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Topic: Men pleasing their woman in bed!
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EmGem Knowflake Posts: 415 From: Registered: Jan 2015
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posted May 18, 2015 12:35 AM
I freaking love it when a man gets off on pleasing a woman in bed. Some live for it! They want nothing more than to fulfill your fantasies moreso than their own. Especially when the woman can be upfront with what she needs....this turns them on even more.Pertaining to someone I am currently seeing, what is more likely to indicate this from his placements? Aries Sun - 12H Aries Venus - 12H Gemini Mars -2H Leo Moon - 4H IP: Logged |
Aries23Degrees Knowflake Posts: 2083 From: South Africa Registered: Dec 2012
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posted May 18, 2015 01:32 AM
I would look at Virgo/Pisces/Libra/Gemini placements.Virgo/Pisces often love to cater to another's needs more especially Pisces; who loves to be enveloped in another's fantasies. Virgo can please you as a show of love. To please their partner gives them a sense of accomplishment. Gemini is perhaps the most versatile lover of them all; sometimes aggressive, other times passive. It could really be difficult to tell which twin you are dealing with. But generally,Gemini is often open to all things and likes to explore. Little is "off bounds". And hat means that they can play the games you want them to play. Libra is all about pleasing you.So long as you reciprocate in kind. They often don't feel satisfied when the partner isn't. So even in the bedroom, they'll want to bring some balance and equal sharing. Are those the placemnts of your partner?
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Peluches Knowflake Posts: 964 From: Vαleŋtiŋe ~ Registered: Jul 2014
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posted May 18, 2015 01:48 AM
12th house Venus. I can relate. Aries23 IP: Logged |
EmGem Knowflake Posts: 415 From: Registered: Jan 2015
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posted May 18, 2015 03:16 AM
quote: Originally posted by Aries23Degrees: I would look at Virgo/Pisces/Libra/Gemini placements.Virgo/Pisces often love to cater to another's needs more especially Pisces; who loves to be enveloped in another's fantasies. Virgo can please you as a show of love. To please their partner gives them a sense of accomplishment. Gemini is perhaps the most versatile lover of them all; sometimes aggressive, other times passive. It could really be difficult to tell which twin you are dealing with. But generally,Gemini is often open to all things and likes to explore. Little is "off bounds". And hat means that they can play the games you want them to play. Libra is all about pleasing you.So long as you reciprocate in kind. They often don't feel satisfied when the partner isn't. So even in the bedroom, they'll want to bring some balance and equal sharing. Are those the placemnts of your partner?
they are the placements yep! I had a feeling that it could be the 12H influence giving him a neptunian tinge. He also has his taurus merc there in the 12H. He's very much into wanting to live out my fantasies. he's a taurus ASC but i think they're not so much into ppl pleasing. Also, his moon is at 29* leo so i'm actually wondering whether it might have some virgo energy being so close to the cusp?! I can very much relate to the virgo wanting to please, my moon is in virgo 1*. it's so much fun having this after being with someone who predominantly wanted to please himself in bed :/
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EmGem Knowflake Posts: 415 From: Registered: Jan 2015
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posted May 18, 2015 03:18 AM
quote: Originally posted by Peluches: 12th house Venus. I can relate.
must be a 12H thing!! You peeps are awesome! IP: Logged |
unforgiven_soul Knowflake Posts: 514 From: Registered: Feb 2013
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posted May 18, 2015 03:33 AM
It's the 12th house placements, for sure!IP: Logged |
EmGem Knowflake Posts: 415 From: Registered: Jan 2015
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posted May 18, 2015 03:46 AM
do 12 housers even know what pleases THEM? it would be kinda sad if they didn't because i really want to please him too....what his true desires are. how do i get through??IP: Logged |
LeeLoo2014 Moderator Posts: 11924 From: Venus cornering Neptune Registered: Mar 2014
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posted May 18, 2015 04:24 AM
quote: Originally posted by Aries23Degrees: I would look at Virgo/Pisces/Libra/Gemini placements.Virgo/Pisces often love to cater to another's needs more especially Pisces; who loves to be enveloped in another's fantasies. Virgo can please you as a show of love. To please their partner gives them a sense of accomplishment. Gemini is perhaps the most versatile lover of them all; sometimes aggressive, other times passive. It could really be difficult to tell which twin you are dealing with. But generally,Gemini is often open to all things and likes to explore. Little is "off bounds". And hat means that they can play the games you want them to play. Libra is all about pleasing you.So long as you reciprocate in kind. They often don't feel satisfied when the partner isn't. So even in the bedroom, they'll want to bring some balance and equal sharing. Are those the placemnts of your partner?
Leo Moon is also a "generous" placement, from that list. But what you said is spot on, these are the usual placements for this. The double signs + Virgo. IP: Logged |
Odette Moderator Posts: 5427 From: Registered: May 2012
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posted May 18, 2015 04:54 AM
quote: what is more likely to indicate this?
