posted May 03, 2015 08:29 AM            

My parents are both Capricorns. My mom has an Aries Moon and Sagittarius Mercury/Mars. My Dad has a Sagittarius Moon and Capricorn Mercury/Mars. Their Venuses' are in Aquarius and Sagittarius.

posted May 03, 2015 09:27 AM            

So its not surprising to me that you would be forgiving. Having both of them in nurturing Cancer is just lovely!

I get on with my Mom because my Dad is a bit of a puzzle to me.And always has been.

My Mom has her Mars conjunct my Moon,her Mercury conjunct my Venus and her Venus conjunct my Mercury.

My Dad has his Moon conjunct my Sun/Neptune conjunction.

He also has Mercury/Mars in Leo conjunct with Venus in Virgo.

I have never really got on/ understood him much.

My 3 siblings are Scorpio/Taurus/Libra respectively.

The Scorpio has her Sun conjunct my Venus. Asc conjunct my N/node.

The Taurus has her Mars conjunct my N/node.

The Libra has his Sun/Venus conjunct my Mars and his Mars conjunct my S/Node.

I get on with my siblings fine. The Libra is tricky. We haven't spoken for quite some time.

posted May 03, 2015 12:18 PM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
You have Venus/Mars conjunct? I find these people very affectionate; including those that have Venus/Mars in positive aspect

So its not surprising to me that you would be forgiving. Having both of them in nurturing Cancer is just lovely!

I get on with my Mom because my Dad is a bit of a puzzle to me.And always has been.

My Mom has her Mars conjunct my Moon,her Mercury conjunct my Venus and her Venus conjunct my Mercury.

My Dad has his Moon conjunct my Sun/Neptune conjunction.

He also has Mercury/Mars in Leo conjunct with Venus in Virgo.

I have never really got on/ understood him much.

My 3 siblings are Scorpio/Taurus/Libra respectively.

The Scorpio has her Sun conjunct my Venus. Asc conjunct my N/node.

The Taurus has her Mars conjunct my N/node.

The Libra has his Sun/Venus conjunct my Mars and his Mars conjunct my S/Node.

I get on with my siblings fine. The Libra is tricky. We haven't spoken for quite some time.

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posted May 03, 2015 12:44 PM            

Mother: Pisces rising, gemini sun/mercury, sag moon, cancer venus, aries mars

Brother: Aqua rising, leo sun/mercury/venus, scorpio moon/mars,

Sister: Scorpio rising, aries moon, leo sun/mercury/mars, virgo venus

I get along very well with my dad and brother. I'm not sure why with my dad, but my brother obviously because we have conjunct suns, compatible moons and rising signs. My sister, I get along with her too, but there's times that I just wanna push her off the stairs. My moon cannot stand her moon. She and my brother don't get along. My mom and I, we're okay now, but when I was younger, we used to argue a lot. Must be that mars-mars opposition, I guess.

To me, the big three placements are usually a big telltale of how long two people get along. At least, in my experience, it is.

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Gemini Rising
Sun in Leo (2nd house)
Moon in Cancer (1st house)
Mercury in Virgo (3rd house conj.)
Venus in Virgo (3rd house)
Mars in Libra (5th house)

posted May 03, 2015 01:09 PM            

Dad: Gemini Sun, Venus, Mercury. Cancer Mars. Leo Moon.

My Dad and I are close despite some issues when I was younger. Mom and I, not so much but I admire her 2000% honesty. It's brutal!

posted May 03, 2015 01:30 PM            

Dad:
sun-aquarius
moon-libra
asc-???

Sister-
Sun- Sagittarius
Moon-Libra
Asc- gemini

Alot of air :/ but their charts even out nicely with earth and water placements.

Me:
Sun Libra
Moon Capricorn ( Ice Queen-im the coldest out of all of them.)
Rising Libra

My mother Is obsessed with me and tries to control me, I am 27! (sigh) most of her planets fall in my 8th.

I dislike my father (if I should even call him that)

posted May 03, 2015 01:36 PM            

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Originally posted by Leo-Cancer98:
Yup, Venus at 18'56 & Mars at 19'17 degrees. LOL yeaah, I am pretty affectionate and touchy-feely, but my detached Sagittarius Moon keeps me in check at times.
Since you mentioned my conjunction, a Sage guy with a Pisces Moon and Venus/Mars in Capricorn at 21 & 27 degrees is currently crushing on me, but he's taking things VERY slowly and I think he's sort of playing mind games with me .. I like him back though lol. Would he be more affectionate than other people with Venus or Mars in Capricorn?

