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Topic: Getting to know a (male) Scorpio Sun
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ikja
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From: London, UK
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posted May 09, 2015 01:52 PM
  
Honestly...How the hell is this done?! * How have you found it?
* How long did it take?
* Any obstacles that you had to overcome? Thanks for your comments in advance! IP: Logged |
erickaf
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From: Europe
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posted May 09, 2015 02:06 PM
Well I may not be of much help but I know a Scorpio Sun for eight years and I still really feel I don't know him...secretive folks.
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ikja
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posted May 09, 2015 02:29 PM
@EThanks for answering. What aspects of their life do you feel that you don't know about? I'm a Scorpio rising, but I find that I ask questions and answer them. This guy doesn't seem to answer questions about himself which is extremely aggravating! IP: Logged |
theunknown
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posted May 09, 2015 03:13 PM
If a scorpio sun likes you, he will stick around. You shouldn't ask direct questions about him. Another thing that works for me as an aries moon is I call them out on not sharing. Usually they need you to demonstrate some level of maturity first... IP: Logged |
erickaf
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posted May 09, 2015 03:20 PM
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Originally posted by ikja:
@EThanks for answering. What aspects of their life do you feel that you don't know about? I'm a Scorpio rising, but I find that I ask questions and answer them. This guy doesn't seem to answer questions about himself which is extremely aggravating!
WOW the last sentence is very similar to my 'friend'...he will just look at me poker faced if I ask him a personal question. Though once you are committed to them they will be more open though! In the mean time hard to win them over, I guess...sorry!
In my opinion Scorpio Sun males are more harder to get to know then female ones.
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Gabby
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posted May 09, 2015 03:29 PM
I would just hang back, let them watch you and pretend your not paying attention at all to them. Let them see you, don't put on a show...be real, be your best, be someone they can respect and trust.
Let them learn to trust you at there own pace. Do this until they eventually start coming to you.....don't pressure them or try to force them to do anything just live your life for them to see, don't play games don't be fake just be you. If it's meant to be it will be!
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hannaramaa
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posted May 09, 2015 04:03 PM
Scorpio Mercuries and Mars' tend to do that poker face act rather than the Scorpio suns. The Suns I've known were always straightforward with me. I think they do that when they can't read someone's intentions very well or aren't sure about their vibe yet. I think the ones with Libra placements are more withholding than the Scorpios who are influenced by Sag. IP: Logged |
ikja
Knowflake Posts: 1292
From: London, UK
Registered: Oct 2014
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posted May 09, 2015 08:10 PM
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Originally posted by theunknown:
If a scorpio sun likes you, he will stick around. You shouldn't ask direct questions about him. Another thing that works for me as an aries moon is I call them out on not sharing. Usually they need you to demonstrate some level of maturity first...
I'm an Aries moon too.
I call everyone out lol (I need to stop it lol)
I think that every time we have spoken, I have displayed a level of maturity. A lot has happened to me, so I would say I'm definitely mature now. I just don't want to force the issue of taking things further - I want him to 😕 IP: Logged |
ikja
Knowflake Posts: 1292
From: London, UK
Registered: Oct 2014
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posted May 09, 2015 08:11 PM
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Originally posted by erickaf:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by ikja:
[b]@EThanks for answering. What aspects of their life do you feel that you don't know about? I'm a Scorpio rising, but I find that I ask questions and answer them. This guy doesn't seem to answer questions about himself which is extremely aggravating!
WOW the last sentence is very similar to my 'friend'...he will just look at me poker faced if I ask him a personal question. Though once you are committed to them they will be more open though! In the mean time hard to win them over, I guess...sorry!
In my opinion Scorpio Sun males are more harder to get to know then female ones.[/B][/QUOTE]
I honestly think that the males of all signs are harder than the women. I'm actually convinced lol
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ikja
Knowflake Posts: 1292
From: London, UK
Registered: Oct 2014
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posted May 09, 2015 08:14 PM
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Originally posted by Gabby:
I would just hang back, let them watch you and pretend your not paying attention at all to them. Let them see you, don't put on a show...be real, be your best, be someone they can respect and trust.
Let them learn to trust you at there own pace. Do this until they eventually start coming to you.....don't pressure them or try to force them to do anything just live your life for them to see, don't play games don't be fake just be you. If it's meant to be it will be!
