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Topic: A quick question about a 7th house stellium
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hannaramaa Moderator Posts: 11178 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted May 25, 2015 05:21 PM
If you have Saturn, Uranus and/or Neptune in the 7th house like myself, is that the same as having an honorary Venus in Capricorn / Aquarius / Pisces?IP: Logged |
theunknown Knowflake Posts: 2841 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted May 25, 2015 07:12 PM
Almost but not exactly.You will have lots of 7th house needs that are not typical of cap venus placement alone. 7th house is your shadow house. Read into these IP: Logged |
hannaramaa Moderator Posts: 11178 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted May 25, 2015 08:02 PM
Do you like Alyssa Sharpe? I do, just curious 'cause she called it that too and it was the first time I heard it. After all these years I can recognize the three themes in the people I love or like, and I can see them in myself, but I can't articulate how the 7th house relates back to one's personality unless...would you agree the 7th house is basically everything you don't see yourself as until you meet other people / anyone? The house that has all the good / bad things you like about people but don't see yourself as having? 7th house needs that aren't the same as a Cap Venus... IP: Logged |
theunknown Knowflake Posts: 2841 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted May 25, 2015 09:31 PM
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hannaramaa Moderator Posts: 11178 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted May 25, 2015 09:42 PM
Okay slowly getting it...maybe I just need to analyze way more 7th houses. I didn't realize Venus related to values? Oh I have Venus in Aries. The way you described yours, I thought "Yeah I definitely value directness!" So someone with Mars in Gemini in the 7th would value a relationship they can argue in and have lots of sex? Or I guess physicality in general. IP: Logged |
theunknown Knowflake Posts: 2841 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted May 25, 2015 10:21 PM
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hannaramaa Moderator Posts: 11178 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted May 25, 2015 10:48 PM
I felt smothered once, but most of the time feel I smother them (and I think that's Pluto in the 5th coming out) but NO THEY DIDNT PUT IN THE WORK! Is there a way to reverse that??? You'd think having Saturn there means I'd attract a reliable partner. Any idea on how to make a combo like those three work? I think I kept equating repetition with intimacy and with my last two intense involvements I realized that is not the case.
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ReachingForTheStars Knowflake Posts: 418 From: second star to the right, and straight on till morning Registered: Dec 2013
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posted May 25, 2015 10:57 PM
Hi HannaMaybe this will help... I read somewhere about angles potentially functioning in an input/output capacity where the IC/DC receives energy, and the AC/MC expresses it. In fact, the whole chart is like this. This is the same concept expressed in Lotis White's thread, "The 5th and the 11th … Love Given and Love Received." Within the natal chart, this dynamic manifest like a fruit tree that absorbs nutrients through its roots, and gives off fruit at the opposite end. Hope that makes sense to you. A lot of time we fixate on the ends of the spectrum seeing them as separate when in fact, YOUR entire chart is a function of who YOU are. So, my understanding is that you learn a lot about yourself through partnering. Say you meet someone who finds (saturn) stability and security in (Uranus) expressing his authentic self, and no matter how strange or unconventional he seems, he (neptune) accepts and loves who he is unconditionally. You notice you like these qualities and want to be more like this person, so you evolve by integrating these qualities into your personality (still expressed by the AC). Negatively, you could be meeting men who are (saturn) insecure because he is (Uranus) unstable and struggling with who he is, but you don't find this out immediately because initially, (neptune) he seems perfect! Although negative, this dynamic also teaches you about your likes and dislikes. Perhaps you're not being who you want to be, and his struggle reminds you of this and causes you rethink your path. Maybe these three planets represent different people who introduce you to (Uranus) new thing, (saturn) demonstrate responsibility and ambition in a way you relate to, or (neptune) sparks an interest in art. Of course identifying what this all means is never this simplistic, but it's a start. Essentially, relationships are a conduit of becoming who you really are. What is cultivated at one end is absorbed and expressed at the other. It's a theory to consider.
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hannaramaa Moderator Posts: 11178 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted May 25, 2015 11:29 PM
So it's not necessarily about what you have or don't have that the 7th house possesses... but more so describes the partners you're attracted to at different stages in life, but everyone's 7th house is going to teach them about themselves because it's normal for people to mirror each other, right? How does the DSC influence any planets in there? On top of that mess mine is in Sagittarius! I have nearly all the outer lying planets involved in my romantic affairs somehow.
Thank you and theunknown for taking the time out to help me! I may not absorb the idea very fast but eventually it'll click. IP: Logged |