posted May 04, 2015 10:58 PM            

I'll fill in the details later, but does anyone have any experience with this?

His placements:

posted May 05, 2015 01:50 AM            

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Originally posted by Chiemi:
What does it mean when a Scorpio comes back after a few months of no contact?

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I have no idea, but my ex (Scorpio) just popped up last week after 3 years of silence.

Mine has a Gemini Moon & Aqua Asc. though, so I should know by now that he's going to be a little unpredictable.

posted May 05, 2015 05:38 AM              

It's their way of keeping tabs on you, they want to see if you've moved on from them (especially if they were the one who did the breaking up). They might even be feeling bored and lonely or having a bad day generally and think they'll find comfort from you since you did like them a lot once!

I just laugh at them!

posted May 05, 2015 05:41 AM            

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Originally posted by Jo B:
Not just Scorpio men do this.. a lot of men do! lol.

It's their way of keeping tabs on you, they want to see if you've moved on from them (especially if they were the one who did the breaking up). They might even be feeling bored and lonely or having a bad day generally and think they'll find comfort from you since you did like them a lot once!

I just laugh at them!

Sometimes they genuinely miss you though and sort of regret splitting up, or the way it happened.

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You are right!

posted May 05, 2015 06:04 AM              

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Originally posted by erickaf:
You are right!

It is actually starting to get on my nerves!!

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hehe

Next time he does, don't be so "available", even if you really want to be for him. Hell, even pretend you have a new boyfriend (hmmm, maybe don't do that, it could backfire! lol).

Anyway Scorpios are a weird sign like that. They can blow hot and then blow VERY cool when it comes to feelings of the heart. And they think their charisma will keep you running back for more. Don't! You'll feel so much better for it!

posted May 05, 2015 08:02 AM            

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Originally posted by Voix_de_la_Mer:

Didn't we just have a full moon in Scorpio?

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Was just going to say this

posted May 05, 2015 12:37 PM            

I'm a Scorpio Sun, Cancer rising, Gemini Moon, Scorpio Venus.

posted May 05, 2015 07:12 PM            

But he is in a relationship, so maybe he will behave himself...and if not me, then his other ex that he is not over.

He wanted to "be friends" but after a while my moon conjunct pluto in Scorpio said "hell no" and even unfriended him on fb.

posted May 05, 2015 11:18 PM            

Is it because they're nostalgic or that they really miss the person?

My Scorpio and I were never really a couple, but we dated for a month. We got along pretty well and I never really found any red flags/critiques about him/his personality/character. Towards the end of our month together, he shared that he thought that I wasn't comfortable around him/closed off to him and sadly, with a combination of that and me getting kind of impatient in my interactions with him (he's graduating and this year was very busy for him so we couldn't meet, and I felt that he could've at least made *some* time for me..) we just kind of drifted apart and neither of us contacted each other. At the end of that month (when he shared that I seemed closed towards him) he also reactivated his dating profile and I got the suspicion that he started talking to someone else although he denied it. Yeah..

Fast forward a month and I keep thinking about him and one day I randomly bump into him on the bus on campus. We just kept glancing at each other and we exchanged "Heys" but that was it. I later contacted him on Facebook to see if he wanted to meet up sometime and he said he was seeing someone at the moment and that he was only looking for "friends". I told him that it was ok and we stopped contact again.

And now 4 months later.. I'm thinking about him and he texts me (right after I had exited out of his FB profile too *cough* lol). He wants to hang out and see where things go between us again, and I'm still on the fence. He's going to be graduating and moving out of state and I'll be working in another state for the summer, so *if* we meet it'll be tough anyways.

Guess I'll see how this all goes...

posted May 06, 2015 10:08 AM            

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Originally posted by Jo B:
A Scorpio old boyfriend of mine (from around 15 years ago) with whom I felt I had a strong "soulmate" connection (if such a thing really exists, although it's very strong in our composite charts) quite out of the blue blocked me on FB the other week. I wasn't even chasing him, if anything I was just not responding to his messages because deep down I felt there's little point in pursuing a romantic relationship with him again (since he's in a relationship now anyway! lol). I just thought that was a bit weird. He didn't even explain why, just blocked me. I'm not hurt by it, like I said before I usually just laugh at men's "tantrums" and fickleness mostly. I had another love interest more recently with a very young Scorpio who again was a bit proud and stubborn. I give up on them all!

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posted May 06, 2015 06:00 PM              

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Originally posted by Stawr:
hmm, maybe his girlfriend found out he was messaging you, and then he's like "look I blocked her, okay!?"

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I don't know Stewr, but at one point he did want to rekindle our romance and even come over to the UK (he's in the US). He was also asking me when I was going back over there. At first I was a bit hurt he'd blocked me (from a buddy point of view) but actually I think it's for the best. I don't want to get involved with guys who are clearly already attached.

posted October 03, 2015 06:01 AM            

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Originally posted by Chiemi:
What does it mean when a Scorpio comes back after a few months of no contact? (Although we stayed Facebook friends since we last talked)

I'll fill in the details later, but does anyone have any experience with this?

His placements:

Scorpio Sun
Cancer Moon
Capricorn Venus
Cancer Mars

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Hey, I've known a few Scorps in my time - and here's my two cents. Wait it out and just be there for him when he's ready to share. This may not be about you at all, so don't take it personally. (I say so, 'coz I myself had a hard time not taking it personally in the past). It's a periodic regrouping of forces they need. They may be going through something, or taking a step back to sort things out in their head first before they face the world again. This is especially true if there's been some highly emotionally potent event in the recent past that they need to process.

All this is probably increased in intensity by the cyclic emotions of the Cancer moon. If you love him, make sure he knows you're there for him through and after the phases too. Just don't push him or get mad at him 'coz it feels like he's ignoring you. Give him space, even if it kills you. If he loves you, he will be back, trust me.

posted October 03, 2015 06:07 AM            

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Originally posted by Chiemi:
Wow, that's really crazy how so many people are being contacted by their Scorpio exes..

Is it because they're nostalgic or that they really miss the person?

My Scorpio and I were never really a couple, but we dated for a month. We got along pretty well and I never really found any red flags/critiques about him/his personality/character. Towards the end of our month together, he shared that he thought that I wasn't comfortable around him/closed off to him and sadly, with a combination of that and me getting kind of impatient in my interactions with him (he's graduating and this year was very busy for him so we couldn't meet, and I felt that he could've at least made *some* time for me..) we just kind of drifted apart and neither of us contacted each other. At the end of that month (when he shared that I seemed closed towards him) he also reactivated his dating profile and I got the suspicion that he started talking to someone else although he denied it. Yeah..

Fast forward a month and I keep thinking about him and one day I randomly bump into him on the bus on campus. We just kept glancing at each other and we exchanged "Heys" but that was it. I later contacted him on Facebook to see if he wanted to meet up sometime and he said he was seeing someone at the moment and that he was only looking for "friends". I told him that it was ok and we stopped contact again.

And now 4 months later.. I'm thinking about him and he texts me (right after I had exited out of his FB profile too *cough* lol). He wants to hang out and see where things go between us again, and I'm still on the fence. He's going to be graduating and moving out of state and I'll be working in another state for the summer, so *if* we meet it'll be tough anyways.

Guess I'll see how this all goes...

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