I'm playing abit of a game by changing my display picture to show my best snaps loooool (sorry, not that sorry though) and I'm responding to him. He is responding back to me... I guess, I'm just not going to take him seriously until I get a sign that he is taking me seriously. I'll tell you something, I refuse to play the "male" role - have to fight my moon lol. IP: Logged |
ikja
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From: London, UK
Registered: Oct 2014
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posted May 09, 2015 08:21 PM
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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
Scorpio Mercuries and Mars' tend to do that poker face act rather than the Scorpio suns. The Suns I've known were always straightforward with me. I think they do that when they can't read someone's intentions very well or aren't sure about their vibe yet. I think the ones with Libra placements are more withholding than the Scorpios who are influenced by Sag.
I think you are on to something. I do not have a birthdate, because he wouldn't give it to me. However, I do think he was born in the first week of November. When I told him my guess last year, he said I was close and it was a good guess. Hmmm. Looking into the chart I suspect is somewhat accurate, there is ALOT of Libra. Alooooooooot.
Sun is in Scorpio
Juipter, Mercury, Pluto and Saturn all in Libra
Mars is in Virgo
Venus in Sagittarius (this makes alot of sense!) Hmmmmm. IP: Logged |
Nine
Moderator Posts: 2366
From: The Cusp of Love
Registered: May 2009
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posted May 10, 2015 02:47 AM
Tricky, tricky.Scorpio is a feminine sign. Generally they prefer that you make the moves to prove your interest. Show your hands if you will. They will likely rebuff your first offer, only to do a u-turn later on, because now they know where your interest lies. In him. Had a run in with a Scorpio recently. I was tricked into approaching them. Preliminary spying told me this was a Scorpio. However, I didn't want them to reveal this (to not psych myself out) so I didn't ask directly for sign as I usually do. They told it anyway. Gah. Now I'm not sure if I want to get entangled with a Scorpio. Enough was said to satisfy my thirst for personal data. True, everything wasn't revealed. However I suspect Libra & Pisces influences. Younger, I would've been tingling till now, but I'm old and jaded...it was nice. In no rush to meet soon, however. IP: Logged |
ikja
Knowflake Posts: 1292
From: London, UK
Registered: Oct 2014
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posted May 10, 2015 06:56 AM
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Originally posted by Nine:
Tricky, tricky.Scorpio is a feminine sign. Generally they prefer that you make the moves to prove your interest. Show your hands if you will. They will likely rebuff your first offer, only to do a u-turn later on, because now they know where your interest lies. In him. Had a run in with a Scorpio recently. I was tricked into approaching them. Preliminary spying told me this was a Scorpio. However, I didn't want them to reveal this (to not psych myself out) so I didn't ask directly for sign as I usually do. They told it anyway. Gah. Now I'm not sure if I want to get entangled with a Scorpio. Enough was said to satisfy my thirst for personal data. True, everything wasn't revealed. However I suspect Libra & Pisces influences. Younger, I would've been tingling till now, but I'm old and jaded...it was nice. In no rush to meet soon, however.
You have a point! I am jaded too and VERY hesitant - less willing to act on my excitement and tingles!
Initially, when we first started talking, he was weary of me. Apparently he had a lot of girls talking to him and he didn't know that I was a "nice" one. So, we stopped talking and then out of the blue about two years later, he messaged me and apologised. At this point, I was rather egotistical and didn't handle it very well. We spoke for s short period, but I had other stuff going on and needed more from life so... It ended again. Now, we're talking, it's slow. We aren't really talking about anything particular, just politics. As we recently had the elections in the UK. Funnily enough, he mentioned to me that he applied to go to the university that I did my Masters degree at lol. Unless he did his research on me, he must have done some research on me, otherwise he wouldn't have said that. So, I thought that was a good sign. I'm Going to attempt to play this cool. I've looked into our synastry abit and I see ALOT of Saturn - composite too. Not in easy aspects either lol. IP: Logged |
Supreme cT
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From: NJ
Registered: Jan 2014
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posted May 10, 2015 12:47 PM
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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
Scorpio Mercuries and Mars' tend to do that poker face act rather than the Scorpio suns. The Suns I've known were always straightforward with me. I think they do that when they can't read someone's intentions very well or aren't sure about their vibe yet. I think the ones with Libra placements are more withholding than the Scorpios who are influenced by Sag.
