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posted May 16, 2015 11:23 AM            

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Just curious to see the answers. I guess a lack of aspects esp the sun/moon?

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posted May 16, 2015 11:26 AM            

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I'm thinking Mercury.
I think it depends on the "way" they don't get you.
If it's emotionally, for example, squares between each others Moon seem to create that

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posted May 16, 2015 11:31 AM            

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i'm looking at someone that i feel doesn't get me as far as my sensitiivty goes and i don't see any moon squares or mercury bad aspects lol. i feel she doesn't get me emotionally mostly and is very blunt and hurtful.. the only thing i see is that she has a very afflicted aries mars that could cause it.

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posted May 16, 2015 11:34 AM            

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there's a mercury (mine) square their asc though could be their mars square my asc and also the saturn on my 1st house that feels harsh to me.

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posted May 16, 2015 11:47 AM            

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For me personally, Moon, Mercury and Saturn hard aspecting to each other. I can't stand Mercury square Mercury, especally.

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posted May 16, 2015 12:42 PM            

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Unaspected moon?

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posted May 16, 2015 12:48 PM            

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One of the worst I've experienced....

His Mercury/Sun square my Merc/Sun
His Pluto conjunct my Venus but his Venus squared both.
He was obsessive but didn't have a clue about how to make things work out between us. He kept trying to make me jealous instead if being a partner.

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posted May 16, 2015 01:17 PM            

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Originally posted by Gabby:
One of the worst I've experienced....

His Mercury/Sun square my Merc/Sun
His Pluto conjunct my Venus but his Venus squared both.
He was obsessive but didn't have a clue about how to make things work out between us. He kept trying to make me jealous instead if being a partner.

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Huh! My SO and I have Sun/Merc sq DW and we communicate really well! Always on same page. But then again, I have always been good with Aries folks

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posted May 16, 2015 01:53 PM            

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This depends on your natals, if you have Mercury and venus out of your sun signs or not.

Some aspects work very well with certain signs so square alone isn't necessarily bad.

For example: Cancer and aries moons are really bad for each other but Cap moon might be able to handle aries since both are independent and Cap is strategic.

(A la Brangelina).

If you natal indicates you one challenge, like plutonic influences and such, trines or flowing aspects aren't enough.

I get along with many people but due to my 7th Pluto, I'm only fulfilled when my relationships are intense, a little bit troubled and challenged.

If your personal planets are aspected, these energy can be worked out through free will. If there's no aspects at all, that might be tough.

I like a good composite though. Unafflucted love stellium can save any plutonic Synastry from turning nasty.

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posted May 16, 2015 01:54 PM            

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I'd think oppositions.

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posted May 16, 2015 02:36 PM            

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Originally posted by midnightvenus:
I'm thinking Mercury.
I think it depends on the "way" they don't get you.
If it's emotionally, for example, squares between each others Moon seem to create that

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mercury, especially the square. wow, what a pain, like speaking completely different languages and nothing comes across

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posted May 16, 2015 02:40 PM            

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Lots of quincunxs (aka inconjunct 150 degrees). I tend to have a lot of quincunx aspects with people who don't get me at all.

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posted May 16, 2015 07:06 PM            

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Moving to Interpersonal Astrology.

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