posted March 30, 2015 11:30 AM            

I think having a Libra Asc is a huge plus. Libra is one of the most well liked of the zodiac. I am Libra dominant on top of being a Libra Asc so I had many past issues where I worried about being enough for other people. Not anymore. Age and maturity settled those feelings really quickly. I could care less if someone dislikes or likes me. It's impossible to please everyone. Perfectionism, eh. I value being, doing, giving my best and all that I can to other people. I don't settle for half assed anything.

If you don't have a backbone how did you conclude that that statement applies to all Libra ASCs?

posted March 30, 2015 11:54 AM            

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Originally posted by NeptunianSag:
Do you see yourself through the eyes of others so much that you feel exhausted, or your just not good enough for others? I try and be liked all the time but when it doesn't work I get all depressed and feel like there is something wrong with me because I see myself through others. Also perfectionism is also a problem for me, I have to look perfect nearly all the time or I feel worthless. Being a Libra asc isn't all that good, I find it quite a weak and passive asc to have, I feel as if I have no backbone for myself.

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Does your Neptune square your AC?

posted March 30, 2015 01:12 PM            

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Originally posted by Gabby:
Does your Neptune square your AC?

I have a libra AC, I've had times like that but eventually you must stop caring about others more than yourself. What think of you means so little compared to what you think of you. The less you know yourself based on your perceptions and instead base yourself on others opinions the more miserable you will be, took me a long time to realize that but eventually I did.

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posted March 30, 2015 01:14 PM            

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Originally posted by Barbiegirl19:
Wow and you blame all of this on your Asc? Can I ask how you came to such conclusions?

I think having a Libra Asc is a huge plus. Libra is one of the most well liked of the zodiac. I am Libra dominant on top of being a Libra Asc so I had many past issues where I worried about being enough for other people. Not anymore. Age and maturity settled those feelings really quickly. I could care less if someone dislikes or likes me. It's impossible to please everyone. Perfectionism, eh. I value being, doing, giving my best and all that I can to other people. I don't settle for half assed anything.

If you don't have a backbone how did you conclude that that statement applies to all Libra ASCs?

These sound more like personal problems, NeptunianSag.

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posted March 30, 2015 01:22 PM            

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Originally posted by NeptunianSag:
Do you see yourself through the eyes of others so much that you feel exhausted, or your just not good enough for others? I try and be liked all the time but when it doesn't work I get all depressed and feel like there is something wrong with me because I see myself through others. Also perfectionism is also a problem for me, I have to look perfect nearly all the time or I feel worthless. Being a Libra asc isn't all that good, I find it quite a weak and passive asc to have, I feel as if I have no backbone for myself.

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I am one, too. It is hard, in many ways, but I really like that I am very harmonious in hard situations.

I can negotiate things well. This morning, I did that with a person doing some work for me on my garden and it is a win/win.

I am very good at win/win lol

However, it can be draining wanting to be liked and acceptable

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posted March 30, 2015 01:29 PM            

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Originally posted by NeptunianSag:
Ive got chiron in Leo 10th house,ifeel a meed to prove myself to others and the world, on top of that a Virgo moon I 11th semisquare Saturn.

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posted March 31, 2015 10:19 PM            

Granted, these are Libra suns rather than Libra ASC. However, you seem to be accepting that very wrong impression of Libra as a spineless suck up, that because Libra tries to not be an ******* while being cardinal (thus diplomatic over domineering) that therefore Libra is weak, spineless, and passive as you described yourself while blaming your Libra ASC. And Libra ASC shares a lot in common with the Libra sun anyway.

(If anything it's the people who bluster and stomp about who are more likely to be the weak and scared ones.)

Finally, being fair doesn't mean that therefore Libra is a martyr (that's more along the realm of Pisces), fair and understanding means to one's self as well (I don't know why this is such a hard concept to grasp and can only assume it's a corruption and misunderstanding of concepts put forth by Aristotle). Libra is about balance which means helping one's self as others...and a Libra can become twisted through too much contact with others as from too little (which can translate into feeling exhausted if you're around people too much).

posted April 02, 2015 07:56 PM            

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Originally posted by Randall:
We need a Neptune smilie.

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posted April 02, 2015 08:16 PM            

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Originally posted by Gabby:
Personally I think it Neptune square your libra AC that creates illusions or delusions regarding how your seen.

You feel like there is something wrong or your not good enough because you think your seeing yourself the way others see you...but I bet if you asked those ppl you would find out they do not view you in the same way you think they do.
The problem is not with how you are seen, it's how you perceive yourself as being seen. Neptune creates a negative illusion(square aspect) regarding the way your seen, to yourself, no one else. This battle is in your head and all you have to do is step out of your head and ask others what the reality is, how do they view you? You will get the answers you need to understand how Neptune is messing with your head and try to get out from under it's spell.

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Great post, Gabby!

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