This right here!!! Im a scorpio sun and sag mercury/venus/NN and im way more out there and hold much less in than my other scorp sun friend and my other friend who is a scorp sun with libra is "social" but holds Important info in and is way more superficial and doesnt like to tell you there true feelings readily IP: Logged |
ikja
Knowflake Posts: 1292
From: London, UK
Registered: Oct 2014
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posted May 10, 2015 12:50 PM
How do you feel when people ignore you ScT?IP: Logged |
Nine
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From: The Cusp of Love
Registered: May 2009
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posted May 10, 2015 12:54 PM
I have theory that the reason Scorpios don't reveal much is because they secretly want you to go digging for the answers. Don't be disrespectful, but I believe they expect you to suss out the truth without them telling it all. It shows you care enough to put energy in that direction.Perhaps the Saturn aspects are testament to the fact that two years on you're still in touch. IP: Logged |
ikja
Knowflake Posts: 1292
From: London, UK
Registered: Oct 2014
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posted May 10, 2015 03:40 PM
I've just tried to assert some boundaries because I didn't like his approach and he said 'ok'I don't think my Aries Moon gets on with anyone 😂 IP: Logged |
Supreme cT
Knowflake Posts: 767
From: NJ
Registered: Jan 2014
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posted May 10, 2015 09:17 PM
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Originally posted by ikja:
How do you feel when people ignore you ScT?
Unless i feel like a bond has been formed with the person i dont really care if somebody ignores me because if i really wanted them i would reach out for them myself BUT if he reaches out to you try to be available i know most girls are going to be like "no you cant be free for all the time for a man" but to a scorpio if we contact you or make a move best believe it was premeditated and if you deny it we take offense to it way harder than say your aries moon would because for the most part scorpios dont act on impulse im telling you this from just my scorpio sun i understand the energy very well BUT i also have sag and aquarius in my chart so i choose to use the sag and aqua when im socializing that way i dont have to deal with all the scorp bs haha and my sag mercury HELPS a ton! I can be difficult and complicated like a scorp but my sag has a very frank approach and attitude which helps against the mental "games" scorps can play IP: Logged |
ikja
Knowflake Posts: 1292
From: London, UK
Registered: Oct 2014
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posted May 12, 2015 06:21 AM
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Originally posted by Supreme cT:
Unless i feel like a bond has been formed with the person i dont really care if somebody ignores me because if i really wanted them i would reach out for them myself BUT if he reaches out to you try to be available i know most girls are going to be like "no you cant be free for all the time for a man" but to a scorpio if we contact you or make a move best believe it was premeditated and if you deny it we take offense to it way harder than say your aries moon would because for the most part scorpios dont act on impulse im telling you this from just my scorpio sun i understand the energy very well BUT i also have sag and aquarius in my chart so i choose to use the sag and aqua when im socializing that way i dont have to deal with all the scorp bs haha and my sag mercury HELPS a ton! I can be difficult and complicated like a scorp but my sag has a very frank approach and attitude which helps against the mental "games" scorps can play
This is interesting, because we are at the stage now where the ball is in his caught lol. I put my foot down on something and he hasn't actually come back to me on it. So... Looks like another write off. I would reach out, but I think I'm sick of chasing people tbh; and I don't particularly want to give him the upper hand because I don't trust him enough not to abuse his position - ahhhh that's the Scorpio in me talking lol.
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bansheequeen
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posted May 12, 2015 06:05 PM
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Originally posted by theunknown:
If a scorpio sun likes you, he will stick around. You shouldn't ask direct questions about him. Another thing that works for me as an aries moon is I call them out on not sharing. Usually they need you to demonstrate some level of maturity first...
This. If the Scorpio sun likes up he ll stick around and make it work and mysteriously be where you are, and mysteriously run into you and get off work the same time and take th same bus line at the same time etc. He will eventually reveal more and more to you. But I think that Scorpio friends reveal more than Scorpio lovers or especially potential lovers... IP: Logged |
ikja
Knowflake Posts: 1292
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Registered: Oct 2014
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posted May 13, 2015 07:34 PM
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Originally posted by bansheequeen:
This. If the Scorpio sun likes up he ll stick around and make it work and mysteriously be where you are, and mysteriously run into you and get off work the same time and take th same bus line at the same time etc. He will eventually reveal more and more to you. But I think that Scorpio friends reveal more than Scorpio lovers or especially potential lovers...
Well, that puts me in my place lol.
That's definitely not happened. Thank you for filling me in x IP: Logged |
Aquacheeka
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posted May 13, 2015 10:00 PM
It hasn't been difficult for me. Intimacy and communication has been his goal since day 1. He revealed very personal things to me very early on, as did I.IP: Logged |
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