posted April 01, 2015 09:16 AM
Its very tricky because as a Cancer Moon,my nature is to care.So that is what you get when you get with me.That is what I do. Duh!!!
But I feel that Aquarius positions tend to want to "dumb that down" or totally smite it. They don't like that energy much.
The two friends I have,I manage through long distance bonding.
I don't visit them.And when I do, I usually leave on the same day.
I limit one-on-one contact. But I am liberal with phone calls(every 2 weeks or so).
The one thing that I do like about both, is how unusual our conversations can be. It is really extremely stimulating (mentally) to talk to them.
I think that the reason that your friend doesn't answer your text messages, is because you are showing too much 'EMOTION'. This is a swear word to many of this placement. LOL.
Now if you combine that with claustrophobic Sag. And you have someone who has nightmares about being "locked in" or "loved to death" etc.
The relationships with Aquarius on my side, are not close or intimate. Simply not tight at all.
But the irony is that,it gets more emotional and intense the further apart we are.
If we have a common goal that transcends the relationship, it works out better.
Like when we organized a march to protest about a common cause. That was magic. I felt so connected to both.
But afterwards, the bond just dissipated.
I have learned that they really are very impersonal. Not insensitive. Just not likely to be the "bond emotionally" buddy types.
If you expect "love and affection' to be the be all and end all. You may be sorely disappointed.
The women in their lives find them madly handsome. And they are.But one is starting to realize the detachment that I speak of.
When she goes on long trips or has minimum contact with him. He professes his love and affection so much, she'd swear he'd put Don Juan to shame!
Where is your Sun/Moon/Venus/Mars?