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CuriousPisces
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posted May 27, 2015 11:01 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for CuriousPisces     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
anyone had this experience before?

I love you but I hate you, I hate you but then again, I still love you.

ARGH!

cant stand the sight of her but cant stop thinking about her.. so frustrating!

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Geminiyoungster
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posted May 27, 2015 11:48 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Geminiyoungster     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by CuriousPisces:
anyone had this experience before?

I love you but I hate you, I hate you but then again, I still love you.

ARGH!

cant stand the sight of her but cant stop thinking about her.. so frustrating!



Are you a pisces with any libra placements?

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posted May 27, 2015 12:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for astra7     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Venus Sq Pluto OR Venus opp. Pluto

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posted May 27, 2015 12:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for birdsong     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Cyberhug and I hope you're ok.

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posted May 27, 2015 12:20 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for CuriousPisces     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm a pisces, but no Libra placement natally (does House VII in Libra counts? Other than this, no Libra) No Venus hard aspect to Pluto as well natally.

But Venus Conjunct Pluto in composite..

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posted May 27, 2015 12:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for CuriousPisces     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by birdsong:
Cyberhug and I hope you're ok.


Thank you!

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posted May 27, 2015 01:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Orange     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
well, post the synastry then

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posted May 27, 2015 07:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Liliya     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I would give this feeling to Uranus aspects. Venus/Uranus in Natal or Synastry.

I have a Venus/Uranus square, and I had this love/hate feeling in most of my relationships.

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posted May 27, 2015 08:33 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Odette     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Sounds like Pluto! What Pluto aspects do you have in synastry?

I've developed a strong distaste for love/hate-type situations.

It's weird.. I used to be really fascinated with this kind of relationship.
Now I'm bored, over it... and would take the nearest *Exit*, if I got the feeling things were heading in this direction.

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posted May 27, 2015 09:04 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for bansheequeen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Pretty much what's been said. Pluto and Uranus synastry. Uranus aspects in the natal.

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posted May 27, 2015 10:42 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for EmGem     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
yes indeed uranus comes to bite you on the butt again.
experiencing this now but it's not hate....it's more i want you, i shouldnt want you so i don't, but i want you, its too much so i won't....anyway... composite venus opposite uranus

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posted May 27, 2015 10:49 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for EmGem     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
dbl post

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posted May 28, 2015 08:04 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for CuriousPisces     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Liliya:
I would give this feeling to Uranus aspects. Venus/Uranus in Natal or Synastry.

I have a Venus/Uranus square, and I had this love/hate feeling in most of my relationships.


Surprisingly, I don't have Venus/Uranus in Natal and Synastry

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posted May 28, 2015 08:06 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for CuriousPisces     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Odette:
Sounds like Pluto! What Pluto aspects do you have in synastry?

I've developed a strong distaste for love/hate-type situations.

It's weird.. I used to be really fascinated with this kind of relationship.
Now I'm bored, over it... and would take the nearest *Exit*, if I got the feeling things were heading in this direction.


Our plutos in Synastry:

Me to hers:
Pluto Sextile The Sun 3°59'
Pluto Sextile Neptune 2°08'
Pluto Conjunction Pluto 5°28'
Pluto Square The North Node 2°52'
Pluto Square The South Node 2°52'

Hers to Mine:
Pluto Trine The Sun 0°22'
Pluto Opposition Mars 6°04'
Pluto Conjunction Pluto 5°28'

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posted May 28, 2015 08:09 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for CuriousPisces     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by bansheequeen:
Pretty much what's been said. Pluto and Uranus synastry. Uranus aspects in the natal.

No Pluto/Uranus in Synastry.


My natal with Uranus:
Jupiter Square Uranus 4.21 -22
Saturn Conjunction Uranus 5.47 118

Hers:
Uranus Conjunction Neptune 6.16 75

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posted May 28, 2015 08:23 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Liliya     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by CuriousPisces:
No Pluto/Uranus in Synastry.


I could be wrong, but I don't think she meant Uranus/Pluto aspects between each other, but other Pluto and Uranus aspects to other planets.

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posted May 29, 2015 11:14 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for CuriousPisces     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Liliya:
I could be wrong, but I don't think she meant Uranus/Pluto aspects between each other, but other Pluto and Uranus aspects to other planets.

Oh!! So sorry, I'm still so not familiar with astrology. Don't know which aspect does what as well

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posted August 10, 2015 08:55 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Stellar.pleasure     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
From personal experience, natally I would say Venus square Pluto.

In synastry, Moon opposite Uranus, with me being Uranus. Not sure how he felt, but I would go back and forth. There would be times when after doing the deed, I would just want to be around him but he would have things to do so I would leave while upset and not want anything to do with him. I just wanted some more closeness. Having a Libra moon probably doesn't help either. Super indecisive. It was and still is a vicious cycle.

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posted August 10, 2015 09:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for wheresthemoon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yeah Venus/Pluto natally would do that. I have the opposition and I don't think I've ever had a relationship where I didn't vacillate between love and hatred. I guess stnastry would be the same.

Like they said, Uranus also, since Uranus shakes things up and brings dramatic and sudden changes.

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posted August 10, 2015 09:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for wheresthemoon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Maybe Neptune? It can make you idealize someone and then when the veil is lifted the cold hard truth is ugly.

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posted August 10, 2015 09:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Moving to Interpersonal Astrology.

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