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Topic: Venus/Mars Signs in bed
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plutoandcap
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posted May 25, 2015 09:14 AM
  
Hi so i'm wondering.. there are posts on here about how the different venus/mars signs seduce, love etc but nothing really on how they are in bed so I'm wondering if we could start a topic specifically on your experiences with the various signs and how they are in bed. and of course what you likeso far i've been with a venus in taurus and mars in leo .. meh.
very stubborn in the way he wants to shag. i've told him blatantly that i like it rough so he does it... for 2 minutes then reverts back to the way he like its. bless him it really seems like he tries.. but just isn't willing to keep it up. don't know how the mars in leo plays in. i don't see it in him at all whether in bed or not. IP: Logged |
Gabby
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posted May 25, 2015 09:23 AM
Taurus Venus(trine Pluto), Mars in gemini is great in bed. Passionate but wants to learn everything you know so if you want to take the lead they will let you, if you don't they are just sultry and passionate.
I'm a libra Venus(conjunct Pluto), gemini Mars....I like the sultry passion and can get a bit weird/kinky esp because Uranus trines my Mars. IP: Logged |
plutoandcap
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posted May 25, 2015 09:30 AM
venus in scorp, mars in virgo.. what i want in bed = i like playful roughhousing, i like being able to laugh in bed (eros in sag), choke me, spank me, pull my hair, scratch me.. i really like it rough but fun. i like to be dominated in bed, but i won't be submissive without a fight - see fun roughhousing above, i like quickies in dark corners. or sneaky fingering at the restaurant while trying to maintain a conversation.. and i do at times see sex as a competition, who can get the other person off first. i like tantric sex if we're going slow. but it's still a competition to get the other person off first. hell i'm not even upset if the guy i'm shagging *** too quick. i win!of course all this with a consensual partner in a monogamous relationship. otherwise nope. IP: Logged |
NeptunianSag
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posted May 25, 2015 09:43 AM
Venus in aqua, cancer mars oppsite Neptune and Uranus, trine Pluto. Also I have Eros in Scorpio conjunct Pluto, I like everything and anything aslong as there is a connection emotional and or mental and it's intense. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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posted May 25, 2015 09:43 AM
Venus in Taurus is refined due to the exaltation of Venus in Taurus lolLibra venus is the same. Too refined for me! ------------------
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goatcat
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posted May 25, 2015 01:50 PM
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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Venus in Taurus is refined due to the exaltation of Venus in Taurus lolLibra venus is the same. Too refined for me!
Interesting. In what system is Venus in Taurus exalted?
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Koniucha
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posted May 25, 2015 01:58 PM
Venus Virgo/ Mars SagI can be a bit shy toward sex, but have a very high sex drive. I do like it a bit rough and am submissive. IP: Logged |
Orange
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posted May 25, 2015 02:00 PM
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Originally posted by plutoandcap:
venus in scorp, mars in virgo.. what i want in bed = i like playful roughhousing, i like being able to laugh in bed (eros in sag), choke me, spank me, pull my hair, scratch me.. i really like it rough but fun. i like to be dominated in bed, but i won't be submissive without a fight - see fun roughhousing above, i like quickies in dark corners. or sneaky fingering at the restaurant while trying to maintain a conversation.. and i do at times see sex as a competition, who can get the other person off first. i like tantric sex if we're going slow. but it's still a competition to get the other person off first. hell i'm not even upset if the guy i'm shagging *** too quick. i win!of course all this with a consensual partner in a monogamous relationship. otherwise nope.
you need a guy with Sun-Saturn hard natal aspect, or Mars-Saturn hard aspect IP: Logged |
margym0o
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From: Ontario, Canada
Registered: Jul 2014
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posted May 25, 2015 02:06 PM
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Originally posted by Orange:
you need a guy with Sun-Saturn hard natal aspect, or Mars-Saturn hard aspect
Having experienced someone with Sun square Saturn and Mars conjunct Saturn I can say this is absolutely true!