Mars in close aspect to any transpersonal planet (Uranus, Neptune or Pluto)... Mars in Pisces or Scorpio.. and Mars in the 8th or 12th house! IP: Logged |
EmGem Knowflake Posts: 415 From: Registered: Jan 2015
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posted May 18, 2015 05:03 AM
quote: Originally posted by Odette: Mars in close aspect to any transpersonal planet (Uranus, Neptune or Pluto)... Mars in Pisces or Scorpio.. and Mars in the 8th or 12th house!
he has mars in the 2nd, sextile sun semisq merc BQ pluto IP: Logged |
next to neptune Knowflake Posts: 2581 From: The Moon Registered: Aug 2013
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posted May 18, 2015 05:42 AM
my boyfriend has gemini mars in 12th house and pisces moon (and libra sun+venus) he even got a virgo mercury, so he is pretty much a mix of what was said here lol!But actually, I think I am even more of a pleaser myself, because I have so much virgo/pisces/cancer energy. I think you forgot to mention cancer, it's the most pleasing sign ever:P We are both very submissive, but I think I am actually the most out of the two of us. (I got virgo mars in 4th house) IP: Logged |
Venusincap89 Knowflake Posts: 862 From: Toronto, Ontario, Canada Registered: Jul 2013
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posted May 18, 2015 07:06 AM
mmm I get off pleasing my girlfriend I have JupiterRx in Cancer 12th house and Mars in Scorpio in 4th?
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Koniucha Knowflake Posts: 159 From: Registered: Jun 2014
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posted May 18, 2015 07:53 AM
quote: Originally posted by Odette: Mars in close aspect to any transpersonal planet (Uranus, Neptune or Pluto)... Mars in Pisces or Scorpio.. and Mars in the 8th or 12th house!
I have Mars conjunct Neptune in my 12th house and I agree with this. But at the same time, I feel like I cannot find a man that wants to really please me. I also have Venus Virgo. IP: Logged |
unforgiven_soul Knowflake Posts: 514 From: Registered: Feb 2013
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posted May 18, 2015 08:26 AM
quote: Originally posted by Odette: Mars in close aspect to any transpersonal planet (Uranus, Neptune or Pluto)... Mars in Pisces or Scorpio.. and Mars in the 8th or 12th house!
My guy has Mars-Pluto conjunction in Scorpio in the 12th house. He always wants to please me, in everything. I have Venus & Mercury in the 12th house in Aquarius, and love to please him too.It feels great and caring. IP: Logged |
lisalisa Knowflake Posts: 1140 From: Registered: Jun 2013
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posted May 18, 2015 06:49 PM
Taurus!!!!!!IP: Logged |
treedroppings Newflake Posts: 13 From: morgan hill, ca, usa Registered: Jul 2012
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posted May 18, 2015 07:24 PM
Everything in 9th house or fail!just kidding I'm gonna get a detailed reading so I can figure stuff out, they say it isn't as easy to interpret a horoscope as one might imagine. IP: Logged |
treedroppings Newflake Posts: 13 From: morgan hill, ca, usa Registered: Jul 2012
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posted May 18, 2015 07:28 PM
quote: Originally posted by lisalisa: Taurus!!!!!!
I got jupiter and mercury right next to each other in different signs, Jup-Aries Merc-Taurus, but both are squaring the Moon (in Aquarius) and trining Uranus (virgo), so I don't know... anyone here do detailed charts? IP: Logged |
Gemini30 Knowflake Posts: 209 From: Los Angeles Registered: Sep 2014
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posted May 18, 2015 08:13 PM
Gotta have scorpio placements there. Preferably scorpio mixed with Libra. The passionate mixed with the pleasing kind. IP: Logged |
Aries23Degrees Knowflake Posts: 2083 From: South Africa Registered: Dec 2012
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posted May 19, 2015 07:31 AM
quote: Originally posted by EmGem: They are the placements yep! I had a feeling that it could be the 12H influence giving him a Neptune tinge: He also has his Taurus Mercury there in the 12H. He's very much into wanting to live out my fantasies.He's a Taurus ASC,but I think they're not so much into people-pleasing. Also, his Moon is at 29* Leo,so I'm actually wondering whether it might have some Virgo energy being so close to the cusp? I can very much relate to the Virgo wanting to please, my Moon is in Virgo 1*. It's so much fun having this after being with someone who predominantly wanted to please himself in bed :/
Well,Taurus is strongly sensually inclined.And they are extremely touchy and into love-making etc. To the Taurus Asc, the world should be beautiful. And they most probably are very talented in creating beauty of some sort. Because the Asc is what we present as our "best foot forward", the most attracting thing about the Taurus Asc is that they seem very much "aware" of their physical needs. This insight into physical things also makes them very clued up on what feels good , is pleasant to the touch and desired(even in others). Who are the best kissers and will make out with you for hours on end? Probably Taurus. Who are likely to give the best massages? Taurus Who knows where your G-spot is likely to be and have a certain kind of finesse with your body(even the inexperienced "virgins)? Probably Taurus. So I wouldn't go as far as saying that Taurus is going all out to "please" you. But rather that they are more "in tune" with what is pleasing generally. And that means that they are able to tailor and hone into what you respond to the most. The Mars in Gemini also helps make this one to be more innovative and less "stick in the mud". As Taurus often likes repetition and can do one thing that works over and over again. Till it drives their partner mad(and this time,not in a good way). If the world was made up of two things; making love and enjoying food, Taurus would be in heaven. IP: Logged |
