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Topic: How do signs apologize?
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theunknown
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posted May 18, 2015 01:09 PM
  
Tell me your placement and how you go about apologizing...  I have cap mars. I list out what I have done wrong in a powerpoint fashion, address what I should have done, apologize and reassure again that I don't seek forgiveness right away. It's just the right thing to do. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted May 18, 2015 01:39 PM
How does Mars have anything to do with apologizing? What about Jupiter since apologizing indicates a wrong doing or fault, hence an ethics matter. Or the moon? (What I'm trying to say here is what are you Moon and Jupiter placements as well) Aries Sun, Taurus Moon, Jupiter in Gemini. Apologizing is easy for me, but I will be less likely to break the ice TO apologize since there's that whole "But what if you say no" fear (that I don't know why I have it because I can't think of an instance where that actually happened) I don't do anything fancy. I'll probably acknowledge what I THINK I did wrong which may or may not be the offense, but if it's a best friend then I apologize anyway. Not to sound casual but I'll apologize even if I don't mean it sometimes just to get it out of the way so the friend/relationship can move forward. IP: Logged |
12muddy
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posted May 18, 2015 01:41 PM
IIt depends on the person and on the situation. Anyway, to people who are not that close to me, I often address the damages that my actions/words have caused n validate their feelings of hurt/anger/etc.... Then I talk about the reasons behind such words/actions. Then say "I apologize" again. To my s.o for example, I act cute n say sorry n do a series of stuff to make him laugh. Personally I'm indifferent when I'm at the receiving end. If it's just small stuff I probably forget about it in 5 minutes. Even if I do remember I'd just shrug it off. No need for apologies. If it's something serious then no apology, be it word or action, can make a difference. IP: Logged |
confusedaseff
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posted May 18, 2015 01:43 PM
cap stellium (sun, moon, mercury, nept, uranus)i just suck it up. usually it goes 'here, i'm sorry i ****** up, you were right, we should've done it your way.' if my mother who's cap moon then usually i just act like the fight never happened, she does the same. we have a non verbal understanding that once communication is back one - whoever breaks the silences = thats the apology. then back to normal. my bf - give cuddles. nudge him with my nose. act cute lol then say sorry. ------------------
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theunknown
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posted May 18, 2015 02:29 PM
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FruityLlama
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posted May 19, 2015 01:06 PM
I don't know which placements would indicate this but I'm usually quite over the top. Like I apologise for everything, so much so that every other word I say is 'sorry' and people ALWAYS comment on it! Its funny because they'll say "you always say sorry!" and I'll reply "I'm sorry, I know blah blah blah...." ahaha :P I have a Leo Mars if we're going with Mars signs, and Sag Jupiter. I guess they can be quite OTT generally. They do trine each other too. Having said that though, I know people with the same placements acting stronger in their charts and they do not apologise as profusely as me. IP: Logged |
arcturiann
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posted May 19, 2015 01:11 PM
As a cancer sun, i'll apologize when I feel it is safe for me to. I wont apologize if I know that I will be berated for it, or attacked in some sort of "I told you so" manner. I'll apologize when I know the other person is ready to accept it. IP: Logged |
charlie
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posted May 19, 2015 02:40 PM
I only apologize when I know I have done wrong and then I go straight to the point without any emotions. My Cap Moon keeps me somewhat (an understatement) detached in the emotional categories.. IP: Logged |
Londongirl8
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Registered: Dec 2012
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posted May 21, 2015 02:58 PM
I'm Aqua sun and I have no problem or difficulty apologising when I'm wrong but I've been with my Aqua sun boyfriend for 2.5 years and I've yet to hear the word sorry EVER come out of his mouth. He'll always have an excuse but never an apology IP: Logged |
Lerena
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posted May 21, 2015 06:24 PM
I'm straightforward. I just explain that I'm sorry for doing X and hope my apology is accepted. It's difficult for me to forgive myself when I upset someone, so naturally I try to avoid having to apologize in the first place. However, my communication style is to be naturally honest and if someone's over-sensitive, I tend to apologize a lot to that person, especially if the conversation is heated with emotions. Sometimes I don't realize that my words were painful, so when they hurt I have to THEN explain that my words just meant X, Y, or Z. I assume I apologize like a Mercury in Aries. The difficulty forgiving myself when I hurt someone probably comes from my Jupiter in Virgo. Of course, these placements showing how I apologize is just a theory. I might apologize more like my Sun in Taurus or my ascendant in Scorpio, but I don't think of those when I think of what I generally have to apologize for. IP: Logged |
