posted April 11, 2015 03:17 PM            

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Originally posted by aleenaxo:
This is so unbelievable. I knew it was Saturn causing my mind to try and eliminate negativity.I even stopped being friends with my best friends and that was HARD.

Now I have little reminders about how to be more positive and at first it was really rough because I hated myself but now I see improvement.

Psychologically I WANT to move because I'm in a rough situation. But I also feel like it would be rushed, and I have no idea WHY I would move? Especially because I can't afford it and it wouldn't help financially (unless I got a higher paying job somewhere else).

After Jupiter conjuncts my moon it enters my 8th house and will sextile my natal Venus. Do you think that is also a factor?

I'm open to the idea of not going but as you said it is a wish I have and yes there is skepticism.

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Well, as someone once said to me: When faced with a crisis or not being able to make a decision- go soul searching and DO nothing else!

And this may sound "hocus pocus" to people, but it actually means that you go for the path of least resistance,the one that feels easier or brings some relief.

This "relief" is not automatic happiness. Circumstances are hardly ever ripe for "instant" happiness to happen.

But situations are ever ripe for decisions that bring relief. Always those situations are present.

Relief is like when traffic begins to slowly move after being stuck in it for a half an hour.

Or when you get to work and find that a colleague has already sent through some of the many reports that you were going to submit that day etc.

Those moments of "small joys" can add up to something really BIG. And big decisions do not necessarily mean that BIG change will come.

In fact, you may find that BIG change is not necessary when you find pockets of small joys in your life.

My point is that don't make a decision that feel uncertain right down to your core. The one that feels uneasy- is probably not the best.

However, the one that feels the easiest (though not always "desirable") is probably best for the moment.

If spending more money that you don't have feels "uneasy". Don't do it.

If moving back with someone that may "ease" certain burdens for a little while is undesirable, but the easier option. Then do that instead.

Steal these moments of clarity by making things easier incrementally. Then making a decision of BIG changes will be made more confidently.

The funny thing will be that those choices will not feel so BIG when you eventually make them.

They will just feel so natural and easy.

posted April 11, 2015 03:44 PM            

The natal opposition of Pluto in Sag opposing the 5th house ruler often suggests a person whose idea of "fun" is linked to religion, search for truth,study and debate involving social issues.

You could be a bit of a nerd with your hobbies tending towards more "bookish"/ studious really.

Because even if they are physical,the motivation behind them is to gain an experience that will alter your whole concept of how you view life/meaning behind it all(Pluto in Sag)

With transiting Saturn conjunct the 5th house ruler, things are about to get REAL. And this is why a positive frame of mind will be useful.

All your interests and hobbies may come crashing down behind your ears and leaving you wondering what the point of all your recreational endeavors were?

You could have a real test/crisis of faith during this time(Pluto in Sag) OR gain a more realistic/rigid perspective that you may err towards being too engrossed in(Pluto-Saturn tr conjunction).

With intimacy, the issues could be similar. With Mercury ruled Virgo there, Pluto in Sag does extend its compounding influence on it natally.

So I don't know if you have always associated sex with religion i.e some kind of moral dilemma. Perhaps had a sexual interest in foreigners that was more of a fantasy and mental than physical?

Maybe you intensely investigated/had a more than passing interest in foreign culture,language or religion and investigated it?

Saturn will transit Mercury by opposition . The interest in these areas may tone down or become condensed.

You may start to romanticize foreign cultures less and be filled with reserve.

It is also possible that religious reasons may govern the need to abstain from sex OR sexual intimacy.

posted April 16, 2015 08:55 AM            

The 10th house cusp is not necessarily your career. But more the person you aspire to be or the elevated rank you would like to have.

But this is also tied up to the 4th house as this is the person that you are when you are at "peace".

No-one wants to elevate themselves to have a great reputation, but not be at peace with themselves(IC).

So a balance between the two is often best. And this is supported by a beneficial relationship between the two rulers.

If the two are not in beneficial aspect, it could suggest that one feels a pull to be one thing to the outside world at the expense of inner peace.

Or one foregoes the external world in order to be a recluse so that they can fulfill their need for inner peace.

Neither one is ideal as self-actualization(10th), informs the individual of who they really are vs what they have achieved.

But selling oneself for commercial praise and worldly gain(10th), leaves a feeling of "what was the point of it all?" to someone on their death bed(IC).

My advice would be once again, to take the path of least resistance. The path of "ease".

For me,having Mars in 6th means that I work hard. It doesn't matter if I "love" the job, I apply myself.

Venus conjunct Saturn in Libra and the 7th suggests my greatest achievement(Saturn) will probably be related to marriage, partnerships or friends.

People may remember me as a fair, equitable, well-spoken person(Libra). But I can't exactly translate that into a particular occupation or job. As it is in the 'wake' of my personality projection.

I also have ruler of the 4th house cusp (Moon) forming a trine aspect with both of these. So I want to probably be able to merge the two into my life successfully.