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Topic: Ten Aspects Which Cause Struggles
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Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 61459 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted April 05, 2015 08:04 PM
Ten Aspects Which Cause Struggles1. Venus conj square or Oppose Saturn Feel one has to be perfect in order to be loved 2. Moon conjunct, square or oppose Saturn Very self critical 3. Mars conjunct, square or oppose Pluto Tend to have explosive anger/outbursts 4. Venus conjunct,square or oppose Pluto Too intense when in love 5. Neptune conjunct square or oppose Venus Sees the prince in the frog. Wakes up later to the frog 6. Moon square Mars Dislike/Mistrust of women 7. Mercury conjunct, square or oppose Uranus Racing mind 8. Jupiter square or oppose the Sun Bounces back and forth between being too extravagant and too withholding. Can’t seem to find the balance. 9. Sun conjunct, square or oppose Uranus Father may have been unstable. 10. Moon conjunct, square or oppose Mars The mother may have been contentious to the child i.e picking fights. ------------------ Want to Read Simple, Fun,Sexy Articles on Astrology? Check Me Out, DUDE. http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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Sagical Knowflake Posts: 184 From: Glenbow, Canada Registered: Mar 2014
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posted April 05, 2015 11:02 PM
Venus Sq Neptune - throw in Jupiter conj Neptune and you have a doozy of a mix. Settling down with the first guy. As Robert Palmer sang 'addicted to love!'Sun opposite Uranus. My birth father was only a teenager when I was born. He hated children and had no patience. Through a Mars square to both PLUS Chiron conj the Sun and one can imagine. Sun in Aries is a fighter. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 61459 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted April 05, 2015 11:14 PM
Thanks for that heart felt post, S! IP: Logged |
ScorpioMoon Knowflake Posts: 249 From: the 4th house Registered: Jan 2013
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posted April 05, 2015 11:35 PM
I've got Cancer mercury opposite Uranus in Capricorn, and yes, racing thoughts plague me all day, everyday.I have Sun opposite Uranus too. Dad was not really present in my life. He came around for my birthday every now and then, and that's about it. IP: Logged |
EmGem Knowflake Posts: 295 From: Registered: Jan 2015
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posted April 05, 2015 11:37 PM
Got #2 and #10. What's a life without struggles! IP: Logged |
DeeMonroe Knowflake Posts: 26 From: ATL, Jawja Registered: Jun 2011
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posted April 05, 2015 11:54 PM
Moon conjunct Saturn in AquariusThe struggle is real IP: Logged |
Solar_Leo_Queen Knowflake Posts: 2214 From: Planet Earth Registered: Jan 2014
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posted April 06, 2015 01:22 AM
I have 1, 8, and 9. They're all so true for me. The most evident is my Sun oppose Uranus. The weird thing is, my dad also has Sun in Aquarius which is directly opposite mine. He was there, but then he wasn't. He was here again, but then was gone the next day. Most of his promises, he didn't keep. He also has anger and depression issues. IP: Logged |
AscTaurus Knowflake Posts: 1118 From: Pretoria, Gauteng,South Africa Registered: May 2009
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posted April 06, 2015 11:16 AM
Ehem..I could be the minority population but I have Moon square Mars natally and I disagree with the interpretation My relationship with my mother is cool. I don't "distrust" women nor do I have any resentful feelings towards them. The one thing that I can tell you about this aspect however, is how quick the individual tends to "feel". Being excitable, restless, nervous, irritable, moody,passionate are all adjectives to describe the nature of the feelings that quickly come to the surface at the drop of a hat. Indeed, even with the "calm" Asc in Taurus, this excitability cannot be contained for long. When i like someone, it's hard for me to hide it. My whole body "responds". One area in particular is extremely vocal Scorpio/Aries are said to be associated with Mars and I agree. Sometimes the 1st feelings I have are those of anger,resentment or wanting to "hurt" etc. It has been better as I age, but the resentment is hard to contain. The other aspects I would include are; Moon/Pluto-contentious emotional state (especially with the challenging aspects) Mercury/Pluto- hard aspects tend towards dark thinking patterns and social estrangement. Mercury/Mars- hard aspects can be argumentative, cutting with words and tends towards meanness. Venus/Mars- Hard aspects can suggest sexual dissatisfaction, sexual hangups and estrangement from friends/partner. Saturn/Mercury hard aspects at worst is prone towards negative thinking and melancholia. Imagine the "dementors" at your house- day in/day out. The light of the world steam rolled out of you. Saturn/Mars- Hard aspects suggest sexual repression in Men or a very oppressive husband in marriage for Women. Sometimes can indicate a fear of men.Spousal abuse or even conjugal neglect is likely. Neptune-Mars is the slow demise. Habits and actions one invests a lot of time in should be evaluated carefully i.e gambling, porn addiction, smoking excessively etc. The slow energy of Neptune/Mars is deceptive, as if "nothing" is happening. But the effects are slow in fruition, mellow and undercover. It's almost at the stage of them being too late to reverse that one notices. It is a aspect of destructive behavioral patterns that are glued to the psyche. Perhaps the most pervasive, quiet killing and dangerous aspect of all IMO. IP: Logged |
