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posted May 26, 2015 11:15 PM            

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I've always been cold and hard when it comes to affection,or showing emotions. My expectations in love and relationships is very "strict", and as for my Leo mars the only thing Leo about it is that I have a big ego and it gets hurt easily but as far as drive I think it's very Capricorn like because I always feel STUCK. Virgo venus Leo mars in 10th house Leo. Saturn in 5th house. Plz help me figure myself out

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posted May 27, 2015 03:44 AM            

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Those strict views of yours might very well come from your virgo venus to. Virgo venus seeks perfection and even if they settle for less than that then they will try to make it "perfect" at every account. Like "fixing" the flaws of someone etc. But yeah those house placings can give you capricorn like qualities to, and with saturn in your 5th house that just adds more seriousness to that area of your life. Saturn in 5th do also have a hard time having fun with anything regarding that house even if they wanted to. Do you have saturn aspects to your personal planets or ascendant esp hard ones too?

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posted May 27, 2015 10:01 AM            

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Thanks for the reply and yeah the only other Saturn aspect I have is mercury square Saturn at 7 degrees so it's loose so idk how relevant that may be. What else can you tell me about Saturn 5th house? I feel like it's a huge role in my life, kind of like a setback in things but I guess it helps me have morals, and be realistic

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Originally posted by Dreaminess:
Those strict views of yours might very well come from your virgo venus to. Virgo venus seeks perfection and even if they settle for less than that then they will try to make it "perfect" at every account. Like "fixing" the flaws of someone etc. But yeah those house placings can give you capricorn like qualities to, and with saturn in your 5th house that just adds more seriousness to that area of your life. Saturn in 5th do also have a hard time having fun with anything regarding that house even if they wanted to. Do you have saturn aspects to your personal planets or ascendant esp hard ones too?

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posted May 27, 2015 03:10 PM            

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Anything regarding that house will be taken seriously, like romance children etc. You might be insecure in those areas in your life too bc i think i read once that where saturn is placed in ones birthchart shows our insecurity and fears. You might also meet "blockages" in that area in your life, like when you want to have fun it never seems to be as fun as you hoped something would be or romance don`t come easily to you bc of some "blockage" etc. Nothing comes easy with saturn, he always puts hard tasks to complete before he rewards.

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posted May 27, 2015 04:15 PM            

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Your description of being cold and hard when it comes to expressing emotions I'd say is related to your Virgo Venus and your 5H Saturn.

Venus in Virgo can be cold as well as shy, inhibited, and critical. It's very picky when it comes to love. But the 5H Saturn suggests there's more going on. It can indicate a feeling of being unloved, which can come from early family experiences, so self-love may be an issue. I don't know if this is true of you but the cold and hard exterior may be a protective device against being hurt. But, in any event, Saturn in the 5H suggests a difficulty in opening the heart and restricts the expression of feeling.

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