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Topic: Venus in hard aspect to Uranus, very difficult in relationships
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Ashes2Phoenix Knowflake Posts: 146 From: New York,NY,USA Registered: Mar 2015
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posted March 29, 2015 07:04 PM
This is for anyone with Venus in hard aspect to Uranus (tight aspects). After much reading and even revisiting threads on the topic, do those with the above named aspect find it difficult to hold interest in relationships or to fully function without feeling as though your freedom is being restricted?Based on reading, I have read that women with Venus in hard aspect to Uranus have a tougher time remaining in relationships due to their need for freedom. With my own experience, I feel like anytime someone places demands on my time and my attention, I immediately become anxious. I believe the aspect is comparable to Venus in Aquarius. Me: Venus conjunct Capricorn 1'04 IP: Logged |
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posted March 29, 2015 11:34 PM
Welcome Ashes2Phoenix  I don't know if it's this energy, but it can't be tied down, doesn't mean someone's disloyal but they need the space way more than they should. Has been an issue almost always where possessiveness of other person eventually breaks the relationship. I like little possessiveness, shows that you care and love but not like a maniac where you go around breaking everyone's neck when your partner interacts in any form with them. Or better even a little jealousy becomes hard to handle sometimes. Anyways I've this, and I'm way too independent in my opinions not only of actions, but also the way I think. I can't take anyone telling me what's right or wrong. IP: Logged |
GypseeWind Knowflake Posts: 6510 From: Love Street, she lingers long on Love Street.. Registered: May 2009
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posted March 30, 2015 01:55 AM
I have a tight square venus/uranus.... I've been legally married (2 different people) since I was 17 years old. I'm 48 now. I've been monogamous for as long as 15 yrs in a row and had no problems with it, and would of kept it that way had my partner not changed it. BUT.... there's always a but.... My relationships last long yet there is always some undefined on/off quality about them. I've learned to live with it, and embrace the changes, when I can. It gets better with age.IP: Logged |
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posted March 30, 2015 02:51 AM
An old friend of mine has this placement. She has had a many "affairs" in her life, after the break up of an early marriage (exploratory experiences?) Now, though, in her 60's she's been tied down to one man for a very long time. I think she finally worked out (after her different experiences) what her real needs /values/priorities were.. ie the long lasting kind.. IP: Logged |
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posted March 30, 2015 08:33 AM
I think it's worse than Venus in Aquarius. I have that placement and I don't have the sheer will to run and will to dump that Venus conjunct/square Uranus people seem to (from what I have read of their testimonies online). I've tried to date men with this placement before and it never gets off the ground; they always run away.As an Aqua Venus though, I do enjoy men who have the sextile and trine. That mirrors my own placement, I think. It just makes them understand the need to still hang out with your friends as well and gives an overall indifference to legal marriage. That's one hallmark of Uranians. IP: Logged |
next to neptune Knowflake Posts: 3104 From: The Moon Registered: Aug 2013
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posted March 30, 2015 12:59 PM
What do you consider to be a tight aspect?  My bf got this, it's 4 degrees wide, so it's ok tight, plus his uranus is in 7th house. My only problem with this aspect, is that they really DO need a lot of personal space and freedom. A LOT. You cannot even begin to question this, though I do sometimes, I'm a scorpio venus between.