Vixen Knowflake Posts: 69 From: Registered: Apr 2015
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posted April 06, 2015 11:40 AM
quote: Originally posted by Ami Anne:
3. Mars conjunct, square or oppose PlutoTend to have explosive anger/outbursts
TRUE THAT! Pluto opposite Mars here. I may look like an innocent goody two shoes, but I must admit that my temper is horrible... Pluto is on ASC, Mars on DSC... I've heard that person with Mars on DSC is either violatile and argumentative in relationships or attracts people like that. Both applies to me. Plus I have Mars/DSC near Algol. I attract a lot of hatred from others and was often bullied... IP: Logged |
Sven555 Knowflake Posts: 740 From: UK Registered: Jul 2012
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posted April 06, 2015 12:55 PM
Moon opposite Saturn is true, I am very self critical of myself, but generally I use it to strive for the highest goals possible. It's a blessing!Mars square Pluto is quite obvious too, with explosive anger. I need daily exercise to get rid of this surface energy haha IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 61459 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted April 06, 2015 01:27 PM
quote: Originally posted by Sven555: Moon opposite Saturn is true, I am very self critical of myself, but generally I use it to strive for the highest goals possible. It's a blessing!Mars square Pluto is quite obvious too, with explosive anger. I need daily exercise to get rid of this surface energy haha
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mcmlxix Knowflake Posts: 445 From: Vega Registered: Aug 2010
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posted April 11, 2015 06:15 PM
1. Venus conj square or Oppose Saturn: Feel one has to be perfect in order to be loved.Venus square Saturn...this is the one aspect I wish I didn't have, and Venus is in the 12th as well. I don't know that I have to be perfect to be loved, although more lately, there is some of that. Mostly it's Saturn throwing up a wall to my ability to give and receive affection. My relationship with my father is also estranged. 3. Mars conjunct, square or oppose Pluto: Tend to have explosive anger/outbursts. Mars square Pluto (and Sun)...oh wow, yes. I have a hot temper and I've experienced rage. It also has an obsessive quality to it, like a shark who smells blood and can't stop. But as I've gotten older this trait has diminished considerably. 7. Mercury conjunct, square or oppose Uranus: Racing mind. Mercury conjunct Uranus (and Jupiter)...yes! I have a hard time staying on topic as my thoughts are moving too fast, and people find my conversations and ideas to be unpredictable. I don't know that I'd call this aspect a cause for struggle though. I actually enjoy and take some pride in how my mind makes lightning quick connections between ideas. But it can be a little exhausting at times. I need to make sure I'm physically wiped out before going to bed, otherwise I'll lay there for hours with a dozen squirrels juggling chainsaws on a merry-go-round in my head. IP: Logged |
midnightvenus Knowflake Posts: 265 From: outerspace Registered: Sep 2014
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posted April 11, 2015 06:41 PM
I have aspects 2, 3 and 7. 2 and 3 are squares. 7 a conjunction, where Mercury also conjuncts Neptune.2. Moon square Saturn (orb of 0'13) I'm very self critical and I have a deep fear of rejection. I'm constantly afraid that I'm not enough or not good enough at something to succeed how I want to. 3. Mars (conj. Sun) square Pluto I have a lot of anger issues. When I'm angry I feel like breaking or beating something until I calm down. I see being "calm" as being passive AKA weak and feel the need to distance myself from that AKA being weak. I hope this gets better with age. Deep down I don't like feeling so angry. I've been looking for activities that can serve me as an outlet for this, like @Sven mentioned. 7. Mercury conjunct Uranus I have a hard time focusing on things. I may be watching a movie and feel the need to grab my phone and play something or check social media, even if I like the movie. Sometimes I'm reading about a subject I'm interested then I just feel like I know enough about it and that I need to look for something else. I get anxious if I have nothing entertaining to do. I once read a book backwards bc reading it normally was boring me. Hope this doesn't sound too depressing lol. IP: Logged |
DeepFreeze Knowflake Posts: 4913 From: Registered: Nov 2013
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posted April 11, 2015 06:46 PM
#10 My mother and I have been very close my whole life. I've not had any fights or really much in the way of disagreements for many years. Between myself and my two sisters, I fought with her the least. One sister has moon sextile mars. The one who fought with her the most, moon doesn't aspect mars. I had a more difficult relationship with my dad, but it wasn't dysfunctional. We just butted heads a lot.
