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Topic: Introvert becoming an Extrovert ~ which transits/progressions could be responsible?
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Neptunian Venus Knowflake Posts: 35 From: Registered: Apr 2015
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posted April 10, 2015 09:31 PM
So since starting college (June 2014), I've found myself being more open to social life, going out with friends, even clubbing/partying, but nothing too crazy lol. I am now more adventurous, confident, and carefree. I now want to get to know people, develop new connections and have myself known more. It's an interrsting and refreshing shift that has taken place for me. Before, I would always try to keep myself "hidden". I hated going out, had social anxiety, and felt paranoid about what people thought of me. I was also highly sensitive to other people's energies (still am, but now I have more control maintaining my alignment). I used to feel exposed whenever I went out. Probably because of the sheltered way I was brought up, I would keep myself from partying with friends because I saw it as "corruption" in a sense. Especially being an only child, I would spend my time alone in my room mostly; drawing, painting, creating art, writing poetry and such. Not to say I didn't have friends, I had many in fact, but I would just never hang out with them. The only form of communication I'd have with them would be through texting/the internet. But now I understand that it held me back in so many ways. I'm so amazed at how far I've come in just a matter of a few months. I now feel more free, confident, happier and feel self empowered. I couldn't even cross the street alone without having someone with me. That's how socially anxious I was. So which transits and progressed could be responsible for such a huge shift to occur? IP: Logged |
teasel Knowflake Posts: 6800 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 10, 2015 11:05 PM
Uranus or Jupiter? I've never seen your chart, so I can't say.IP: Logged |
Neptunian Venus Knowflake Posts: 35 From: Registered: Apr 2015
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posted April 10, 2015 11:45 PM
quote: Originally posted by teasel: Uranus or Jupiter? I've never seen your chart, so I can't say.
Oh that makes sense! My natal ASC is in Leo 14'20 Jupiter has been going back and fourth over it since last summer, and it will conjunct my ASC again soon. As for Uranus, it's has been doing much to my chart, but it's currently conjunct my progressed Moon. Here's my current transit/progressions. My transits/progressions from last year.
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Neptunian Venus Knowflake Posts: 35 From: Registered: Apr 2015
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posted April 10, 2015 11:54 PM
How would Jupiter relate to being move active and craving more sociability though? Isn't that a Mars-Venus thing?IP: Logged |
yota13 Newflake Posts: 10 From: Registered: Jan 2014
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posted April 11, 2015 12:11 AM
Pr. moon conjunct uranus? What's that like? I have it coming up.IP: Logged |
Neptunian Venus Knowflake Posts: 35 From: Registered: Apr 2015
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posted April 11, 2015 12:37 AM
quote: Originally posted by yota13: Pr. moon conjunct uranus? What's that like? I have it coming up.
When it was exact, I went through a lot of emotional upheaval and a "rebellious" stage. I was very erratic and unstable. Someone I felt deeply for betrayed me, so I cut him out of my life completely, and as a means to cope with the depression I was going through, I smoked and drank for the first time ever and started skipping classes in school. But I didn't go overboard with it, it was only 1 drink but I confinued smoking for the weeks that followed. But soon after I stopped, because I didn't wanna keep going down that slippery slope and put my education/professional life at risk. I just wanted to forget the past and move on badly, because the pain was just too much for me to bare, so I would try to distract myself. Very hard for a Cancer Moon to do lol. That was partly due to Tr. Neptune making an exact opposition to my natal Sun in Virgo as well. I always was (and still am I guess) a "goody-two-shoes" lol, but that period of my life really transformed me in the sense that I'm now more open and came out of my shell. I don't want to scare you or anything lol, hopefully your experience won't be as negative as mine. My pr. Moon was in my pr. 8th after all. But I will say that this experience was very much needed for me in terms of growing up and taking responsibility for myself and my life. Right now I'm more stable though, thankfully. I'm feeling this transit as a craving of new (but SAFE!!!) experiences, new surroundings, new friends and a desire to be more sociable. I'm actually planning on moving in a month or so as well. I hope it goes well for you.
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teasel Knowflake Posts: 6800 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 11, 2015 12:48 AM
Uranus is trine your ascendant, and can relax you - I love soft Uranus transits. It's affecting your presence in the world, and how you feel. I also love Jupiter in the first house - time to come out of hiding, and have some fun. IP: Logged |
Neptunian Venus Knowflake Posts: 35 From: Registered: Apr 2015
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posted April 11, 2015 01:08 AM
quote: Originally posted by teasel: Uranus is trine your ascendant, and can relax you - I love soft Uranus transits. It's affecting your presence in the world, and how you feel. I also love Jupiter in the first house - time to come out of hiding, and have some fun.
Yay I'm excited!!!
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Sagical Knowflake Posts: 184 From: Glenbow, Canada Registered: Mar 2014
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posted April 11, 2015 01:15 AM
I'd put ALL my money on Jupiter. Leo rising loves to shine and be social.We all can be introverted and extroverted. It's just a scale. Some may have a default mode and that is their comfort zone. When you venture out of your comfort zone, one can experience such great inner growth. The more you get into your soul and sense of being. There may be days where you want an Introvert kind of day. IP: Logged |
Neptunian Venus Knowflake Posts: 35 From: Registered: Apr 2015
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posted April 11, 2015 02:00 AM
quote: Originally posted by Sagical: I'd put ALL my money on Jupiter. Leo rising loves to shine and be social.We all can be introverted and extroverted. It's just a scale. Some may have a default mode and that is their comfort zone. When you venture out of your comfort zone, one can experience such great inner growth. The more you get into your soul and sense of being. There may be days where you want an Introvert kind of day.
That's very true. I can't wait until Jupiter goes into my Sun sign next! Where oh where would we be without the Great Benefic lol. IP: Logged |
Gabby Moderator Posts: 5943 From: Registered: Sep 2012
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posted April 11, 2015 02:03 AM
Also a progressed AC changing into a new sign could create this. I would imagine when my progressed AC moves from Scorp to Saggy I'll be feeling this to.IP: Logged |
Neptunian Venus Knowflake Posts: 35 From: Registered: Apr 2015
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posted April 11, 2015 02:13 AM
quote: Originally posted by Gabby: Also a progressed AC changing into a new sign could create this. I would imagine when my progressed AC moves from Scorp to Saggy I'll be feeling this to.
Yup! For sure. Although my pr. ASC moved into Virgo in January of last year, it's pr. ruler is now exactly conjunct my natal Venus in Libra, which fits! IP: Logged |
lalalinda Moderator Posts: 4307 From: nevada Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 11, 2015 02:13 AM
Hello Neptunian Venus! Welcome to LL ------------------ "There ain't no revolution, only evolution, but every time I'm in Georgia I 'eat a peach' for peace." Duane Allman IP: Logged |
Neptunian Venus Knowflake Posts: 35 From: Registered: Apr 2015
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posted April 11, 2015 02:35 AM
quote: Originally posted by lalalinda: Hello Neptunian Venus! Welcome to LL
Thank you lalalinda! I've always been here under the username Lavender CrystalSwan though. Just changed usernames. IP: Logged |