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zirr1
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posted May 26, 2015 01:57 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for zirr1     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi, I am wondering what are your personal experiences, good and bad, of people whos sun isin Cancer ? Thanks

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Aries23Degrees
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posted May 27, 2015 05:28 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aries23Degrees     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I think this position is great if there is a Taurus/Libra/Sag Moon to go with it.

I have had an experience with Cancer Sun/ Pisces Moon.

My Scorpio/Cancer placement was seduced by the Moon position.

Well....nuff said

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charlie
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posted May 27, 2015 06:13 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for charlie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I don't have any good experiences with Cancer Suns. I am one myself. I prefer the energies of houses my personal planets are located in; 11/5, and that would be Aquarius and Leo.

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Doux Rêve
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posted May 27, 2015 07:48 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Doux Rêve     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Uh, not very good.

I don't want to bash the sign, but the ones I have known are too sensitive and take things personally, are easily slighted/offended, have trouble being emotionally mature and being self-aware.

Also, very often they can be manipulative and I haven't found them to be that nurturing nor empathetic. (Hell, Air signs are usually more helpful.)

They can be sweet and kind, though. When they're not busy being moody.

Oh and some of them are really funny! Big plus.

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posted May 27, 2015 08:30 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Koniucha     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I know two perSonally. My dad and a guy I had a crush on in the past. Both have air moons.

My dad is a complete pushover that hates dealing with any problems. Just avoids confrontation.

The guy is actually the reason I got deeper into astrology. He strung me along for 6 mos only to tell me he suddenly needs space. Is now in a relationship and keeps trying to contact me to get together. Nope. He has Venus in Gemini also.

Unfortunately, nothing really positive to say at the moment.

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posted May 27, 2015 11:04 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for goddessofthemoon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I feel they always have a back up plan.

In my opinion, they are very kind. They're the perfect gentleman and know exactly how to make me laugh. But I don't feel like I could trust them.

The first Cancer I dated was in my senior year of HS. He had been courting me for a year but I never paid him any mind. He would always look at me and try to talk, make me laugh, and even try to be my partner in class. But I was stone cold. Anyway, I eventually did open up and we were very flirty. He would hold my bags, walk me to class, sit with me instead of his friends, and when I sprained my ankle, he was my little body guard But out of the blue, he got into a relationship with someone else. I was with a guy friend in the hallway who kissed me and when cancer guy saw it, a week later, he was with someone else. He still wanted to be my friend after that but I ignored him like the plague lol

My most recent Cancer... Same thing. Perfect gentleman and funny. He made me feel really good and was just a sweetheart. However, I was already in a relationship with someone else when he told me he had feelings for me. He asked me to choose between him and my boyfriend, and of course, I chose my boyfriend even though we had problems and I knew Cancerboy would treat me better. Anyway, Cancerboy waited 7 months and the last straw was when I went out to Valentine's Day with my boy and posted it... Cancerboy blocked me on social media and a week later, was in a relationship with someone else.

My experience with Cancer men make me NEVER want to give them a try again. It seems like they always have a back up girl and that is a definite blow to the ego lol

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posted May 27, 2015 08:45 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for bansheequeen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Always look to their moon. The moon placement is very important to cancer Suns! Dan because if this, they are such a mixed bag. Seriously.

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posted May 27, 2015 09:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sunflower-moon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by goddessofthemoon:
I feel they always have a back up plan.

In my opinion, they are very kind. They're the perfect gentleman and know exactly how to make me laugh. But I don't feel like I could trust them.