But it doesn't work that way, these people just need to do whatever they got to do, so if you got a problem with this, the relationship is over lol! My boyfriend for an example, loves to be social, but he also enjoys to spend a lot of time alone, working on his own little projects. And then he also got this thing with traveling for several months every year, and I better just stay at home, cause I know that if I followed him, it would be like invading his little adventure times lol. So, no matter how many times he tells me to become a part of this and that and join him, I stay away and do my own thing, I know that he deep inside appreciates it so much, that he can do whatever he wants. So in that way, it feels so easy for me to keep him, but the other way around - I would not be so sure. I am a scorpio venus and even though I also enjoy some private life, I cannot run from the need to become ONE with my partner lol... that we have this feeling of always being close, and always together. You cannot have this feeling with an uranian guy, they belong to themselves. IP: Logged |
Liliya Knowflake Posts: 1630 From: Registered: Jul 2013
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posted March 30, 2015 02:51 PM
I have a Venus sq Uranus. I think your best bet would be to date someone with air or Sag in their chart, these people tend to understand the need for"space" better than others. IP: Logged |
lalalinda Moderator Posts: 5253 From: nevada Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 30, 2015 02:53 PM
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alyssa27 Knowflake Posts: 249 From: Registered: Sep 2014
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posted March 30, 2015 03:07 PM
i have venus in cancer opposition capricorn uranus a little less than 2degrees..i have also my venus opposition neptune and trine pluto so this might changes the things a little bit..as GypseeWind said it get better with age..i'm 24 and i can handle the energy better now..during my teen years it was hard whenever i really liked a guy and had some feelings for him i runned away because i felt that i couldn't handle it..i couldn't handle my feelings at all..i remember discussing it with my best guy friend back then and i was telling him that love isn't for anyone and i thought that love was not for me..then i changed my mind hahah ..aging helps  IP: Logged |
Choc Knowflake Posts: 647 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 31, 2015 09:41 PM
É am not disloyal and I do not get bored of my mates easily but I have incredibly high standards, not in terms of looks but my partners need to possess a certain spark and charisma, something that will make INSTANTLY click with that person.IP: Logged |
Southern Sun Knowflake Posts: 273 From: Tampa, FL Registered: Sep 2014
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posted April 01, 2015 03:34 PM
What about venus conjunct Uranus with 1 degree orb?IP: Logged |
LovelyKitty Knowflake Posts: 617 From: ~*Cosmic Wanderer *~ Registered: Jun 2012
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posted April 02, 2015 03:58 AM
do those with the above named aspect find it difficult to hold interest in relationships or to fully function without feeling as though your freedom is being restricted?I want to share my natal chart. I have have Leo Venus square Scorpio Uranus (2°) If only this aspect , people will see me as relationship restless . But as I start to had a relationship , I have never been single more than 2 months . There' re really more to analyse about this aspect . At first , both of my venus and uranus are in fixed sign . They 're suerly show some kind of steady quality when they express their energy. And both Leo and Scorpio are loyal sign . Compare with others mutable square i.e. Gemini venus square Virgo Uranus . Another step , look at the relationship planets (love planets)... if they are more "fixed" then they tend to be in order. I have.. - cancer moon square libra saturn and my sun is in libra. So you will see I have a nurture moon and saturn exalt in relationship sign fix it . - my mars is in scorpio , conjunct uranus and square venus . I am a venus-Uranus who always want to have a status "in a relationship" . And my current relayionship last almost 8 years .
women with Venus in hard aspect to Uranus have a tougher time remaining in relationships due to their need for freedom. - not at all for me must look at the whole chart. IP: Logged |
Vixen Knowflake Posts: 367 From: Registered: Apr 2015
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posted April 02, 2015 05:38 PM
My mother has Venus in Aqua square Uranus. She has NEVER been promiscuous or too wild or flighty (she's typical Cappy - very conservative and responsible). She is independent and definitely needs her own space. But her Venus is also in trine with her Pluto so when she loves, she loves deeply IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 74192 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted April 02, 2015 07:33 PM
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ChildofVenus Knowflake Posts: 5943 From: Customer Service Rep. Registered: Apr 2015
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posted June 08, 2018 07:43 PM
I think this aspect will cause me to never settle down. When things start to go wrong in the relationship or I get bored I tend to just want to go elsewhere. Or start to talk to someone else it's not a good aspect to have.IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 153995 From: I hold a Juris Doctorate (J.D.) and a Legum Magister (LL.M.)! Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 13, 2018 10:03 AM
