posted May 11, 2015 04:48 AM            

I feel I can be this way sometimes, not because people tell me that I am mean, but I feel that I am a little too easy to turn irritable or critical at others at times. I blame my super afflicted moon in pisces, and especially the close square to uranus. Whenever I get really close with people, I turn irritated at them too, wanting them to go away, but at the same time I like that we are so close.

It's like the most freakin annoying aspect ever, I tell you!

posted May 11, 2015 05:49 AM            

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Originally posted by charlie:
I can be perceived as mean because I'm very blunt and honest. I've learnt the hard way from my triple Scorpio mother whom I doubt has lied once in her life :-/
I can't stand superficiality or small talk and that includes blabbing on about the weather or where I, or you, purchased your clothes or what tampon brand is the most efficient. Not sure what aspect I should mention though.

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lol I know what you mean, but that's not exactly being mean is it? I am awful at smalltalk myself, but it's not because I don't like it, I just suck at it lol.

But being honest could probably be perceived as being mean... I am a very honest person myself, and I cannot help joking around all the time, probably in a way that is "mean" because I am being honest at the same time. I've got some punches for that from my friend, but I do think they like me anyways...

Being kinda "rude" isn't my style though, I would never openly tell people stuff that is just rude.
I admire sag people though, because they are the one sign that can be totally rude all the time and get away with it, cause it's funny.

posted May 11, 2015 07:25 AM            

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Originally posted by next to neptune:
I admire sag people though, because they are the one sign that can be totally rude all the time and get away with it, cause it's funny.

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It's not funny.

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I am a scorpio venus myself, but all my virgo influence and pisces moon makes me really two-faced this way.

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Where's the chart?

Anyway

I doubt it "makes" you that, so much as you

fancy yourself a victim... being inauthentic

(fake) and two-faced is how you're allowing

that *perceived* victimhood to manifest.

That you actually realize it is fabulous-- if

you didn't, you wouldn't be able to make a change.

Very fortunate, indeed.

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Nothing is permanent in this wicked world; not even our troubles.

posted May 11, 2015 10:15 AM            

I have all 3 & although people label me as mean and standoffish, I wouldn't hurt a fly.

I'm just very tense and high strung and it comes out as anger.

I react off impulse.

posted May 14, 2015 05:11 PM            

I can see it in my chart in these things . . .

-Mars in Gemini
-Mars in Gemini in the 12th
-Mars in Gemini conjunct Gemini ASC

Taurus Moon (I don't know what it is about Taurus moon women but I have noticed a trend we seem to the unhappiest, but also nice??? Speaking of the ones I've encountered or heard of from other people.)

then I have

Sun, Mercury, and Venus square Saturn
Moon trine Saturn
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For the most part I keep my cool, surprisingly, but when I'm comfortable with you I let my exasperations out easily and they're mostly directed towards people not having common sense which I've always thought was Taurus / Gemini themed.