The first Cancer I dated was in my senior year of HS. He had been courting me for a year but I never paid him any mind. He would always look at me and try to talk, make me laugh, and even try to be my partner in class. But I was stone cold. Anyway, I eventually did open up and we were very flirty. He would hold my bags, walk me to class, sit with me instead of his friends, and when I sprained my ankle, he was my little body guard But out of the blue, he got into a relationship with someone else. I was with a guy friend in the hallway who kissed me and when cancer guy saw it, a week later, he was with someone else. He still wanted to be my friend after that but I ignored him like the plague lol

My most recent Cancer... Same thing. Perfect gentleman and funny. He made me feel really good and was just a sweetheart. However, I was already in a relationship with someone else when he told me he had feelings for me. He asked me to choose between him and my boyfriend, and of course, I chose my boyfriend even though we had problems and I knew Cancerboy would treat me better. Anyway, Cancerboy waited 7 months and the last straw was when I went out to Valentine's Day with my boy and posted it... Cancerboy blocked me on social media and a week later, was in a relationship with someone else.

My experience with Cancer men make me NEVER want to give them a try again. It seems like they always have a back up girl and that is a definite blow to the ego lol



I almost dated a Cancer Sun and I had the exact experience! I was interested in him but my gut told me not to trust him and I followed it. He pursued for months even after I told him nothing would happen & when I got into a relationship - he was gone and had a girlfriend within 2 weeks. Weird thing is, I'm a Cancer Sun and I could never and would never do anything like that. Makes me wonder how many other girls he was pursuing whilst pursuing me, or who else he was trying to put the moves on. Do you know what your Cancer's Venus signs were?

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posted May 28, 2015 01:42 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for sxorpia     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
Uh, not very good.

I don't want to bash the sign, but the ones I have known are too sensitive and take things personally, are easily slighted/offended, have trouble being emotionally mature and being self-aware.

Also, very often they can be manipulative and I haven't found them to be that nurturing nor empathetic. (Hell, Air signs are usually more helpful.)



quote:
Originally posted by goddessofthemoon:
I feel they always have a back up plan.

In my opinion, they are very kind. They're the perfect gentleman and know exactly how to make me laugh. But I don't feel like I could trust them.


Hypersensitivity, emotional immaturity, the ignorance/inability to recognize and mend these behavior patterns within themselves, so instead they'll clumsily attempt to re-narrativize situations to stand in their favor, psychological projection, "back up plans", etc etc.. all stem from deep seated insecurities that one quickly grows tired of as it's on par with dealing with a child. solar and other planetary aspects should be considered but overall, a resounding no on cancer suns until further notice. That said, I do really like cancer moons… I think the lunar essence plays out with much more internal as well as external ease and acceptance..

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deptic
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posted May 28, 2015 02:43 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for deptic     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I know a cancer sun.


she easy to get angry/annoyed lol
she acts tough but down inside (i can see) a lil soft, sensitive lil girl wanting/waiting to be loved by the right guy.

she gets heated quickly, start cussing real loud n stuff. love her tho

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ElizabethO
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posted May 28, 2015 10:48 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ElizabethO     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm an emotional wrecking ball. Cancer Sun/Scorpio Moon/Libra Rising.

I throw really great dinner parties though?

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posted May 28, 2015 11:25 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Steph22922     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I had a close friend who was a Cancer sun. She was really moody and got angry over the slightest things. She usually acted really caring and empathetic towards me but after awhile I realized she was that way with everyone, and it was sort of fake. She tried to be overly nice to everyone in an attempt to be on everyone's good side then she would talk about them behind their backs. I came to see her "caring" nature for what it really was, manipulation at its finest.

She was also in a relationship with an emotionally/psychologically abusive Scorpio, and still is. He treats her like crap yet she still stays with him no matter what and I just don't get it. After getting closer to her she just seemed really emotionally unstable and immature and the whole situation just became too much for me, so we're no longer friends.

I see in alot of places where people think of Cancer people as just being outright crazy, and while I can't argue against that, I believe it has to do with their overall placements, as well as if they had a good upbringing. If a Cancer can learn to rationalize their emotions before freaking out about something, and use their caring nature for good reasons rather than manipulating people, I believe they can be pretty "normal".

