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Topic: INDECISIVENESS
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rorrr Knowflake Posts: 188 From: Registered: Oct 2010
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posted April 12, 2015 07:59 AM
Ahhhhhhh the worst!!! How do you guys deal with it? Especially you Librans! Howww? I have Mercury at Libra 29 - top it off, it's Retrograde!!! To make matters worse, my mars is also in Libra.
I am stunted with decisions. I can never make the hard, fast call. With retrograde Mercury, I will always think about my decision and mull over it afterwards. Like I never fully commit - before, during, or even after! It's amazing I get anything done! How do you guys deal with indecision? IP: Logged |
FruityLlama Knowflake Posts: 562 From: Registered: Sep 2013
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posted April 12, 2015 08:22 AM
Oh my gosh tell me about it!!! I literally just let other people decide so I dont have to be responsible if the plan goes wrong. . Pathetic I know! My family know me and my sister for just saying "I dont mind" if we're asked what we want Deciding is like my worst nightmare. ..IP: Logged |
rorrr Knowflake Posts: 188 From: Registered: Oct 2010
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posted April 12, 2015 09:24 AM
@Fruity are you Libra mercury as well? You and your sister? Do you have any significant mars or merc placements?IP: Logged |
DeepFreeze Knowflake Posts: 4913 From: Registered: Nov 2013
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posted April 12, 2015 09:39 AM
I don't have Libra mercury. Only asc and Pluto. But Gemini moon, and Virgo mercury, Venus, mars. (Worries, analyzes, questions) Over time I've learned that a majority of the time it's best to follow my instinct. My first decision. One always seems to pull me more and doubting has caused more trouble than just choosing. If there's doubt, I fall back on the first one. I still question myself sometimes and have problems with it. But if there's any doubt, I fall back on what my gut tells me or realize that either choice is ultimately insignificant and making the "wrong" choice holds little to no consequences. (Such as choosing what to eat) LOL If the struggle to decide outweighs the result of the decision... it's time to just choose and get it over with. Well anyway... it's worked for me.
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LucieLemonade Knowflake Posts: 1526 From: Registered: Sep 2013
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posted April 12, 2015 12:57 PM
I have a Libra Mars and in some circumstances (not all) I have a hard time deciding. I either tell someone else to make the decision or I have a necklace that you spin. On one side it says yes on the other no. Sometimes you just have to let the universe decide!
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theunknown Knowflake Posts: 1919 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted April 12, 2015 01:30 PM
When I saw the name of the thread I was like ... Libraaaaa!!!!!IP: Logged |
rorrr Knowflake Posts: 188 From: Registered: Oct 2010
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posted April 12, 2015 01:32 PM
GREAT idea Lucie!!! Going on etsy now!! :P quote: Originally posted by LucieLemonade: I have a Libra Mars and in some circumstances (not all) I have a hard time deciding. I either tell someone else to make the decision or I have a necklace that you spin. On one side it says yes on the other no. Sometimes you just have to let the universe decide!
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rorrr Knowflake Posts: 188 From: Registered: Oct 2010
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posted April 12, 2015 01:33 PM
quote: Originally posted by theunknown: When I saw the name of the thread I was like ... Libraaaaa!!!!!
definitely :/ and I'm so Scorpio too - Sun conjunct Pluto; I love passion! Decisiveness! BOOM change, done, onward! But with this effing Libra Mercury Rx... argh. I research every option endlessly. IP: Logged |
FruityLlama Knowflake Posts: 562 From: Registered: Sep 2013
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posted April 12, 2015 01:39 PM
quote: Originally posted by rorrr: @Fruity are you Libra mercury as well? You and your sister? Do you have any significant mars or merc placements?
