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Topic: best secret keeper signs?
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plutoandcap Knowflake Posts: 87 From: Registered: May 2015
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posted May 26, 2015 05:52 PM
so i'm cap stellium and i can keep a secret. so good. but i'm wondering what other signs are good at keeping secrets?I'm asking because i just met someone - new friend- and i don't know why but i told him something i wasn't planning to tell anyone for some time. and i'm wondering if he's going to spill it... kinda concern - he's libra sun, leo moon, libra mercery, venus virgo, mars aries .. so can those placements keep a secret? what other signs are trustworthy? IP: Logged |
starmoon Knowflake Posts: 1674 From: Registered: Sep 2011
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posted May 26, 2015 06:16 PM
quote: Originally posted by plutoandcap: so i'm cap stellium and i can keep a secret. so good. but i'm wondering what other signs are good at keeping secrets?I'm asking because i just met someone - new friend- and i don't know why but i told him something i wasn't planning to tell anyone for some time. and i'm wondering if he's going to spill it... kinda concern - he's [b] libra sun, leo moon, libra mercery, venus virgo, mars aries .. so can those placements keep a secret? what other signs are trustworthy?[/B]
those libra signs... no way, and with a leo moon... i wouldn't trust them with an innermost secret. there is something about libra mercury that wants to just tell stuff to people - remember that libra is the sign that likes sharing! and leo is the sign that wants people to like them, so if a secret can get them a friend... well, not my personal faves for telling things to. best bet for secrets are the scorpios and caps imo, perhaps the virgo people too.
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PixieJane Moderator Posts: 6428 From: CA Registered: Oct 2010
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posted May 26, 2015 06:17 PM
Depends. If this secret you spilled affects someone he's close to then it's a danger. If he felt your secret was about something unethical or unjust that silence will condone then that would make it even more likely he'll spill, particularly if he feels someone needs to be warned (this is especially likely if you were warning him against someone he considers close in which case you can expect it to be spilled). Otherwise, based solely on what you shared, I wouldn't worry much about it, though obviously it would've been better if you hadn't shared it as ultimately how this secret affects him and those he's close to as well as how evolved he is (and the nature of the secret) is going to be the primary factor. IP: Logged |
plutoandcap Knowflake Posts: 87 From: Registered: May 2015
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posted May 26, 2015 06:21 PM
quote: Originally posted by PixieJane: Depends. If this secret you spilled affects someone he's close to then it's a danger. If he felt your secret was about something unethical or unjust that silence will condone then that would make it even more likely he'll spill, particularly if he feels someone needs to be warned (this is especially likely if you were warning him against someone he considers close in which case you can expect it to be spilled). Otherwise, based solely on what you shared, I wouldn't worry much about it, though obviously it would've been better if you hadn't shared it as ultimately how this secret affects him and those he's close to as well as how evolved he is (and the nature of the secret) is going to be the primary factor.
it's nothing to do with him. its just my future plans that i don't want anyone to know because it isn't in concrete yet :S IP: Logged |
PixieJane Moderator Posts: 6428 From: CA Registered: Oct 2010
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posted May 26, 2015 06:23 PM
According to Linda Goodman Libras have pretty good ethics (fairness) about these things...they won't read your mail without your permission for example, even if you're living together, and I've found that to be generally true. Furthermore, if Libra spills every secret on an impulse then pretty soon others stop sharing with Libra which is something Libra realizes. The Libra along with the touch of Virgo is why I said the above...the Leo moon has an affect but probably not much of one against what I said and though the impulsive Aries mars is more of a concern I don't think it should be much of one as it motivates more on HOW a person acts rather than why...which is why I said if keeping this secret is unethical (such as warning him of a love interest which would likely be seen as manipulative rather than helpful) then it's a danger. Furthermore, I wouldn't trust a Scorpio I just met with a secret. Scorpio would probably keep it (as long as it didn't affect him and his friends & allies) but may find ways to use it against me and also judge me harshly for having revealed it in the first place to someone I just met. (A close Scorpio friend is another matter entirely, of course.) IP: Logged |
PixieJane Moderator Posts: 6428 From: CA Registered: Oct 2010
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posted May 26, 2015 06:27 PM
quote: Originally posted by plutoandcap: it's nothing to do with him. its just my future plans that i don't want anyone to know because it isn't in concrete yet :S
In that case it seems unlikely to worry about...unless you didn't tell him that this is a secret. What you tell someone you just met about your future plans isn't necessarily considered secret material so he may not understand it's a secret and would reasonably assume those who know you better already know (which means he's unlikely to bring it up anyway unless he's surprised by something in which case he'd see nothing wrong with it as he doesn't understand it's a secret). But if he knows it's supposed to be a secret then he'll probably keep it, based on what you've shared. I'd make an exception if this was a confrontation you're planning on but since it doesn't affect him then it still shouldn't be a problem. IP: Logged |
plutoandcap Knowflake Posts: 87 From: Registered: May 2015
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posted May 26, 2015 06:31 PM
quote: Originally posted by PixieJane: In that case it seems unlikely to worry about...unless you didn't tell him that this is a secret. What you tell someone you just met about your future plans isn't necessarily considered secret material so he may not understand it's a secret and would reasonably assume those who know you better already know (which means he's unlikely to bring it up anyway unless he's surprised by something in which case he'd see nothing wrong with it as he doesn't understand it's a secret). But if he knows it's supposed to be a secret then he'll probably keep it, based on what you've shared.I'd make an exception if this was a confrontation you're planning on but since it doesn't affect him then it still shouldn't be a problem.