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Doux Rêve
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posted May 28, 2015 11:46 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Doux Rêve     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by sxorpia:
That said, I do really like cancer moons… I think the lunar essence plays out with much more internal as well as external ease and acceptance..

Agreed (even though there are some pretty batty Cancer Moons, too).

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FruityLlama
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posted May 28, 2015 06:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for FruityLlama     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
This is probably not valid, but I'll answer anyway, if you don't mind

I find Cancer suns can act really coy, I've noticed with celebrities- they guard their privacy with their life, which yeah I get but you see them in interviews and all they do is squirm and try and avoid questions. I just feel like screaming at them sometimes, just answer the question!!! No one's gonna care that much!!

In real life though, I know two cancer suns, one is cancer rising also. She's okay, like I can see straight through her but I have no strong opinion of her. She is very much out for herself, but you know she's pleasant enough if youre not too close.

I'm good friends with a Cancer sun guy, he has an Aquarius moon, I think, and he is a fantastic comedian! The girl could be funny too actually. He isn't too flirty or anything, he's pretty laid back. He also goes to the gym a lot, makes out he's a proper lad, but y'know, we know Cancers eh

I think Cancer sun is a lovely sun to have as is all of the signs aha, but again it really depends. Mixed with a lot of air can make them funny and friendly, but with fire it makes them quite impulsive, or outspoken at the same time, neither of which are particularly bad traits I don't think. Because water is easily moved I reckon its the most affected/modified by the chart y'know.

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posted May 28, 2015 06:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Marandana     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I know plenty of cancer suns, I either like them or dislike them, there's nothing in between. But sometimes, the thing I find annoying about them, is their emotional rollercoaster behaviour, and if I'm in a bad mood I just can't keep up with them.

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posted May 28, 2015 07:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for goddessofthemoon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by sunflower-moon:

I almost dated a Cancer Sun and I had the exact experience! I was interested in him but my gut told me not to trust him and I followed it. He pursued for months even after I told him nothing would happen & when I got into a relationship - he was gone and had a girlfriend within 2 weeks. Weird thing is, I'm a Cancer Sun and I could never and would never do anything like that. Makes me wonder how many other girls he was pursuing whilst pursuing me, or who else he was trying to put the moves on. Do you know what your Cancer's Venus signs were?

I'm a bit relieved I'm not the only one that has gone through this lol but I know! I was wondering the same thing.. How many girls was he waiting around for? It definitely didn't make me feel special anymore knowing how they could just switch the game like that.

I don't know the first cancer's placements, but the second Cancer sun is a Virgo Moon & Gemini Venus. I'm a Capricorn sun & Aqua Venus.

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Originally posted by sxorpia:
Hypersensitivity, emotional immaturity, the ignorance/inability to recognize and mend these behavior patterns within themselves, so instead they'll clumsily attempt to re-narrativize situations to stand in their favor, psychological projection, "back up plans", etc etc.. all stem from deep seated insecurities that one quickly grows tired of as it's on par with dealing with a child. solar and other planetary aspects should be considered but overall, a resounding no on cancer suns until further notice. That said, I do really like cancer moons… I think the lunar essence plays out with much more internal as well as external ease and acceptance..

Agreed!!! Definite emotional immaturity and that is something I cannot handle. I know both Cancer suns I have dealt with were insecure, but the one I got closest to really let out all his fears and about his past, but he definitely did act like a kid and was a bit all over the place. That being said, my niece is a Cancer and I love her to pieces My oldest sister is a Cancer as well and she can be a little dramatic and gets mad when we don't hang out as often as she'd like, but I still love her to. I have Cancer in the 12th house.

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posted May 29, 2015 06:48 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for cultstatus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I seem to exclusively attract Cancer sun men! It's not so bad when their moon is Aries but generally I agree with the above that they can take things way too personally and are at times be manipulative to get their own way! They are definitely the sentimental type though and seem to hang onto relationships and memories when you've clearly moved on. Just my experiences. They are usually pretty funny and have a great sense of humour.

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