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Topic: Pursuing A Scorpio
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Airyaquarian Knowflake Posts: 25 From: Chicago, Il, United States Registered: Jun 2012
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posted May 15, 2015 02:16 PM
Hey folks,I've known this scorpio man on and off for 2 years, we used to work together now we only keep in touch on facebook, I want to know how a scorpio man should be pursed, I want to ask him out for a drink. But I don't want to scare him away where he stops speaking to me all together. Him Scorpio Sun Scorpio Moon Virgo Venus Scorpio Mars
Me Aquarius Sun Scorpio Moon Capricorn Venus Capricorn Mars IP: Logged |
Seimei Knowflake Posts: 591 From: LafaLott,La.U.S.A. Registered: Apr 2015
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posted May 15, 2015 03:07 PM
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Odette Moderator Posts: 5830 From: Registered: May 2012
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posted May 15, 2015 11:15 PM
He won't get scared. You're very compatible. This is just a drink. Romantically pursuing someone involves more than saying "Hey. Let's have a drink sometime!" lol It's not like you're asking him to date you, to be your partner or to marry you tomorrow. Alternatively, you could just mention you'd like to to catch up.. and that you guys should hang out some time - and then leave it up to him to name a time and place. PS. Where are your Mercuries - and what Mercury-aspects do you have in synastry? IP: Logged |
Odette Moderator Posts: 5830 From: Registered: May 2012
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posted May 15, 2015 11:17 PM
quote: Just don't start it on facebook
Well where is she supposed to start it? They talk on Facebook! LoL
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theunknown Knowflake Posts: 2128 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted May 16, 2015 04:28 AM
He has scorpio Mars... He's not gonna be scared. Plus that scorpio moon and sun.., I'm not surprised if he has quite an ego...IP: Logged |
Airyaquarian Knowflake Posts: 25 From: Chicago, Il, United States Registered: Jun 2012
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posted May 17, 2015 11:02 AM
Thanks for the reply folks!He does have quite ego,he's a gentleman. Very old school, I remember we had a few conversations where romance, the old way of wooing someone is dead between us 20 somethings. I think that's his virgo venus that brings out the old courtship in him, and I'm a fan of it due to my venus capricorn. He's in a band, so I think I'm going to tell him I want to see his band play sometime. And being the old school guy he is, he can take the lead from there. I'll let you know how it goes. IP: Logged |
Nine Moderator Posts: 2406 From: The Cusp of Love Registered: May 2009
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posted May 17, 2015 03:26 PM
If you're afraid of scaring him away he's probably not for you. He needs a daring woman who makes bold moves. Find out on your own, if you can, where his band is playing next then just show up - for the show. Make sure he sees you. If there is an opening - approach, if not don't stress it. On another day, ask him out for a drink. He may say no, or not. From this point on you'll notice he'll soften up and become approachable, available. IP: Logged |
Odette Moderator Posts: 5830 From: Registered: May 2012
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posted May 17, 2015 06:39 PM
I wouldn't say that ^Airyaqua - Do what you feel is right. Your last post was the best idea imo I have Capricorn Moon and Mars (Taurus Venus) and have attracted many Scorpio influenced men, with Scorpio Moon, Scorpio Mars, even this exact combo: Virgo Venus/Scorpio Mars. They do admire confidence, but not to the extent of you intently pursuing them and stalking them at their gigs - when you are not "together", yet. So it's better to ask him first, as you said. Scorpio is just intense so you need to establish an intense emotional bond between you - as time goes on. That's the most important thing really! Get under his skin Tell him secrets... and let him know they are secrets.. Ask him for help and advice on important matters... Things that make him feel like he is a part of your life and you really want to get closer... IP: Logged |
Nine Moderator Posts: 2406 From: The Cusp of Love Registered: May 2009
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posted May 18, 2015 12:05 AM
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aleenaxo Knowflake Posts: 390 From: Registered: Nov 2013
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posted May 18, 2015 12:18 AM
I am currently crushing on a guy with Scorpio mars and Venus, along with Leo Moon. My mars is in the 8th house in Virgo, my Venus is in cancer and my moon is in Leo too. HE IS JUST SO HOT TO ME. I swear he has Scorpio rising. He is constantly staring at me, and my mars in the eighth has no problem staring right back and I just looooove the attention I get from him (and it seems like he does too).
Just last week when I caught him staring at me (which was one of the 30 times I did that day lol it's awesome) I stared back and he smiled at me. It was so adorable. Every time I talk to him it's for very short periods of time but it's always like we both are trying to casually squeeze in as much info about ourselves as possible to the other person. Having my mars in the eighth house and my mercury in exact opposition with Pluto I have done PLENTY of research for body language signs that show attraction towards someone and my intuition is saying he has too. He shows more than enough signs It's the staring that is the best part for now it's so intense and cute. I can be halfway across a huge room full of people and I always catch him staring. UGH I just want his number haha. I'm not sure if I'm helping but I kind of wanted to let these emotions out haha sorry IP: Logged |
Ann7 Knowflake Posts: 575 From: united states Registered: May 2009
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posted May 19, 2015 08:00 PM
It all looks good except for his venus in virgo - these folks are EXTREMELY picky - the littlest thing will turn them off. IP: Logged |