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charlie
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posted May 25, 2015 02:20 PM
Venus in Cancer, Mars in Virgo conj AscI need no talking. Minimal foreplay. No marathon sex. Orgasms should be from point a to b. I don't like role plays. No spanking or yanking. I crave "earthiness" and depth. Give me your all! I'm quite animalistic. IP: Logged |
plutoandcap
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posted May 25, 2015 03:00 PM
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Originally posted by Orange:
you need a guy with Sun-Saturn hard natal aspect, or Mars-Saturn hard aspect
sun/mars - saturn hard aspect - like square and opposition? what would those aspects specifically do though? wouldn't saturn inhibit all the fun stuff? just learning about aspects. and would the sign that the sun/mars/saturn be in matter? the guy I mentioned about (venus taurus, mars leo) is a mars opposition saturn... not very compatible in bed.. thank you!
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theunknown
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posted May 25, 2015 07:29 PM
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Originally posted by plutoandcap:
venus in scorp, mars in virgo.. what i want in bed = i like playful roughhousing, i like being able to laugh in bed (eros in sag), choke me, spank me, pull my hair, scratch me.. i really like it rough but fun. i like to be dominated in bed, but i won't be submissive without a fight - see fun roughhousing above, i like quickies in dark corners. or sneaky fingering at the restaurant while trying to maintain a conversation.. and i do at times see sex as a competition, who can get the other person off first. i like tantric sex if we're going slow. but it's still a competition to get the other person off first. hell i'm not even upset if the guy i'm shagging *** too quick. i win!of course all this with a consensual partner in a monogamous relationship. otherwise nope.
Cap Mars takes care of everything IP: Logged |
plutoandcap
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posted May 26, 2015 02:19 AM
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Originally posted by theunknown:
Cap Mars takes care of everything
really? have you had experiences with cap mars men? IP: Logged |
Seimei
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From: LafaLott,La.U.S.A.
Registered: Apr 2015
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posted May 26, 2015 02:25 AM
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Originally posted by plutoandcap:
venus in scorp, mars in virgo.. what i want in bed = i like playful roughhousing, i like being able to laugh in bed (eros in sag), choke me, spank me, pull my hair, scratch me.. i really like it rough but fun. i like to be dominated in bed, but i won't be submissive without a fight - see fun roughhousing above, i like quickies in dark corners. or sneaky fingering at the restaurant while trying to maintain a conversation.. and i do at times see sex as a competition, who can get the other person off first. i like tantric sex if we're going slow. but it's still a competition to get the other person off first. hell i'm not even upset if the guy i'm shagging *** too quick. i win!of course all this with a consensual partner in a monogamous relationship. otherwise nope.
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LexusVirgo
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posted May 26, 2015 02:28 AM
I got Venus n Mars in Leo. I like it rough. I am sorry your Mars in. Leo did not that is weird because as a queen ov the jungle I love to get rough because I don't have to hold back and biting clawing licking. I ve noticed we r a lot like our animal in the sign. Or it could just be my Venus squaring Pluto talking too. IP: Logged |
EmGem
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posted May 26, 2015 03:58 AM
I have venus is cancer, mars in leo. I love the interplay of soft and hard - the opposites.
Soft, earthy, sensual, soul encompassing, feeling and hearing every breath and word, touch, sound, stare.. And the hard - not necessarily fast. Just more rough and raw, animalistic, primal. I love dirty talk too...eros in gemini - conjuncts my sun and mercury. i have mars saturn conj natally... what does this mean about my sex style??? IP: Logged |
erickaf
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posted May 26, 2015 04:45 AM
I have been told I am very passionate in bed Venus Sagittarius Mars Virgo. I agree :-).IP: Logged |
AscTaurus
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From: Pretoria, Gauteng,South Africa
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posted May 26, 2015 07:03 AM
Are Venus/Mars placements really an indication of how one is in bed? I am not convinced.I actually think the Sun/Moon blend is in essence what the sexual style is. Venus/Mars lend the "assisting" qualities. Mars and Pluto (by house)especially,will govern the area where that person "concentrates" or tends to take special care or assert themselves. I have Sun/Moon in Sag/Cancer. I have many sexual fantasies with all sorts of people.Usually though,these people are not "good-looking" in the conventional sense of the word,but they have nice well shaped legs or thighs (Sagittarius). But they all involve some kind of nurturing(Cancer).There is a great deal of tender, love and care in each and every single one. Mars in Libra though has me "project" this on the partner; so I tend to play the above role of nurturer,caretaker and the one "on top" with the partner. But in typical Libra fashion,it turns me on tremendously if someone does the same with me; plays my "hero" and does all these things. Then I become comfortable being the more "passive" one. Pluto in Scorpio(6th) definitely contributes in my interest in technique,technique,technique. In this, I am absolutely obsessive as I am always trying to "better" my approach to love-making; do I touch the right areas? do I climax at the right time? what is the best position to stimulate that elusive "g spot"? etc.
