting more attraction and protection from Man'. Any skills or tips? Have you done them naturally or also trying implementing? IP: Logged |
PixieJane Knowflake Posts: 9707 From: CA Registered: Oct 2010
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posted March 12, 2015 12:36 AM
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PixieJane Knowflake Posts: 9707 From: CA Registered: Oct 2010
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posted March 12, 2015 01:06 AM
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Stawr Moderator Posts: 4964 From: N. America Registered: Nov 2010
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posted March 12, 2015 09:31 AM
I think the best thing to do is be yourself and the right person will come along. haha true about Scorpio's Pixie. My ex would brag to his buddies how good I am with a 357 magnum. I'm an Aries with a Pisces Venus, and Scorpio Moon. So I like flirting when in a good mood, and like to exercise, play video, games, and go shooting. But oh man...my Pisces Venus can really make me an over the top damsel sometimes! One time my car stalled out and I didn't know how to start it back up, I was crying and screaming. And I young man that got off the bus stayed with me until my parents got there. I now know better, that it's not the end of the world if my car stalls out. I've experienced being submissive in bed in a relationship with a Gemini, and more dominant in bed with a Scorpio. IP: Logged |
LeeLoo2014 unregistered
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posted March 12, 2015 09:46 AM
Just be who you are. But I find it hard to believe you don't have a vulnerable side. Femininity has a genuine vulnerable side due to the nature of feminine sexual identity (receptive, diffuse, selective, maternity). It's about showing that side, it is real, once you get in touch with it.Independence does not mean self-sufficiency, self-sufficiency is an illusion, we are a network, everything we do is connected to everyone else. Both men and women have their natural vulnerable side, where they need to let go and put themselves in the hands of another, experiencing trust and merging. Presently, women learn to assert themselves, men learn to show their vulnerable side more, since times are changing. But this doesn't mean the archetypes of Man - Warrior, Hero, Conqueror, Father Woman - Princess, Damsel in Distress, Mother are dying or supposed to die. There is also the Warrior Princess, and the Caring Man, all these archetypes coexist within us. ------------------ I seem to have loved you in numberless forms... LeeLoo's Esotericorner IP: Logged | |