posted August 28, 2015 04:35 PM
What I'm about to say probably won't make any sense but whatever.I have an 11 Personality and I don't necessarily think people are drawn to me but I think this depends on what you mean by drawn.
Like, do people actively seek you out? Do they readily notice you? Or is it just random and people just say things to you like I've noticed with my mom where "strange" people will tell her how a good person she is and how she's doing great things and things about her soul, etc.?
Anyway, I would say no, people aren't drawn to me. I'm a background person and I like it that way. I have noticed, however, that in recent years some people have come to me to discuss underlying emotional issues with me. Like this one girl who I was in a club with went on and on about her sister and I could pick up on her underlying feelings that were coming through. This other girl randomly told me she had a kid (we were both in high school) and all the drama she was having with her baby daddy, etc.
This hasn't happened enough for me to say that people are drawn towards me in any sort of way, though. I think it's because I'm non-assuming and don't say much that people feel comfortable unloading their emotions on me sometimes. (And by unloading I mean that they just talk and talk and I rarely have anything to say. They talk at me, I mean. It's not a conversation.)
I don't know what you mean by being vulnerable to others. Like...? What do you mean? Do I feel like people know every little thing about me, like I feel as though I'm exposed in some way???
I do think I'm somewhat intuitive but I rarely if ever trust it. I knew for my first AP exam like literally the night before it, I had a premonition that a certain culture was going to be on it. But I was like no cause how would I know? So I studied whatever civilization I was studying then on the exam guess what happened? That one civilization I brushed off was an essay prompt.
I feel like intuitive premonitions like that are very rare in my cases. Usually my intuition seems to work best when playing (video) games where I have to guess and choose. Take for example, rock, paper, scissors. I usually know a few seconds before we start what the other person is going to draw but, again, me not trusting myself, I choose the exact opposite and lose. But that person draws whatever I thought they were going to draw.
This happens with prizes too. If I really want something I know which thing to choose to get it, but once again I self-sabotage and get exactly what I didn't want. This happened in middle school, I think. I forgot what prize I wanted but I chose something else and ended up with a Frisbee I refused to pick up from the office because I was so upset at the prize (and myself) that I didn't even want to look at it.
In other games where I don't know what's going on--say a fly-swatter game and I don't know the terms/topics--my intuition tends to be strong and I let it guide me towards the answer I certainly didn't know. (And everybody's like, "XYZ is so smart!" "How did you know all this? I've studied so hard!" etc. This is kinda annoying because I don't care for compliments. Also, I do "study" (read: I actually read and took notes) so it's not all intuition.)
Anyway, that's my spiel. My Sun is in Aries, Moon in Leo.