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theunknown
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posted May 26, 2015 08:09 AM
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Originally posted by plutoandcap:
really? have you had experiences with cap mars men?
I have cap mars. I haven't had experiencss with cap Mars men but you can do a quick google. There's a thread about capricorn being horny  IP: Logged |
WarriorPrincess7
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posted May 26, 2015 09:21 AM
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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Venus in Taurus is refined due to the exaltation of Venus in Taurus lolLibra venus is the same. Too refined for me!
venus is exalted in pisces  IP: Logged |
Stawr
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posted May 27, 2015 01:35 AM
I'm an Aqua Mars with Venus Pisces with a Scorpio Moon. My Aqua Mars really enjoys the unpredictable from a partner, like a move I was not expecting. I enjoy giving and receiving foreplay, though I don't mind just getting to it half the time. I enjoy both dominance and submission, and sometimes I think it depends on the partner. My ex was great at being submissive to me. He was a Scorpio Mars with Venus in Capricorn. I really got to explore my dominant side, something that I felt couldn't be expressed well with other partners in the past. I handcuffed him, and would blindfold him. But then I got annoyed cause we never really switched roles. I need to switch it up sometimes. I swear I was practically never dominated. (Taurus Moon, sensual, stubborn, doesn't like change, and lazy)
After 3 years of that, I feel like I almost forgot how to be submissive. He was also uncomfortable with choking me, which is my ultimate fetish. Got with a Leo Mars and Venus with Pisces Moon. Who never choked a girl, but saw how happy it made me, so therefore he enjoyed it, and got very into it. Now I am with a Virgo Mars and Venus who has a Gemini Moon. I made him work hard. I did my best to be distant. But the more we hung out the closer we got. We started sitting closer, and then cuddling, holding hands. All that cute stuff. Then when I basically told him he needs to prove himself first, that's when his dirty talk kicked in. And it really got me hot and bothered. Dang, he got back at me for being a tease and making him wait, with foreplay and dirty talk. He is pretty dominant. He also never choked, but since I'm into it, he's into it. And he surprises me a lot. IP: Logged |
goddessofthemoon
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posted May 27, 2015 01:57 AM
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EmGem
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posted May 27, 2015 06:57 AM
speaking of choking. I was choked a few weeks ago. Loved it. but i started getting light headed.... eeeek. there's a fine line.IP: Logged |
Stawr
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posted May 27, 2015 11:45 AM
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Originally posted by EmGem:
speaking of choking. I was choked a few weeks ago. Loved it. but i started getting light headed.... eeeek. there's a fine line.
sweet! I don't mind getting light headed. LOL IP: Logged |
Stawr
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posted May 27, 2015 11:57 AM
They guy I'm dating now, has observed that I get very horny when I drink. One time at a party he told me to stop drinking calm down and have some water. I was giving him an intense look. LOL
He later told me he doesn't want to be "that couple" that is all over each other at a party. I can truly respect that, and that is something I plan on being mindful of. I blame the water in my chart for having that clingy side. (Scorp Moon, Venus Pisces, Jupiter Cancer, Pluto Scorpio)
I drink a little bit more now that I quit smoking. IP: Logged |
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