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Capricorn energy is usually not warm and fuzzy.Even with the conjunction of Mars to Venus,the instinct is to show affection. But there is also immediate withdrawal.

Capricorn can be incredibly timid and awkward in love relationships and the expression of affection. But it is by far the most loyal of people to love.

It is also energy that takes a long time to open up. But the opening up does reveal a creamy,soft and vulnerable center.

If he has a Pisces Moon,I am sure that he already has picked out names for your children and romanticized the relationship so much that you actually being there is not fundamentally important

Such is the energy of Pisces. It just imagines things and then drifts with it.

posted May 03, 2015 03:32 PM            

Mom - Taurus Sun & Asc, Pisces Moon, Venus & Mars in Aries

1. Sis - Aries Sun, Scorpio Asc, Cancer Moon, Venus in Aqua, Mars in Gemini

2. Sis - Gemini Sun, Sag Asc, Cancer Moon, Venus & Mars in Aries

3. Sis - Aries Sun, Scorpio Asc, Taurus Moon, Venus & Mars in Aries

Me - Scorpio Sun, Aries Asc, Taurus Moon, Venus in Cap, Mars in Scorp

Theoretically I get along best with my mom BUT only if we're alone. In family "gatherings" she gets ****** off by me (for no reason really) and she just forgets about me .
With my dad I had huuuge clashes over the years and he also was violent towards me on several occasions. Everything has gotten much better but I can't stand his restlessness.
I adoooored my eldest sis when I was young. Now she is just a narcissistic ***** who is using EVERYONE around her and neglecting her kids. I'm not talking to her.
My 2nd sis was always the one I could go to whenever I had problems. I don't know what happened but she (or her general attitude) got really angry and rude over the years. There's no effort whatsoever for contact from her side. We talk but only when we both happen to be at our parents's house.
I get along really well with my 3rd sister (I love traveling with her) but it sucks because we live in two different countries, quite a lot apart. One thing about her which makes me rage is her hesitation and insecurity towards the simplest situations sometimes (like starting to cry when a bee is flying around her.. Why?!)

I guess my family has too much bull/fire energy for a Scorpio/Cap Stellium person like me Everyone's much older than me. Plus even though I have so many siblings, I feel like I grew up as an only child, my siblings seem more like aunts and uncles.

Also, I have two halfbrothers:

Halfbrother 1 - Cancer Sun, Cap Asc, Libra Moon, Venus in Virgo, Mars in Libra

Halfbrother 2 - Aqua Sun, Asc ?, Libra Moon, Venus in Cap, Mars in Aries

The first one, I like his humor, he's a super cool guy but he lives on another continent, so I haven't seen him in 12 years. Also he takes after our dad in his lovelive.. he's currently preparing for marriage nr. five I don't understand that...

posted May 03, 2015 06:54 PM            

My mom is a full-blown Cancer, Aries rising (sq my Moon in Cap), Moon in Libra opp Asc. We have learned to get along well after I became an adult. It took her relaxing more and me becoming more proactive and communicative.

My dad is a Libra with Saturn/Cancer rising, Moon in Virgo, and Jupiter in Virgo conjunct my Asc. I had to learn to let go and forgive him for certain things as an adult and start clean. Doing that allowed us to work together quite well for two years before I moved to Oregon and got married.

posted May 04, 2015 02:56 AM            

Sun and mercury: 3H Libra on the Scorpio cusp (me), 4H Scorpio (Mom), 10H Aries (Granny), 5H Aries (cousin)

Moon: 5H Sag (me), 10H Gemini (Mom), 2H Cancer (Granny), 4H Pisces (cousin)

Venus: 3H Libra on the Scorpio cusp (me), 4H Scorpio (Mom), 12H Taurus (Granny), 6H Taurus (cousin)

Mars: 5H Sag (me), 1H Leo (Mom), 9H Aquarius (Granny), 8H Cancer Mars (cousin)

As you can see even just from this we have a lot of interesting interactions between our charts.