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DeepFreeze Knowflake Posts: 4913 From: Registered: Nov 2013
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posted April 11, 2015 06:49 PM
Difficult placements can create incredibly strong people if they work on themselves and developing them. One only need to look at Bruce Lee's chart to see this in action. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 61459 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted April 11, 2015 07:16 PM
Thank you, Midnight.Great post! Knowing your struggles is the best way to deal with them, my Friend ------------------ Want to Read Simple, Fun,Sexy Articles on Astrology? Check Me Out, DUDE. http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 61459 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted April 11, 2015 08:59 PM
Midnight, put in the orbs for these aspects, if you want.------------------ Want to Read Simple, Fun,Sexy Articles on Astrology? Check Me Out, DUDE. http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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midnightvenus Knowflake Posts: 265 From: outerspace Registered: Sep 2014
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posted April 11, 2015 09:25 PM
quote: Originally posted by Ami Anne: Midnight, put in the orbs for these aspects, if you want.
Moon square Mars, orb 0°13 Mars square Pluto, orb of 3°44 Mercury conjunct Uranus, orb of 2°34 IP: Logged |
midnightvenus Knowflake Posts: 265 From: outerspace Registered: Sep 2014
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posted April 12, 2015 10:34 AM
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Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 61459 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted April 12, 2015 10:38 AM
Yes, those aspects are all close, so you would feel them. The closer, the more they are felt.------------------ Want to Read Simple, Fun,Sexy Articles on Astrology? Check Me Out, DUDE. http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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astra7 Knowflake Posts: 446 From: Registered: Sep 2014
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posted April 12, 2015 10:40 AM
I would say, chart ruler sq Asc.IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 61459 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted April 12, 2015 04:59 PM
quote: Originally posted by astra7: I would say, chart ruler sq Asc.
GOOD one, Astra! If I do another article, I will put this in! ------------------ Want to Read Simple, Fun,Sexy Articles on Astrology? Check Me Out, DUDE. http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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LeeLoo2014 Moderator Posts: 11147 From: Venus cornering Neptune Registered: Mar 2014
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posted April 12, 2015 05:14 PM
quote: Originally posted by Sven555: Moon opposite Saturn is true, I am very self critical of myself, but generally I use it to strive for the highest goals possible. It's a blessing!Mars square Pluto is quite obvious too, with explosive anger. I need daily exercise to get rid of this surface energy haha
Well done, Sven!
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Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 61459 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted April 12, 2015 05:21 PM
Thank you to everyone who answered. Somehow, I missed seeing the many wonderful responses. I will study them all!------------------ Want to Read Simple, Fun,Sexy Articles on Astrology? Check Me Out, DUDE. http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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LeeLoo2014 Moderator Posts: 11147 From: Venus cornering Neptune Registered: Mar 2014
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posted April 12, 2015 05:23 PM
Perfect description of an emblem for Venus sq Neptune, I have it almost exact. I always see people in their best light, the prince, not the frog. Advantages: - you become aware of it very early in your relational life - you can actually motivate people and yourself to become that "better light"; I wouldn't change this aspect with anything else. - life is a magical place and no one can take this away from you, no matter the disappointments along the way - no one can take the dream of "perfect love" away from you and one day, it may actually happen (squares tend to become tangible things) - you can become a great artist/art connoisseurMars conjunct Pluto, I have this in Libra 8th house - it's like a volcano, but one you can direct towards a specific purpose, once you become aware of it. Very dangerous anger and enemies though, not someone you want as enemy, they can be very calculated/manipulative, as Pluto is a vertical, highly restrained/focused, endurant Mars if necessary. ------------------ I seem to have loved you in numberless forms... LeeLoo's Esotericorner Connect for updates IP: Logged |