Stawr Moderator Posts: 3365 From: N. America Registered: Nov 2010
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posted May 19, 2015 11:18 AM
So the more experienced we get, the more we know what we like in bed. I realized that I am into something. Really hoped I could get what I wanted fulfilled more than anything else.I got to experience being the dominant one in the relationship from Apr 2012-Jan 2015. It was great that I could feel comfortable enough to finally do that...However I need more of a variety w/ sex. (I'm an Gemini ASC w/ Aquarius Mars) So always being me taking the lead made me feel undesired. Though we had sex a good amount, there were some issues. He was incapable of doing missionary. Even when he tried, he didn't know what to do. I've brought up how he never initiates sex, and then he blamed it on his ex gf. He asked me what I liked, I told him. He was not comfortable with it at all. And I did everything he wanted. I really did love him though. I told myself that I was willing to not have my needs met to be with him, and go the rest of my life not getting what I want in bed. I realized that the sulking would not make things better. So my Aries Sun tried being optimistic about the stupidest things he did. Looking at it now, it was pretty sad and kind of funny. He liked being submissive, and that he likes to be controlled because he does so much. But then I ended up having a lot of responsibilities too, so what about me just laying back once in while, huh!? He had a lot of Scorpio in his chart. Sun, Mercury, Mars, Pluto, ASC Plus Taurus Moon. Could that make him stubborn in trying things? Also he had 12th house Mars. I was devastated and broken from the break up. But then I realized a lot of things I didn't have to put up with anymore. I've become so liberated sexually. First guy Cancer Sun Pisces Moon Cancer Mercury Leo Venus and Mars We went to school together. We agreed that this was casual and not romantic. I told him I could only do this so long. Because I had him for sex, that allowed me to hang out with other guys in a platonic way,and get to know other guys. Well one of those guys really wanted me, and I got to be hard to get. He also expressed wanting to date me. I'm glad, I didn't give it up right away. It made it that much more thrilling giving into him more and more. It's seriously everything I could ever ask for! He is a Leo Sun Gemini Moon Virgo Mercury, Venus, Mars. Something I'm fascinated by, is that his Venus opposes my Venus exactly. We are currently dating exclusively. IP: Logged |
Free Leon Newflake Posts: 23 From: California Registered: Apr 2015
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posted May 19, 2015 08:26 PM
Eros in Libra or 7th Housesource: me IP: Logged |
Stawr Moderator Posts: 3365 From: N. America Registered: Nov 2010
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posted May 19, 2015 09:30 PM
quote: Originally posted by Aries23Degrees: As Taurus often likes repetition and can do one thing that works over and over again. Till it drives their partner mad(and this time,not in a good way).
OMG yes! This drove me crazy. My ex had Taurus moon 24 degrees, it squared my 23 degree Mars in unpredictable Aquarius. IP: Logged |
EmGem Knowflake Posts: 415 From: Registered: Jan 2015
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posted May 19, 2015 09:42 PM
quote: Originally posted by Aries23Degrees: Well,Taurus is strongly sensually inclined.And they are extremely touchy and into love-making etc.To the Taurus Asc, the world should be beautiful. And they most probably are very talented in creating beauty of some sort. Because the Asc is what we present as our "best foot forward", the most attracting thing about the Taurus Asc is that they seem very much "aware" of their physical needs. This insight into physical things also makes them very clued up on what feels good , is pleasant to the touch and desired(even in others). Who are the best kissers and will make out with you for hours on end? Probably Taurus. Who are likely to give the best massages? Taurus Who knows where your G-spot is likely to be and have a certain kind of finesse with your body(even the inexperienced "virgins)? Probably Taurus. So I wouldn't go as far as saying that Taurus is going all out to "please" you. But rather that they are more "in tune" with what is pleasing generally. And that means that they are able to tailor and hone into what you respond to the most. The Mars in Gemini also helps make this one to be more innovative and less "stick in the mud". As Taurus often likes repetition and can do one thing that works over and over again. Till it drives their partner mad(and this time,not in a good way). If the world was made up of two things; making love and enjoying food, Taurus would be in heaven.
so beautifully put Aries, especially the last line Everything you said about Taurus is what I love about them...they balance me out so well IP: Logged |