Me & Mom: It was a rocky road between us to say the least. I could appreciate her insightful mind and curiosity, but sometimes she used it for evil. Other times she talked about things I had no real context or interest for and expected me to keep up despite that I was a kid (like her obsession with Marilyn Monroe conspiracy theories). She claims getting pregnant with me ruined her modeling career and I got the impression it may have cut short an affair with her gaudy, abusive boss who ran a modeling agency, and she sometimes took it out on me. Her Scorpio energies became self-destructive as did her Pisces elements (outer planets) and she got lost in addiction which she exploited me for and sometimes emotionally clunged to me like someone drowning while other times seeming to despise me. I think she was jealous of my youth given the things she'd like to say to me while showing me her modeling portfolio pix.

Interesting enough her Leo ASC and Mars makes her think power is getting a man to do her bidding whereas I (with my Leo ASC) think being independent is power and that manipulating a man to take care of me is like saying I'm a child who can't take care of myself and possibly even borderline (or outright) whorish. Today Mom is grudgingly impressed with the things I can do but it's the same kind of being impressed as with a blind person who has mastered echolocation...just because she considers it amazing doesn't mean she'd want to be me. Ironically our Leo ascendants are such that we take pride in how we are and could never let ourselves be like the other.

Me & Granny: Her relations with me, Mom, and my cousin are all different, but she spent significant time raising me and my cousin both. My Libra (Scorp cusp) & Sag stelliums appreciated her Aqua Mars and Aries fire that defied corrupt traditions and churches (though she's a devout Christian herself) and her Cancer moon makes her very caring...though she also worried about the dangers a lot. When a bunch of **** rumors got started about me she was terrified I was going to be raped though my cousin (see below) made it very clear that he'd deal with it...well, Pinhead would have summed it up with their suffering would be legendary even in Hell (and I do believe it probably kept me from being raped as no one doubted him). Despite her own willingness to buck people she worries about how I may come off when I speak out.

She also feels guilty about what happened to Mom due to a stupid decision of hers and I think she tried to make up for it by having me turn out better.

She constantly tried to girl me up as I think she wanted me to have an innocent childhood that neither she nor Mom got (and again worried how others might view me) yet for my 14th birthday she did buy me a skateboard as I'd been wanting one for years. The surprise of that, and also the message that she loved me even when I didn't live up to her desires and expectations, made that the best birthday present I ever got (and I sobbed when it was stolen from me about a year later and even today when I ride a board I can still feel a little wistful over that).

I'm currently in her will to inherit her house which Mom is expecting to get. We both know Mom is going to hit the roof when she finds out and have done everything we can to guard against any legal tricks she may try, but we don't really know what she'll do. Thing is Granny trusts me but not Mom (her daughter), and also should I die then it goes to my cousin. However, she does want me to let Mom live there if she wants and I will, and she knows it.

Me and my cousin: My Sag stellium helped me take the blunt and sometimes steamed comments of my cousin's Sag Rising, Aries sun and merc words in stride and I believe my Leo ASC helps me understand his 2nd decan Aries placement that makes him like to be the center of attention (even today I laugh at the cheekiness of youth, like when he told a teacher about to paddle him for his cheek "to make sure I feel it this time" and after he got swatted his teacher asked him if he felt that and he asked, "Felt what?" ).

But that made it difficult for him to understand that I didn't like Granny trying to make a princess out of me as he figured I'd want the attention (that I'd taken from him that he got before I moved back in) though he could understand why I preferred my athletic lifestyle to wearing gingham dresses that I couldn't mess up. He felt I was spoiled but one difference is that I didn't brag about my rule breaking and when busted I was contrite whereas he was like "I'll do what the hell I want." That makes a difference (though he liked it when I told him "it's because girls have more delicate heinees"). His Taurus Venus & Cancer Mars still makes him loyal, and woe to anyone outside the family who gives me a bad time as he'll take it personally. Taurus Venus and Pisces Moon didn't like having to give up his room for me (and sleep in the utility room), still his loyalty to family, wanting to be seen as tough, the fact that the room was traditionally a girl's room (Granny had it as a child, then Mom, and now it was my turn) and his Libra NN did let him give it to me (if grudgingly). He still asserted dominance at times, and sometimes I resisted, and that led to some hellacious conflicts (even violence) but the love and loyalty was always there.