Hey, no I have a Taurus Mercury and my sisters is in Leo....though she is a Libra rising and our mercuries aspect our ascendants. We both have prominent Venuses too
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Aries23Degrees Knowflake Posts: 1904 From: South Africa Registered: Dec 2012
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posted April 12, 2015 02:21 PM
As a Mars in Libra, I don't find decision-making all that tough. I usually know what I want.I think what creates the doubt and second-guessing is how OTHERS react to my decision-making. I think if you ice other people's opinions out. You should be fine. Accept all the responsibility of your decisions There is nothing wrong with being careful and considering everything before making a decision. It shows that you are inclusive in the process. The issue here is being stunted because you are not confident that the decision you are making is the "best" etc. I always start off with "A reasonable woman would...." then I take it from there. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 61386 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted April 12, 2015 03:05 PM
quote: Originally posted by rorrr: Ahhhhhhh the worst!!! How do you guys deal with it? Especially you Librans! Howww? I have Mercury at Libra 29 - top it off, it's Retrograde!!! To make matters worse, my mars is also in Libra.
I am stunted with decisions. I can never make the hard, fast call. With retrograde Mercury, I will always think about my decision and mull over it afterwards. Like I never fully commit - before, during, or even after! It's amazing I get anything done! How do you guys deal with indecision?
Wow, that would be hard lol
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LucieLemonade Knowflake Posts: 1526 From: Registered: Sep 2013
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posted April 12, 2015 03:09 PM
quote: Originally posted by rorrr: GREAT idea Lucie!!! Going on etsy now!! :P
That's where i got mine! I cant' find the seller anymore.
quote: Originally posted by Aries23Degrees: As a Mars in Libra, I don't find decision-making all that tough. I usually know what I want.I think what creates the doubt and second-guessing is how OTHERS react to my decision-making. I think if you ice other people's opinions out. You should be fine. Accept all the responsibility of your decisions There is nothing wrong with being careful and considering everything before making a decision. It shows that you are inclusive in the process. The issue here is being stunted because you are not confident that the decision you are making is the "best" etc. I always start off with "A reasonable woman would...." then I take it from there.
When I know what I want I don't have a problem making decisions. But being highly mutable, I often don't really care either way. So, I'm open to so many options that it can be difficult to choose. It's like ANY thing will be great. I can go with the flow and I can see the good and bad in everything. That's what makes it difficult. What I need to remember and why I got the yes/no necklace is that most of these decisions I can't make are not really life changing so I should just pick one! IP: Logged |
PixieJane Moderator Posts: 6270 From: CA Registered: Oct 2010
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posted April 12, 2015 05:15 PM
Practice. (Being around plenty of Aries who didn't have the patience for me to make up my mind helped me get plenty!)When I just CAN'T then I flip a coin, roll dice, pick a card, whatever (and I believe it's just chance that determines the outcome, I'd think this would be even more comforting to those who believe some "higher force is in control" and "there are no coincidences"--at least until they realize what's the "best" may actually be very stressful and even painful to the self). But then I have a 5H Sag stellium that doesn't worry about spilling the milk (if it happens the cat will come along and lap it up). IP: Logged |
deepseablues Moderator Posts: 664 From: the ocean floor Registered: Jan 2014
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posted April 12, 2015 06:54 PM
I have Mercury and Mars in exact conjunction in Libra as well as an afflicted Libra Moon. I have such a hard time making decision that it actually causes me pain and anxiety which sometimes even manifests as a physical symptom. I hate decisions. I don't understand why they have to be so hard. I have been facing a major life decision for a couple months now and I experienced such intense anxiety regarding it that I actually felt paralyzed and stopped being able to function properly in my life and even made myself a little sick. First I decided to do it then I backed out again. Ugh it makes me dizzy. I just want to float and be but it's always go go go make this decision, do this or that. Ugh. IP: Logged |
alyssa27 Knowflake Posts: 169 From: Registered: Sep 2014
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posted April 13, 2015 06:56 AM
libra moon afflicted here..indecisiveness is one of my main problems..it's so hard for me to take a decision..most times someone else take the decisions for me ..IP: Logged |