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vertiver Knowflake Posts: 2405 From: Portland, OR Registered: May 2009
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posted June 13, 2018 06:44 PM
Yes I have Venus (7th) opposite Uranus (1st) in my chart in Gemini. Right now I'm dating a fellow Gemini Sun and Gemini Venus that is conjunct my natal Venus. You'd think he would be the restless one who's freedom is stifled, but oh no, its me, he comes off a bit possessive of me, which is really starting to wear me down. I'm a independent vivacious woman and I don't need to be a relationship. But I do like the companionship. My last long term relationship I did have a lot of freedom. But it ended up being too much and I fell out of love. Really do not want the same thing to happen... Also I have Pisces Moon in the 3rd house - which I've read can be really indecisive in love, I often create things in my head to alienate myself from the person that I'm involved with.IP: Logged |
hypatia238 Moderator Posts: 15454 From: Mercury novile and parallel Pluto, Pluto septile Southnode Registered: Sep 2014
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posted June 13, 2018 07:01 PM
My parents both have venus in aquarius and have been married for over 35 years, steady stable healthy marriage too.My partner has venus square uranus and he has never broken up with me once in 11 years we have been together. I am the one that wants to break free usually. IP: Logged |
astrosaz Knowflake Posts: 363 From: Registered: Mar 2015
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posted June 13, 2018 07:54 PM
Hmmm I have an interesting example to this and how Venus Square Uranus natal aspects exert energy in different ways depending on the whole natal chart. For example - Myself and my best friend of 11 years both have Venus square Uranus. We are born a week apart so have pretty similar aspects the only difference being the rising sign and house placements. My 7th house ruler is Aquarius and my Saturn is in there, Uranus is in the 5th. I've had two boyfriends, 1 serious one and no dating. I'm not interested in dating or relationships unless I am SMITTEN . I do and can commit, but that person needs to be THE ONE before I do. I'd quite happily be in a relationship but this person needs to be so special in order for me to want to spend alot of time with them. The seriousness I guess comes from Saturn in the 7th and the looking for the 'special one' comes from Aquarius 7th. My best friends 7th house ruler is Libra. Her Sun (her sun is in Scorpio tho), Jupiter (Libra) and Venus (Libra) are in the 7th house and that's her 7th house ruler. She dates ALOT. She loves the chase, she says she wants to be in a relationship (7th house Libraness) and I do believe she wants to be in a relationship, but once she is in a relationship she gets bored and dates new guys or gets a new boyfriend. She constantly needs the electricity but also wants to commit so it's a constant yo-yo. IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 153995 From: I hold a Juris Doctorate (J.D.) and a Legum Magister (LL.M.)! Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 18, 2018 11:53 AM
Bump!IP: Logged |
ChildofVenus Knowflake Posts: 5943 From: Customer Service Rep. Registered: Apr 2015
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posted March 21, 2019 10:22 AM
Yes, this is accurate when my boyfriend of 7 years, said he wanted to get married and have a family I left. There were other things happening but that was the final straw. He actually said he was going to force me to have his baby, I knew it was time to go. It's tricky with me though I have Venus in the 8th house. Sometimes I feel like I want that deep kind of love. But then Uranus says nope what are you doing lol. Or I may become infatuated with someone (Venus in Pisces in the 8th house) but once I have them, I lose interest. When things become routine or boring, I want to leave. I like excitement, so when it's not there I look elsewhere.IP: Logged |
Ashes2Phoenix Knowflake Posts: 146 From: New York,NY,USA Registered: Mar 2015
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posted March 22, 2019 07:40 PM
Thank you allIP: Logged |
Hikaru29 Knowflake Posts: 3733 From: Asia Registered: Nov 2018
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posted March 23, 2019 04:58 AM
I know a guy with Venus square Uranus. I don't think he has problems holding a relationship. He was married for 7yrs and divorced because his wife cheated on him. He married quite late though. Now he's with my friend and living with her (it's been 3yrs). My friend said he often appears emotionally distant but not necessarily needing a lot of space. In fact, he's quite sticky with my friend.
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MarsSaturnDelight Knowflake Posts: 428 From: Registered: Dec 2014
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posted March 23, 2019 05:29 AM
Do you think this aspect attracts/attracted to Uranian and or Aquarius types?IP: Logged |
Ashes2Phoenix Knowflake Posts: 146 From: New York,NY,USA Registered: Mar 2015
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posted March 23, 2019 11:01 PM
@Hikaru29 He could have other plants aspecting his Venus modifying the Venus/Uranus aspect.@SaturnDelight I notice I attract and am attracted to others with Venus/Uranus, Aqua Venus or Uranus in the 7th. Even most of my friends one of those combos. We all need a lot of space, it's why we get on so well, we understand one anothers need for space. IP: Logged |