next to neptune
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Registered: Aug 2013
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posted May 22, 2015 09:16 AM
Well, I'll answer this by sign, based on the consumption of a chart where each sign is the most dominant sign (so this is pure energy wise, not sun-sign based)Aries: They are not afraid of making an apologize if it's necessary, but I think they are a very honest sign in general, so they might have a hard time admitting they went over the edge Taurus: They are too stubborn to apologize right away, it could take them years, maybe never to do it...and they don't want to be the first ones to do it! Gemini: They just do it right away to clear the air, they dont want people to hold a grudge (but inside they get really irritated, but that will pass) Cancer: They probably do it and cry a little inside, maybe also on the outside... making an apologize is something very emotional for them. And they probably feel really bad for what they did Leo: They got so much pride that they wont just apologize right away, but they might do it in a fast-manner kind of way like "yeah all right I'm sorry, now lets move on!!" Virgo: Well as these people always think they are right about everything, it would take some guts for them to admit that might not ALWAYS be true lol... so apologizing from a virgo is very honest and heartfelt. When they realize what they have done, they might be sorry forever though, and trying to make it good again... until next time they f*** up libra: They immediately apologizes, even when they didn't in fact do something wrong. They just don't want to be seen as unfair... if they feel the apologize is extremely unfair they probably would crave for some understanding so things can really settle up the right way (thumps up for libra people, they sure know how to settle things right) Scorpio: They don't feel like apologizing very often... they might do it, but inside they are not especially sorry and would probably hold a grudge Sagittarius: I think they would maybe apologize for hurting someones feelings, but usually it's not the style of a sag to just take things they said back... they are honest people who really mean what they said Capricorn: They have so much pride, and such a big ego, but I dont think they want to be seen as unfair either.. they'll only apologize if it really matters to them Pisces: They apologize for whatever they did, actually some of their most used word is "I'm sorry" so be aware for these poor people, so you dont make them do things that is unfair to them! This is how I see it, so if I offended anyone - I'm sorry lol:P I'm a pisces mooner myself IP: Logged |
arcturiann
Knowflake Posts: 639
From: Titan
Registered: Jun 2013
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posted May 22, 2015 03:43 PM
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Originally posted by next to neptune:
Pisces: They apologize for whatever they did, actually some of their most used word is "I'm sorry" so be aware for these poor people, so you dont make them do things that is unfair to them! This is how I see it, so if I offended anyone - I'm sorry lol:P I'm a pisces mooner myself
LOL that is so true, pisces mooners especially that i've known say sorry sooo often, I keep having to tell them to stop! IP: Logged |
astra7
Knowflake Posts: 1059
From: I live at 667
Registered: Sep 2014
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posted May 23, 2015 06:17 AM
I thought Taurus never apologies...hannaramaa is right!IP: Logged |
Soltze
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posted May 23, 2015 06:45 AM
Actually I'm a Gemini sun but I apologize like a Cancer (Mars/Venus) haha. Well there's plenty of remorse and tears. But not in front of the person off course.
Well, if I care for the person. If I don't I might just turn by back. I mean I believe in shared guilt, so if the person isn't worth it...IP: Logged |
erickaf
Knowflake Posts: 1473
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Registered: Oct 2014
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posted May 23, 2015 06:45 AM
Scorpio here: I have been holding grudges since I was 5 which is pretty sad.
I have no problem apologizing if I am wrong.
And I will most likely apologize first.
Scorpios like to make themselves the bigger person.IP: Logged |
GemBird82
Knowflake Posts: 907
From: Female bird from France
Registered: Feb 2014
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posted May 23, 2015 09:45 PM
(...)Honestly, I don't know how do I look when I apologize... and I'm not actually very sure about what would I say, since I'm kind of... hmm (which is the correct word(?)) spontaneous (?) - But when I make a mistake... I blink a lot ! And then I say something like :
~ Holy cow, what have I done?  IP: Logged |
astra7
Knowflake Posts: 1059
From: I live at 667
Registered: Sep 2014
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posted May 24, 2015 06:27 AM
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Originally posted by erickaf:
Scorpio here: I have been holding grudges since I was 5
WOW. :O
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