it's not the first time we met, like we know each other.. we're classmates. and he doesn't have the same plans as i do, his is completely different and concrete. i told him it's a secret and he said he'd keep it secret and understands why id want to keep it on the down low. can't find a reason for him to tell anyone. and no one else knows so for him to tell it'd literally have to be 'hey guess what i found out' really regretting even talking to him over the course of this year now :S IP: Logged |
GemBird82 Knowflake Posts: 530 From: Female bird from France Registered: Feb 2014
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posted May 26, 2015 08:52 PM
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LaceyLeigh Knowflake Posts: 163 From: New Jersey Registered: Jul 2014
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posted May 26, 2015 08:54 PM
Probably not. Libra/Leo's are blabbermouths unless some placements fall into their 12th houses.I find people with planets in their 12th/4th/8th houses are very quiet/secretive about things. But everyone has the potential to be a blabbermouth.. IP: Logged |
goddessofthemoon Knowflake Posts: 653 From: Manhattan Registered: Dec 2014
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posted May 26, 2015 09:41 PM
I have a cap stelium also but I am NOT one to keep secrets I blame it on my Leo ASC.Aqua sun and moon are the best secret holders in my opinion. No one can top them. IP: Logged |
ElizabethO Knowflake Posts: 598 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted May 26, 2015 10:21 PM
I may be biased, but I would only trust an Earth Sun, Aquarius, or Cancer with a deep, serious secret. Everyone else is liable to let it slip.IP: Logged |
alyssa27 Knowflake Posts: 183 From: Registered: Sep 2014
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posted May 27, 2015 01:50 AM
i'm a leo sun+mercury,libra moon,cancer asc+venus+jupiter,mars in taurus and i'm keeping so many secrets..i keep secrets since i was a kid..i don't know why but everyone comes to me with their secrets...and all these years i only revealed one secret and it was a revenge thing..one advice-if a secret is really important to u don't tell anyone IP: Logged |
Geminiyoungster Knowflake Posts: 199 From: Registered: Jun 2013
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posted May 27, 2015 03:16 AM
quote: Originally posted by starmoon: those libra signs... no way, and with a leo moon... i wouldn't trust them with an innermost secret. there is something about libra mercury that wants to just tell stuff to people - remember that libra is the sign that likes sharing! and leo is the sign that wants people to like them, so if a secret can get them a friend... well, not my personal faves for telling things to. best bet for secrets are the scorpios and caps imo, perhaps the virgo people too.
Damn, I would never tell ppl secrets to anyone and I'm a Leo moon. I have moon square Pluto so that could be the reason? A libra,yes! I noticed they can trust ppl alot.. I know a Scorpio who tells everybody business, but sometimes I don't think he's telling the truth with his birthday because I've never seen a Scorpio talk and lie so damn much! A Scorpio will also tell your secrets to be vindictive. He may have a Libra Mercury though, that would explain a lot. IP: Logged |
Kannon McAfee Knowflake Posts: 730 From: Portland, OR - USA Registered: Oct 2011
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posted May 27, 2015 01:07 PM
Generally Virgo, Cap, Scorpio. But don't lay trustworthiness at the feet of signs. People are trustworthy and this increases as you know them and build trust. I could mention these signs, but if you show me someone with Moon in Aries that you are concerned will spill the beans, but I see they have Saturn conjunct/parallel or opposite/contra-parallel their Moon that changes everything. ------------------ Astrology & natural medicine blog: 3D full sky astrology with declinations Complete Rising Sign descriptions IP: Logged |
Gabby Moderator Posts: 6503 From: Registered: Sep 2012
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posted May 27, 2015 01:43 PM
Even with my big mouth saggy stellium sun/merc/nep, I won't tell secrets. I won't even try to remember them because it's to much work and then I get in the middle of a lot of drama, which I abhor...I just want to be happy!! Lol I give that secretive/quiet/loyal characteristic to my Virgo moon in 12th and Pluto on my libra AC.
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